Joli is a mom of 7, has a PhD in Depth Psychology and works as a research psychologist, sex educator, and relationship coach. Her Ted Talk “The Opposite of Jealousy” is a must watch. 

What a fascinating conversation this was! 

Joli talked about how when we liberate pleasure, we can liberate ourselves from systems of oppression. She talks openly about her non-monogomous relationship and straight privilege. I shared my path, recently coming out as bisexual, which lead to a powerful conversation about shame and our willingness to be witnessed. My favorite part was learning about what compersion is and how we can all attain it. 

Joli is more interested in growth than comfort and it shows. This episode is expansive! 

Link to Joli’s book Project Relationship https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KVMV8WT
FB: https://www.facebook.com/dr.joli.hamilton

Where to find Pasha:
Website: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

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HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
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To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

Got kids and some unresolved shame of your own?
Did you know that 75% of children wish they could talk to their parents about sex?
Do you need some guidance on how to hold space for “taboo” conversations?
Well, drop everything and listen to this podcast.

Jennifer Wiessner is a widely sought-after sex therapist and I was so fortunate to have her on my podcast where she shared decades of wisdom about raising sexually healthy children.  Her mission is to reduce shame, bring sexuality out of the darkness, and encourage parents to talk to their kids about sex and sexuality.

Jennifer offers practical advice in this episode and answers some burning questions like “when and where is the best time to talk to my kids about sex?” and “should I buy my daughter a vibrator?” and “what do I do if I catch my child masturbating?”. She presents calmly and clearly and brilliantly holds space for expansive and often difficult conversations.

Jennifer Wiessner, LCSW, AASECT certified Sex Therapist for parents, providers and educators. Check Jennifer’s website for more details: https://jenniferwiessnerhealthysexuality.com

Where to find Pasha:
Website: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

The journey from trauma to pleasure can be excruciating at times. How can we slowly bring embodied practices and even ancient practices into our homelife? Kit Murray Maloney shares her beliefs on solo sex, orgasm, and yoni (vaginal) steaming saunas in this whole-hearted and compassionate conversation.

For twenty years Kit Maloney has been an activist, academic, and entrepreneur committed to channeling her passion for gender equity into a celebration of women and yoni bodied folks embodied health and healing. She’s earned a Master's degree in Gender and Social Policy from the London School of Economics and has been featured widely in the media, including Glamour, Self, and Bustle.

She is also the founder of O’actually & The Pleasure Pledge, two ventures honoring female sexual pleasure (and orgasms!) for safety, healing, and empowerment. Marie Claire named Kit an "Amazing Woman" for her work celebrating women's sexuality. 

To reach Kit or find information on the original Kitara Sauna:
Website: https://www.kitaralove.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/bykitara/

Where to find Pasha:
Website: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

This was an expansive conversation with Angela Locashio, Clinical Sexologist. She and I  have the unique perspective of life in the military (Angela a current military wife, Pasha prior in her first marriage) and other constructs that hold us back from full expression of self. We talk about moving through the stress cycle to prevent illness and pain, pleasure “taboos”, and the idea that you can’t have pleasure in the bedroom if you can’t find pleasure outside of the bedroom. 

Angela Locashio - Mama Pistachio - (she/her) is a Trauma-informed Educator, Certified Coach, and Clinical Sexologist who helps womxn move through stress, shame, fear, and guilt so they can reach their maximum pleasure potential in and out of the bedroom.

 People wanting to work with Angela should contact her directly at [email protected]

Where to find more of Mama Pistachio:

Website: https://mamapistachio.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMamaPistachio/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/themamapistachio/
Email: [email protected]

Where to find Pasha:
Website: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

THIS IS A BIG MOMENT FOR ME!
MEGAN JO WILSON IS ON MY PODCAST!

If anyone is curious how I became so empowered and brave, listen to this episode and meet MY PERSONAL COACH, Megan Jo Wilson. She is a phenomenal coach, a brilliant musician, a fierce mama, and a dear friend. She is the CEO of Megan Jo Wilson’s Rockstar Camp (which I am a graduate of, I brag), the leader of the No More Playing Small challenge (which I kicked ass in, I also brag), and the author of “Who the Fuck am I to be a Coach?” and “Who the Fuck am I to be a Rockstar”. Both must reads! Megan Jo also has a new book coming out soon called “No More Playing Small”, which I predict will be an instant bestseller.

Seriously, I can’t think of anyone I would rather have on my podcast than Megan Jo Wilson. She is inspiring, liberating, and revolutionary. She changed my life and made me a better woman and coach. I gush all over her during this episode, and, as always, Megan Jo holds space for all of the big emotions. We talk about trauma, suicide, being seen, taking risks, embodying our emotions, holding each other in sisterhood, and what still scares the shit out of her-you will NEVER guess what she said!

I feel so...honored, giddy, and complete after this podcast. I hope you enjoy it, too!

