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On today's episode, we have queer elder and sacred intimacy teacher, Caffyn Jesse (They/She) join us for a conversation about the power of ecstasy practices. Together we talk about loving all of our parts, our limited understanding of orgasm, and refusing the regime of normal with fierce outrage.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Caffyn's Community:
Caffyn Jesse is a queer elder, sacred intimate, teacher and writer who revels in the power and pleasures of the erotic.
Intimacy Educator : https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/intimacyeducator
Resources to Learn More:
Internal Family Systems : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdZZ7sTX840
Window of Tolerance : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNVlppGz0zM
On today's episode, we have sociologist Dr. Elisabeth Sheff (She/Her) join us for a harm-reduction and pleasure-enhancement conversation for navigating the risks of kink. Together we talk about the needed for explicit and evolving consent conversations, learning through community best practices, and when kinky sex goes wrong.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Dr. Elisabeth Sheff's Community:
Dr. Elisabeth "Eli" Sheff is the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families and specializes in sex and gender minorities in her research, expert witness, and relationship coaching practices.
Website : https://elisabethsheff.com/
Blog : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door
Bonding Project : https://www.bondingproject.com/
Resources to Learn More:
No level of alcohol consumption is safe for our health : https://www.who.int/europe/news/item/04-01-2023-no-level-of-alcohol-consumption-is-safe-for-our-healthAlex Honnold : https://films.nationalgeographic.com/free-solo
MDMA- Therapy : https://www.nature.com/articles/s41591-023-02565-4
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom : https://ncsfreedom.org/
Who Was the Marquis de Sade? : https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/who-was-marquis-de-sade-180953980/
BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females : https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.
69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474
On today's episode we have Michelle Hy (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about how larger systems impact our ability to love. Together we talk about how the personal is political, growing in relationships, and being turned on by the revolution.
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Michelle's Community:
Michelle Hy is from Portland, Oregon and runs the page Polyamorous While Asian, which seeks to normalize non-monogamy and share her experiences through an intersectional lens.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polyamorouswhileasian/
Website: https://polyamorouswhileasian.com/
Resources to Learn More:
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780061707810
The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy : https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy
The Relationship Escalator : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780998647012
Study finds that fear can travel quickly through generations of mice DNA : https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/study-finds-that-fear-can-travel-quickly-through-generations-of-mice-dna/2013/12/07/94dc97f2-5e8e-11e3-bc56-c6ca94801fac_story.html
On today's episode, we have somatic therapist and relationship coach, Elmo Painter-Edington (she/her/fae/femme) join us for a conversation about the power of play. Together we talk about letting your weird light shine, listening to our bodies, bringing more absurdity in our lives, and sensually thriving.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Elmo's Community:
Elmo Painter-Edington is a Somatic Therapist, Empowerment Coach, and Life Artist whose role is to grant supportive space for people to be exactly who they are, and to remind people of their unique brilliance, no matter how flawed they feel inside.
