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"How often should married couples have sex?" It's the question many ask but few discuss openly. In this refreshingly candid conversation, Ken and Tabatha break through the awkwardness to address what happens when physical intimacy fades in marriage.

Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, they challenge conventional wisdom about bedroom dynamics with their revolutionary principle: "Only one person needs to be in the mood for sex to happen." This perspective shift alone has rescued countless relationships from the clinically-defined "sexless marriage" (less than 10 times per year).

The hosts don't shy away from addressing real challenges couples face: changing libidos, physical issues, loss of attraction, and the dreaded "not tonight" rejection. Their practical advice includes a powerful rule—if you decline your spouse's advances, initiate within 24 hours to prevent emotional distance from growing.

You'll discover why planning sex might be exactly what your marriage needs, why both spouses should take turns initiating, and why touching throughout the day creates the foundation for deeper connection. Ken and Tabitha blend spiritual wisdom with practical strategies, offering seven keys to revitalizing physical intimacy that apply whether you've been married for months or decades.

This episode provides a judgment-free zone where couples can find hope and practical steps forward. Whether you're in a season of thriving intimacy or struggling to reconnect physically, these insights will transform how you approach one of marriage's most important dimensions. Ready to strengthen your connection? Listen, apply these principles, and watch your relationship grow closer than ever before.

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