Modern Anarchy

On today's episode, we have Tuck Malloy (They/Them) join us for a conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about choosing which feedback we integrate into our narratives, how much discomfort is too much discomfort in nonmonogamy, and the blank white canvas of relationship anarchy.

RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy

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Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/137-what-s-your-frame-for-relationship-anarchy-with-tuck-malloy

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Tuck's Community:

Tuck Malloy (they/them) is a queer, trans, polyamorous relationship coach and sex educator.

Website : https://intrasensual.com

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/intra_sensual/

Resources to Learn More:

How Love Conquered Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780143036678

Relationship Anarchy Occupy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9798368039442

BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females :https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.⁠

69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : ⁠https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474⁠⁠

On today's episode, we have founder of Aaron Johnson (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding touch balance. Together we talk about the importance of tenderness, how narratives of oppression shape sexuality, and liberating our voices from capitalism.

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Transcript: ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/136-waiting-for-a-hug-activism-for-the-chronically-under-touched-with-aaron-johnson⁠

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Aaron's Community:

Holistic Resistance : https://www.holisticresistance.com/

Chronically UnderTouched : https://www.cutproject.org/

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/cut.project/

Resource to Learn More:

Aaron's Ted Talk : Vhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=zi_hm0-zrgk

On today's episode, we have Kyros (He/Him) join us for an exploration of their non-monogamy journey. Together we talk about how polyamory is about so much more than sex, learning you can love multiple people, and normalizing polyamory through authenticity.

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On today's episode, we have clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Smith (She/Her) join us for a conversation about recovering from purity culture. Together we talk about missing the out on the condom on a banana lecture, moving from performance to pleasure, and learning to play again.

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Dr. Rachel Smith's Community:

Purity Culture Recovery Group : https://www.agavechicago.com/groups

Resources to Learn More:

The 7 Most Popular, and Powerful, Sexual Fantasies : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202107/the-7-most-popular-and-powerful-sexual-fantasies

Leaving the Fold : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781933993232

The Relationship between Purity Culture and Rape Myth Acceptance : https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5b9488d731d4df9d904e6031/t/611e5ed6f546e07cb98eb8d8/1629380311389/Relationship+between+Purity+Culture+and+Rape+Myth+Acceptance.pdf

Sex for One : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780517886076

Sex, God, and the Conservative Christian Church : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781138674981

Pleasure Activism : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781849353267

Pure : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781501124822

Better Sex Through Mindfulness : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781771642354

Podcasts Resources:

https://www.pushkin.fm/podcasts/come-as-you-are 

https://intimacywithease.com/category/better-sex/most-popular/

Articles/Newsletters:

https://estherperel.com/blog/eroticism-self-care-plan

https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/post/how-the-purity-movement-causes-symptoms-of-sexual-abuse

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2021/03/purity-culture-evangelical-church-harms-women/618438/

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/06/us/abstinence-pledge-evangelicals.html

https://emilynagoski.bulletin.com

Instagram Resources:

https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.sex.ed/

On today's episode, we have psychologist Dr. Nick Beller (He/Him) join us for a conversation exploring our relationship to drugs. Together we talk about navigating the moral gatekeeping of systems, how drugs can provide connection, and the importance of engaged presence.

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Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/133-mystical-drug-experiences-connection-and-existentialism-with-dr-nick-beller

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Nick's Community:

Nick Beller, PsyD, CADC, is a doctor of clinical psychology discussing the importance of challenging systems in higher education and in American healthcare.

LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-beller-ma-cadc/

Resources to Learn More:

Falling In Love Hits The Brain Like Cocaine Does : https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/205973#1

Suicides in the U.S. reached all-time high : https://www.nbcnews.com/health/mental-health/cdc-data-finds-suicides-reached-time-high-2022-rcna99327

Rat Park : https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong/transcript

Play, Pain and Religion : https://www.equinoxpub.com/home/play-pain/

On today's episode, we have somatic sex educator and psychedelic integration coach Juliana Rose (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the embodied experience of pleasure. Together we talk about being tangled in the web of early childhood patterning, creating a space for pleasure to land, and co-creating with psychedelic medicines.