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/weirdlight_coaching/
Website : https://www.weirdlightcoaching.com/
Resources to Learn More:
YouGov Data : https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2020/01/31/millennials-monogamy-poly-poll-survey-data
Sexual Desire and Relationship Duration in Young Men and Women : https://sci-hub.ru/10.1080/0092623x.2011.569637
The Heteronormativity Theory of Low Sexual Desire in Women Partnered with Men : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8382213/
Polysecure : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781944934989
Female sexual function varies over time and is dependent on partner-specific factors: a population-based longitudinal analysis of six sexual function domains : https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27766993/
Flower Video : https://www.instagram.com/p/CtfUYUaABD0/
On today's episode, we have queer butch leatherdyke Australian Dom and top, BCT (She/Her), join us for a conversation about the ever unfolding journey of leather sex. Together we talk about playing with gender, the transcendence of S&M, and exploring hot consent conservations.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
BCT's Community:
BCT is a queer butch leatherdyke Australian Dom and top who started exploring kink upon moving to NYC in 2011. Her primary relationship is a 24/7 D/s dynamic, in which she is the tyrannical Boss of the fictitious company where her service submissive is an exploited low-level employee. She is into heavy impact beatdowns, staging elaborate group scenes, and meeting kinky queers all over the world. In her more traditional work life, BCT is an operations, production, and digital communications specialist, having launched 500+ websites, videos, campaigns, events, change initiatives, and 3x startups. She co-founded Queer Healers, is a co-director of Kink Out (currently leads strategy and operations for both), and facilitates the Black Trans Lives Thrive giving circle
Kink Out : https://www.kinkoutevents.com/
Queer Healers : https://www.queerhealers.com/
Resources to Learn More:
International Ms Leather : https://www.imslbb.org/
Leather Archives : https://leatherarchives.org/
Short Bus : https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0367027/
Lesbian Sex Mafia : https://lesbiansexmafia.org/
On today's episode, we are celebrating my birthday with a special solo episode of empowerment. Together we explore my journey from the roots of evangelical purity culture to reclaiming the divinity of my sexuality. I appreciate you, dear listener, for tuning in each week and creating deeper community with me.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Resources to Learn More:
Raisin Meditation : https://mbsrtraining.com/mindfulness-exercises-by-jon-kabat-zinn/mindfully-eating-a-raisin-script/
Judith Herman Trauma and Recovery : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781541602953
Responsive Desire : https://www.lover.io/post/whats-your-desire-type
On today's episode, we have artist Fadl Fakhouri (He/Him) join us for a conversation about deconstructing society's narrative for our lives. Together we talk about the elusive nature of queerness, learning to love ourselves in relationships, and throwing away the manual to create your own relationship garden.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Fadl's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/fadlfakhouri/
Website : https://fadlfakhouri.com/
Art Show : http://www.thevisualist.org/2023/08/double-blessings/
Resources to Learn More:
Microdosing : https://psychedelicsocietysf.org/?ref=5
New Love Euphoria Mimics Effects of Crack Cocaine : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-joint-adventures-well-educated-couples/201609/new-love-euphoria-mimics-effects-crack
On today's episode, we have founder and CEO of Make Love Not Porn Cindy Gallop (She/Her) join us for a conversation about authentic pleasure. Together we talk about the need for real consent conversations, the social sex revolution, and the barriers to sharing adult content.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Cindy's Community:
Make Love Not Porn : https://makelovenotporn.tv/
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/makelovenotporn
Resources to Learn More:
Money Shot: The Pornhub Story : https://www.netflix.com/title/81406118
On today's episode, we have somatic sex educator, writer, and healer Britta Love (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the power of deeply embodied pleasure. Together we talk about dismantling systems through community, the vulnerability of expressing desire, and radical consent practices.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Britta's Community:
Website : https://brittaloved.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/brittaloved/
Strike for Pleasure : https://strikeforpleasure.com/
Resources to Learn More:
Making Love Not War: The Wild Sexual World of Bonobos : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lb5MwTIV0Wc
Camilla Power : http://radicalanthropologygroup.org/people/camilla-power/
Novel treatment of opioid use disorder using ibogaine and iboga in two adults : https://akjournals.com/view/journals/2054/4/3/article-p149.xml
María Sabina : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mar%C3%ADa_Sabina
How to Play the 3-Minute Game : https://bettymartin.org/how-to-play-the-3-minute-game/
On today's episode, we have psychotherapist and author Laura Mae Northrup (She/Her) join us for conversation exploring how capitalism affects intimacy. Together we talk about the power of community, identifying shared frustrations under capitalism across political ideologies, and staying in connection for transformative growth.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Laura's Community:
Website : https://www.lauramaenorthrup.com/
Inside Eyes Podcast : https://insideeyes.libsyn.com/
Resources to Learn More:
Eden's Last Chance : https://www.edenslastchance.com/
Why American Healthcare Is The Worst In The Developed World : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wO1IoKN0AkY
Hollow Water : https://www.nfb.ca/film/hollow_water/
U.S. Health Care from a Global Perspective, 2022: Accelerating Spending, Worsening Outcomes : https://www.commonwealthfund.org/publications/issue-briefs/2023/jan/us-health-care-global-perspective-2022#:~:text=Introduction,than%20residents%20of%20peer%20countries.
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