Say hello to Nancy Benitez. Founder of MANifest, Soul & Body Coaching and Retreats for men. Overall, she has been divorced two times and when our interview started we quickly went to the source of what had her be with the same type of man, not once, but twice. But in order to get to that part of her story, you should know a little about where her story began.

Nancy had just turned 19 and she knew her first husband was not the right person for her, but she did it anyways, she got married so that she could get away from her dad and brother who at the time were driving her crazy. When her mother passed, her dad grieved and buried himself in work while she was left to raise and nurture her brother while still in her teens. She knew her then husband wasn’t someone she could grow old with, which is why the marriage only lasted four years. Ending pretty ugly according to her, she didn't go into much detail but she does share that she had a miscarriage in the process. When reflecting back to that time, she expresses that you should always check in with your intuition. Hers had never steered her wrong back then or now. 

Knowing that she had gotten married it for the wrong reasons. Knowing that she wasn’t totally in love with him and even her own dad asking “are you sure” on her wedding day did not stop her from allowing the wedding to go on. Find out why and how it ended in this episode as Nancy uncovers how she was misaligned and what she had to do so it would not happen again.