After Hours With Amanda

Maybe They Don’t Need a Comparison, They Need Safety | After Hours With Amanda Ep. 66


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In this episode, I’m talking about health anxiety, holiday pressure, missed opportunities, Disney dreams, and the measuring stick we sometimes use without realizing it. You know, the one that says, “I wish homework was my biggest problem,” or turns someone else’s hard day into a comparison contest.

This one is about parenting tiny humans, listening without keeping score, validating feelings, and remembering that someone else’s hard thing is still hard, even if yours looks bigger from the outside.

I am not here as an expert. I am here as a mom and human still learning right alongside you.

00:00 The Sweatshirt I’m Afraid to Stain
00:47 When Certain Situations Make Anxiety Louder
02:25 Health PTSD, Grief, and Naming What’s Scary
04:15 Selling Sunset, Kids Meals, and Life Catch Up
05:26 Disney Plans, TikTok Live, and Figuring It Out
06:45 Disney Destiny and Dreaming About a Cruise
08:50 Disney Studios, Big Goals, and Getting Sick
10:56 Canceling a Disney World Invite
12:04 Give Yourself Five Minutes to Be Disappointed
13:28 Thank God That Wasn’t Mine
15:39 Holiday Pressure and Joyful Choices
17:45 Tiny Queens, Guests, and Wanting to Be a Mom
19:06 Feeling Like You’re Not Doing Enough
23:19 The Measuring Stick We Use With Kids
26:17 Why Kids’ Problems Are Still Real Problems
28:08 Meltdowns, Distress, and Missing Tools
30:08 Listening Without Making It About Me
32:56 How Keeping Score Shuts Down Communication
35:41 Support Each Other Instead of Competing
37:06 The Goal for More Consistent Episodes
39:15 Adam, Belonging, and Making People Feel Seen
40:20 Tiny Humans, Inner Children, and Repair
42:51 You Cannot Miss What Is Planned for You

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