With You in the Weeds

Managing Sibling Conflict


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In this episode of our “Parenting in the Weeds” series, Austin Connor and Shay Roush tackle the universal challenge of sibling conflict. Whether you're dealing with daily squabbles between young kids, quiet resentment among teens, or lingering rivalries into adulthood, this episode offers practical insights and strategies to manage conflict effectively. 


Conflict amongst siblings is real and spans all ages: from fights over toys and screen time with young kids to resentment over perceived favoritism among teens or adults. The goal isn’t to eliminate conflict entirely but to manage it, acknowledging its presence and working toward healthier relationships.


Shay and Austin discuss the 3 main causes of sibling conflict, as well as 5 practical solutions to handle it including:

  1. Connect with each child individually
  2. Delight, celebrate, and laugh together as a family
  3. Avoid comparing your children
  4. Set patterns of reconciliation, apologizing, and forgiveness
  5. Be proactive about end-of-life matters and money

  6. The biggest takeaway from this episode is that “Your children may be competitive and compete with each other, but they should never have to compete for your love.”  

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