Moving is one of the most stressful parts of homebuying—so before you decide to relocate for affordability, remote work, or a dream lifestyle, this episode helps you figure out if you’re really ready. David sits down with Mariette Frye, host of the Moving Tips & Tricks podcast, who has moved 20 times in 24 years and developed a practical and emotional framework to help people plan better moves. From financial prep to emotional readiness and community-building tips, this episode is all about knowing what to do before you commit to a new city or neighborhood—especially if you’re planning to rent first, test out a market, or buy remotely.

Whether you’re dreaming of New York, San Diego, or just moving two zip codes over, this episode helps you get clear on how to test your dream before making a major life transition.

“You have to grieve your old home and your old life—because once you move, it’s a complete reset. Whether you’re ready for it or not, it’s coming for you.” — Mariette Frye

• How do you know if you’re actually ready to relocate—or just reacting to burnout, grief, or frustration?
• What is the FRED framework? A 4-part system to evaluate your next city using lifestyle filters, not just affordability.
• Can you test-drive a city before committing? Why short-term rentals, online communities, and “proof-of-concept” visits matter more than a Zillow search.
• Why renting in a luxury building might backfire if your long-term plan is to buy affordably in the same area.

• Mariette’s podcast: Moving Tips & Tricks
• DecidingToMove.com – Mariette’s workbook and relocation planning tool

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David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.

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