Ever heard about the “Singaporean dream”? Common connotations of success in Singapore always seem to echo around these key aspects: Education, stable career, settle down before 30, buy a BTO. While women are very much recognised for their ambitions and careers in modern day and age, marriage and motherhood seem to still be a vital part of the equation for women to seem “complete”. Do men get the same pressure to settle down? 

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It’s no secret that guys and girls communicate differently with their closest friends. But why does it always seem like both genders have such a hard time communicating with each other? In this episode, we want to explore the science of it and the myths that surround it. From one-word replies to looking uninterested, we invite a male guest to dissect the thought process and the meaning behind their words – or lack thereof.

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Multiple surveys and studies have documented men’s changing attitudes toward women in recent years: There is almost universal support for women to pursue careers and political office, and attitudes have become far more accepting around gender identity. But when it comes to the home front, traditional values still dominate.

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Cooking for women is often seen as the ultimate act of domesticity. It means we’re mature and capable of nurturing—maybe even wife material. 2But today, women are pursuing other interests outside of the kitchen. It’s no longer surprising that some modern women don’t even know how to properly hold a knife. And so, we question: do guys really mind if their female spouse can or can’t cook? 

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All healthy relationships have boundaries — from friends and family to colleagues and acquaintances. You can’t see them, but these lines help you retain your personal identity and maintain mutual respect. In relationships, one of the fine lines is about being “protective” of each other. But at which point should this behaviour be considered a red flag?

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If you’d murdered someone, who would you call to help you bury the corpse? Is it your best friend or your significant other?

In recent decades, people have broadened their minds to what constitutes a relationship — with themselves, their friends, and their romantic partner. Studies have shown people get married later than ever, and young adults are opting to share a home rather than a marriage license with a partner. What if friendship was at the center of our lives?

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When and how does an abusive relationship take root? When love is in the equation, things get complicated. In this episode, Sonia and guests discuss toxic relationships — different types and signs of emotional and/or physical abuse that one may experience with their partners.

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Most people are familiar with the concept of the “alpha male” – typically the physically strong, socially dominant man who is more often than not successful in their career and life. On the other hand, the alpha female is only a more recent phenomenon thanks to the feminist movement. However, women still often feel the need to tone-down or apologise for their success or dominant traits to avoid getting misunderstood. In this episode, we explore the concept of being “alpha” and how it affects the way we are perceived in work and life.

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We often hear that appearance doesn't matter, it’s what’s on the inside that counts. But it’s only natural for humans to be drawn towards good looking things. Studies have consistently shown that your physical appearance can have a significant impact on your career and professional advancement. In this episode, we invite an industry veteran to explore what the local media landscape currently looks like, and how the glimpse of change might turn into something more.

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It’s no surprise to most that women face a ton of demands in order to be considered stereotypically attractive in society. What’s more uncommon is the unspoken expectations that men face to be deemed attractive as well. In this episode, two beautiful specimens of a man and a woman discuss their insecurities and how they deal with them.

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