Dating apps can provide unique challenges and opportunities for men to meet the kinds of women they’d like to date, but… you may be bringing some incorrect assumptions that are making things harder than they have to be.

In this episode, we’ll address some common mistakes, and some easy fixes to your profile and your process.

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OK, we are post-business trip, post-COVID, post-moving day, and back to the podcast!

In this episode we'll talk about what kind of attitude women often find attractive in men, and why the absolute worst mood/attitude is always the fake one you put-on to please/attract/manipulate others.

Don't read books (or listen to podcasts--even this one) to learn how to build a fake persona.

Rule #1: Be your best
Rule #2: Be yourself--and don't skip Rule #1!
 

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If you're a human (and odds are good that you are), then you are communicating VOLUMES through your body language--far more than through your words.

In this episode, we'll discuss the rights and wrongs of knowing and using body language to communicate romantic attraction. You'll recognize a theme from previous episodes: express yourself with confidence--even when you aren't speaking.

And, at the end, we might tell you to dump/breakup with your friends.

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Most of the romantic interactions that men have with women are initiated by women--but not because she walks up and compliments you, or introduces herself. Non-verbal communication is how women usually signal their interest, and--if you're like us--you probably don't know which signals to look for.

In this episode, we'll discuss how a woman's body language can communicate romantic interest--or just as importantly--disinterest.

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Do you walk up and introduce yourself to a pretty girl? Do you try to become her friend first, and then try to transition to a dating relationship? In this episode, we'll discuss the good, bad, and ugly methods that guys use to attempt to meet and connect with ladies that they're interested in. We'll also share what has worked for us, and what has failed miserably.

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Some myth-busting in this episode! What have your parents and/or the media taught you about attraction and sexuality that might be dead wrong--or at least an incomplete version of the story? Join us this week as we discuss.

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There are a ton of loaded terms tossed around for male behavior, and the impact it has on attraction. "Nice Guys", "Bad Boys", and, of course, "Alpha" and "Beta". What do these labels (and the underlying behaviors) really mean in the context of attracting the kinds of mates we want, and building a fulfilling life?

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We frequently use a 10-point number system to describe how attractive people are. This number often refers to our "sexual market value"--the higher the number, the more options a person has. In this episode, we'll share two specific things that men can do to look and be more valuable in their dating market.

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Wealth and status factor into how attractive you are, but maybe not in the way you think. In this episode, we'll talk about what money and reputation really mean, and why your preoccupation with both may be making you less attractive.

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On this week's episode, we start with a bit of a deep-dive on Charles's health and nutrition, and then we continue discussing clothing, including some "rules" for looking and feeling good with your personal style.

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