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Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/132-creating-new-patterns-of-pleasure-sex-relationships-and-psychedelics-with-juliana-rose

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Juliana's Community:

Website : https://www.boldlyembodied.com/

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/boldlyembodied/

Pleasure Journal : https://mailchi.mp/03fb2d309c9f/bwl4ihcqnj

On today's episode, we have pleasure rebel Sarah White (She/Her) join us for a conversation exploring the activism of connecting with our bodies. Together we talk about playing with alchemy, getting curious about our discomfort, and creating a new world.

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Modern Anarchy Community:

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Sarah's Community:

Sarah White is an artist and mother who finds the revolution in birthed within connection to the nervous system, land, sensuality, and mindfulness.

Website : www.neonsoul.co

Personal Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/aquariussunvenus/

Studio for Healing Arts : https://www.instagram.com/nuneurostudio/

Youtube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3CAKOR-4W0

On today's episode, we have Mel Cassidy (They/Them) join us for a conversation about creating a world beyond the status quo of relationships. Together we talk building your relational garden, tuning into the wisdom of our bodies, and finding secure attachment in community.

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Mel's Community:

Mel is relationship coach and sex-positive nerd who works with queer and questioning people — and those who love them, and is a relationship anarchist who practices Solo Polyamory!

Website : https://radicalrelationshipcoaching.ca/

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/radicalrelating/

Monogamy Detox : www.monogamydetox.com

Resources to Learn More:

Normal marital hatred is real. Here’s what to do about it. : https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2022/09/23/marriage-relationships-conflict/

What is Learned Helplessness? | Kati Morton : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wA9VEsR2SFg

Dr. Ayesha Khan : https://www.ayesha-khan.com/

On today's episode we have pleasure activist and cultural sexologist Dr. Carol Queen, Ph.D (She/They) join us for a conversation about embracing the diverse world of sexuality and relationships. Together we talk about how the values of anarchism intersects with our pleasure, pop sex-positivity vs deep sex-positivity, and how we need to work both within and against the systems.

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Modern Anarchy Community:

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Carol's Community:

Carol Queen PhD is a writer, cultural sexologist, theorist of deep sex-positivity, Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist, and the co-founder and director of the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco.

Twitter: https://twitter.com/carolqueen

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolqueenphd/

FB public page: https://www.facebook.com/carolqueenauthor

Website: www.carolqueen.com

Good Vibrations : https://www.goodvibes.com/content/c/good-vibrations-sexologist-carol-queen

Resources to Learn More:

BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females, while about 20% reported engaging in BDSM: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.

Exhibitionism for the Shy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780940208353

On today's episode, we have harm-reduction therapist and co-founder of Alchemy Community Therapy Center, Irina Alexander (She/Her), join us for a conversation about the need to deconstruct the messaging we have been sold about drugs and step into a research-backed understanding. Together we talk about how larger systems impact our drug use, the importance of community connection, and coming out of the psychedelic closet.

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Irina's Community:

Irina is a co-founder and Clinical Director of Alchemy Community Therapy Center (alchemytherapy.org), a sliding scale psychedelic therapy clinic in Oakland, as well as a street-based harm reduction therapist with the Harm Reduction Therapy Center in San Francisco. Irina has a long history in direct service work, and believes in the healing capacity of showing up for each other, individually and as a community. She feels passionate about making psychedelic healing services more equitable and accessible to underserved communities. Irina has volunteered for several years as a supervisor with the Zendo Project, and is currently also working as an Adherence Rater for MDMA Clinical Trials. 

Ketamine Therapy Provider Training : https://www.alchemytherapy.org/licensedtraining

Resources to Learn More:

Sana Healing Collective : https://sanahealingcollective.org/

Rat Park : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9DcIMGxMs&t=14s

Drug Decriminalization in Portugal : https://fherehab.com/news/portugal-lowest-drug-rate#:~:text=Portugal%3A%20The%20Country%20with%20the%20Lowest%20Drug%20Overdose%20Rates

Stages of Change : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVyhhMzWkiU

Motivational Interviewing : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9iBPeZjjuYU