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If you're not leveraging...you're averaging!

Becoming a leader doesn't just happen. The path to leadership is paved through your intentions and commitment. How you apply yourself in a variety of situations reflects your capacity for leading others (afterall, if you can't lead yourself, you have no business tryna direct someone else). If you want to take on a leadership role (& be any good at it), implementing these laws will help you do so.

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You can have anything you want (!) if you know how to negotiate for it ;) 

Negotiating is just like any other sales conversation. There's an art to it.

From years of being involved in persuasive conversations, I've found that there are certain "ingredients" that every successful negotiation has. Tap in to learn how to successfully negotiate anything.

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Having a mentor is a beautiful thing. 

It can be somewhat of a process to find one that you click with, but when you do...it's like magic! Mentors help us level up in ways we never could have imagined by pointing out our blind spots and provided resources and connections. 

Here's the thing, though: your work isn't done! 

Finding a good mentor is half the battle. The other half is being a good mentee. The type of mentee you are can determine the quality of your learnings as well as the enthusiasm of the mentor. 

Tap in to learn ways to be a great mentee and make the most of your mentorship.  

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There's no point in the hustle if you don't know what to do with it. It's not how much you make; it's how much you KEEP that matters. Real success with money is a combination of self-awareness and self-discipline. Today I'm sharing my money secrets...secrets that allowed me to buy myself a house for my 25th birthday. On a whim. Yeah...the tools are THAT GOOD. 

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