Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy

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Modern Anarchy episodes

  • 107. Recovering from Spiritual Trauma through Psychedelics and our Inner Healing Wisdom with Kayla Felten

    On today's conversation, we have psychedelic therapist Kayla Felten (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the healing journey of reclaiming our spirituality and intuition. Together we talk about how submitting to a male god has complicated dating, differentiating between our inner healing wisdom and trauma scripts, and tapping into the feminine divine.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We have a private discord server, creating community and a space to talk the juicy topics covered in these episodes. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Kayla's Community:

    Reclamation Collective : https://www.reclamationcollective.com/who-we-are

    Resources to Learn More:

    The Ancestor Project : https://www.theancestorproject.com

    MYCOLOGY PSYCHOLOGY : https://www.mycologypsychology.com/

    The harm reduction model of drug addiction treatment : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfzkBGgxXGE

    1 hr 4 min
  • 106. Pleasure Equity and the Last Big Taboo of Sexuality with Damian

    On today's episode, we have sex educator Damian Weatherald (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the pleasure we all deserve. Together we talk about the taboo topic of sexuality for people with a disability, how American sex education is worse than other countries, and the medicine of laughter.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Damian's Community:

    Instagram

    Resources to Learn More:

    Lad Mags : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lad_mag

    Puritans (The Killjoys of History) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VayrvCkjANM

    Make Love Not Porn : https://makelovenotporn.tv/

    The Sex Lives of College Girls: https://www.hbomax.com/series/urn:hbo:series:GYXBzKw3n5aJmOwEAAAAE

    1 hr 5 min
  • 105. Healing through Kink with Chaney Williams

    Activation Warning: Discussion of Sexual Assault

    On today's episode, we have birthwork and writer Chaney (She/They) join us for a conversation all about the transformative healing journey of exploring kink. Together we talk about virginity coins, being completely unaware that you are kinky, and stepping into radical embodiment.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Chaney's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/theintersectionaldoula/

    Resources to Learn More:

    What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781580053440

    Study shatters the myth that BDSM is linked to early-life trauma: https://bigthink.com/neuropsych/bdsm-psychology-trauma/

    Human Playground : https://www.netflix.com/title/81122619

    1 hr 3 min
  • 104. From Serial Monogamy to Polyamory and The One Penis Policy with Chad from PolyamFam

    On today's episode, we have Chad (He/Him) from PolyamFam join us fo a conversation all about the wild learning journey of non-monogamy. Together we talk about the one penis policy, designing your own relationship structures, and the pitfalls of open-relating.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠ : www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠ : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Polyam's Fam:

    Website : https://polyamfam.com/

    Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/c/polyamfam

    Resources to Learn More:

    Sexual Desire and Relationship Duration in Young Men and Women : https://sci-hub.ru/10.1080/0092623x.2011.569637

    Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it : https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

    Monogamy Is In Its Flop Era. Women And Femmes Are Leading What’s Next : https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/alessadominguez/why-women-choose-nonmonogamy

    Polyamory By the Numbers : https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2016/1/08/polyamory-numbers?amp=

    Are Women More Into Polyamory Than Men? : https://jezebel.com/are-women-more-into-polyamory-than-men-1795171754/amp

    One-third of Americans say their ideal relationship is non-monogamous: https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2020/01/31/millennials-monogamy-poly-poll-survey-data

    National Survey Reveals Generational Differences in Consensual Non-monogamy: https://ifstudies.org/blog/national-survey-reveals-generational-differences-in-consensual-nonmonogamy-

    Sex at Dawn: https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780061707810

    Infographic: A New Look at Monogamy Across the Animal Kingdom: https://www.the-scientist.com/infographics/infographic-a-new-look-at-monogamy-across-the-animal-kingdom-70044

    Marital Rape Laws: https://ualr.edu/socialchange/2018/04/15/reflection-history-sexual-assault-laws-united-states/

    1 hr 23 min
  • 103. Year Two: The Queer, Kinky, Non-Monogamous Sex Educator Bringing Fire and Fury

    On today's episode, we are celebrating the two year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode with my dear friend, Dan (He/Him). Together we talk about the divine intervention of meeting a kinky person, the uncomfortability of emotions, and embracing the full human experience.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠

    To Learn More:

    The Kinky Female Mind: Why Women Fantasize About Rape and BDSM

    Kinsey sex doc: What I learned by asking more than 4,000 Americans about their sexual fantasies

    The first FDA-approved medication with an antisuicide indication was clozapine for schizophrenia. 

    Clozapine Side Effects

    Rare Side Effect of Clozapine: Neuroleptic Malignant Syndrome

    Ketamine Nasal Spray Is A New Antidepressant Option For People At High Risk of Suicide

    Ketamine used to treat severe depression in patients with a history of psychosis does not exacerbate psychosis risk, new research suggests.

    currently available literature does not support the assumption that ketamine will exacerbate psychotic symptoms in predisposed patients

    Effects of Ketamine in Normal and Schizophrenic Volunteers

    Money Shot: The Pornhub Story | Official Trailer | Netflix

    Mindfulness-based stress reduction is as effective as an antidepressant drug for treating anxiety disorders, study finds

    Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction vs Escitalopram for the Treatment of Adults With Anxiety Disorders: A Randomized Clinical Trial

    Symptom severity and exclusion from antidepressant efficacy trials

    Initial Severity and Antidepressant Benefits: A Meta-Analysis of Data Submitted to the Food and Drug Administration

    The drugs don’t work? antidepressants and the current and future pharmacological management of depression

    antidepressants are effective against chronic, moderate and severe depression. They don't help in mild depression.

    Antidepressants No Better Than Placebo for About 85% of People

    Inappropriate prescribing

    Study shatters the myth that BDSM is linked to early-life trauma

    The Psychology of Kink: a Survey Study into the Relationships of Trauma and Attachment Style with BDSM Interests

    1 hr 10 min
  • 102. Contraception, Psychedelics, and Psychopharmacology with Andi Rose and Jaycee

    On today's episode, we have traditional birth keepers and community herbalists Andi Rose (She/Her) and Jaycee (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about radical holistic healing under capitalism. Together we talk about the healing nature of plants and herbs, the lack of informed consent in medicine, and being understandably upset with our current social conditions.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠

    Andi and Jaycee's Community:

    Website

    Resources to Learn More:

    Serotonin Is Not Linked with Depression

    We Still Don’t Know How Antidepressants Work

    ⁠Mindfulness-based stress reduction is as effective as an antidepressant drug for treating anxiety disorders, study finds

    ⁠Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction vs Escitalopram for the Treatment of Adults With Anxiety Disorders: A Randomized Clinical Trial

    Exercise and Antidepressants were Equally Effective

    "Antidepressants are effective against chronic, moderate and severe depression. They don't help in mild depression."

    Serotonin and brain function: a tale of two receptors

    SSRI Reduces Negative Effects of Psilocybin, With No Impact on Positive Mood Effects in Study

    With Promise of Legalization, Psychedelic Companies Joust Over Future Profits

    1 hr 13 min
  • 101. What's Wrong with the Field of Psychology? Liberation Psychology with Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez

    On today's episode, we have Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez (He/Him) join us for a conversation all about liberation psychology. Together we talk about the neoliberal tilt of psychology today, the mobius strip of how social conditioning affects our ability to love, and how speech is always relational and political.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠Website⁠

    ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠Patreon

    Daniel's Community:

    Website

    A People's History of Psychoanalysis

    Resources to Learn More:

    Möbius strip

    What is deep canvassing?


    1 hr 43 min
  • 100. Masturbation Meditation #3: Pussy Breathing

    On today's episode, we are celebrating the 100th episode with a special masturbation meditation. Slow down and connect with all the pleasure that is possible in your body with this quick 10 minute meditation.

    **Meditation begins at 9:04**

    For all of you listeners that continue to tune in each week, from my full heart I want to wish you the deepest thank you. Thank you for joining me on this journey of expansion and growth. I look forward to all the things we will explore together. Sending you so much love!


    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠patreon⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    Website

    ⁠Instagram⁠

    ⁠Patreon

    Resources to Learn More:

    Mindfulness-based stress reduction is as effective as an antidepressant drug for treating anxiety disorders, study finds

    Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction vs Escitalopram for the Treatment of Adults With Anxiety Disorders: A Randomized Clinical Trial

    Brief Mindfulness Meditation Induces Gray Matter Changes in a Brain HubState and Training Effects of Mindfulness: Meditation on Brain Networks Reflect Neuronal Mechanisms of Its Antidepressant EffectSelf-Medication for Chronic Pain Using Classic Psychedelics: A Qualitative Investigation to Inform Future ResearchFinding the divine within: exploring the role of the sacred in psychedelic integration therapy for sexual trauma and dysfunction


    24 min
  • 99. So, I Need To Have More Kinky Sex? Burnout, Passion, and Systematic Change with Karla Scherf

    On today's episode, we have therapist Karla Scherf (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about having patience for larger systematic change. Together we talk about the balance between activism and self-care, having faith in the unfolding process, and following your passion. 

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    Instagram

    Facebook

    Patreon

    Karla's Community:

    Best Therapies

    Resources to Learn More:

    Young TikTok Users Quickly Encounter Problematic Posts, Researchers Say

    Social Media, Thin-Ideal, Body Dissatisfaction and Disordered Eating Attitudes: An Exploratory Analysis

    The Stanford Prison Experiment Was One of the Most Disturbing Studies Ever

    Asch Conformity Experiment

    Beyond the Cliff | Laura van Dernoot Lipsky | TEDx

    Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others

    1 hr 4 min
  • 98. The Transformation of Kink and Surrogate Partner Therapy: Safety, Honesty, and Play with Brandon Hunter-Haydon

    On today's episode, we have sex educator and surrogate partner therapist Brandon Hunter-Haydon (He/They) join us for a conversation about challenging the status quo to bring about sexual liberation. Together we talk about the healing nature of kinky play, the human need for physical touch in intimacy, and navigating the complexities of fighting for truth.

     If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    Instagram

    Facebook

    Patreon

    Brandon's Community:

    Website

    Instagram

    Resources to Learn More: 

    *the official DSM 5 statistic on Female Orgasm Disorder has an upper estimate of prevalence at 42% of women*

    What is Transference and Counter-Transference?

    What is Transference And Why It Matters?

    International Professional Surrogates Association

    Surrogate Partner Therapy Support Group

    Surrogate Partner Collective

    Women and Madness

    1 hr 1 min

About Modern Anarchy

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Hosted by Dr. Nicole, a queer, non-monogamous clinical psychotherapist, Modern Anarchy is a living exploration of what becomes possible when we liberate our collective pleasure. The show brings together activists, therapists, and researchers from around the world for vulnerable conversations about sex, relationships, and pleasure liberation psychology.

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