Join Megan Jo’s “Army of Light” here https://www.facebook.com/groups/1906460796305300

To watch the hilarity and hotness, go to my youtube channel https://youtu.be/NDlWPXfYJ3E

Where to find Pasha:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

Who better to interview on the weekend of my fantastically fun coming-out party and my first book (eek!), than the FABULOUS Alexander James?! You are in for 45 minutes of pleasure, laughter, and effervescence! I highly recommend watching the interview on my youtube channel as well, to fully witness our colorful energy and enthusiasm. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHIKCBH-7r-wwkvzRlVJGFA 

Alexander is known as the Queer Carl Jung and the Pioneer of Quantum Healing Coaching. He bubbles over with vibrancy, style, and intuitive wisdom. I could have talked to Alexander for hours! In this podcast, we talk about claiming our desires, conscious thought, bringing spirituality AND kink into your business, body shame, holistic branding, how too much pleasure can become trauma, people-pleasing as a trauma response, how Jesus was a radical rebel, and how you can’t solve self-love from the outside in. PHEW! 

Alexander built his business for his pleasure and explains how to artfully integrate your uniqueness with your mission. Bathing in his presence was an absolute delight and inspiration! This is one for the books, friends! 

To get on Alexander’s waitlist (click the linky with your pinky) https://rb.gy/t81kjs
IG @thesubconsciousbrand
FB https://www.facebook.com/AlexanderJames.coach 

Where to find Pasha:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

You are in for a treat when you listen to this interview with guest Nicola Doherty. Nicola has lived and worked in 66 different countries as a freelancer and she coaches others to do the same! Yes, she has figured out a way to do what I believe so many DREAM of, to be able to work and travel the world! That takes bringing pleasure to the workplace a whole new meaning! This lively conversation is all about possibilities, inclusion, expansion, and freedom! Plus, she has the sweetest accent ever. Enjoy.

Where to find Nicola Doherty:
FB: https://www.facebook.com/nicola.dohertycoaching.3
IG: Nicola_doherty_coaching

Where to find me:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/Pashamarlowecoaching
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

Pasha Marlowe, laughter and pleasure coach, talks to therapist and life coach, Jessica Martin about all things pleasure. They talk about speaking your secrets and desires out loud to release shame and how laughter and pleasure is your birthright. Jessica explains why pleasure goes hand in hand with gratitude, connection, and possibilities. You will even learn how to access pleasure through temper tantrums and laundry! Enjoy this lively and sensual conversation.

Jessica Martin is a licensed mental health counselor and certified life coach who embraces the concept of collective wisdom. She collaborates with some of the many inspired and amazing healers in the coming months to offer workshops, life coaching, and support.

Where to find Jessica Martin:
Website: https://www.embodiedwellness.blog/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/embodied_wellness/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedbwellnesshealing/

Show notes:
[0:53] Guest intro
[5:30] Side benefits of being a therapist
[9:31] Laughter is universal
[11:02] What Jessica asks her clients to watch
[12:42] How Jessica defines pleasure
[14:51] Accessing pleasure in small ways is very important
[16:44] Pleasure requires a certain amount of appreciation
[20:04] Reframing a dreadful task into something pleasurable
[24:26] Women have been told to “stay put”
[25:28] When Pasha needs to refresh her own pleasure practices, she runs to kristahaapala.com. She is Pasha’s personal sexologist and consciousness guide. Go check her out.
[27:31] Yoga poses and vulnerability
[31:47] The idea of possibilities, potentials, and identities
[35:26] How our brains make us focus on things that we don’t like
[40:21] Jessica’s book: Bring Your Own Money. Bring Your Own Drugs
[44:29] Our view of our vagina reflects how we view ourselves
[48:47] More programs that Jessica is hosting in the coming months
[50:12] How does Jessica sprinkler pleasure during sh*tty days
[54:52] New Facebook group: Midlife Mischief and Merriment
[55:21] Outro

Where to find me:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/pasha.marlowe
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

Join Pasha Marlowe and her favorite sexologist, Krista Haapala, for a wholehearted conversation about accessing pleasure on difficult days, claiming our power and worth through body worshipping, being present to the simple pleasures in life, and the many options of inviting pleasure into our sex lives, including multiple partnering. Pasha also shares how grieving her son’s illness was a catalyst to her pleasure practices as she faced mortality and decided to reclaim her desires.

More about Krista Haapala:
As a consciousness guide, Krista supports humans of every stripe in creating fiercely fulfilling embodied lives and relationships. She is a passion catalyst, an artist, and a poet. As a personal, relationship, and sexuality coach, she supports humans of every stripe in creating fiercely fulfilling lives. She is the author of 39 Revolutions, Unlearn Moderation, Body 2.0, and Ischemia.

Where to find Krista:
Website: https://kristahaapala.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/krista.writes/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/krista.writes/

Show notes:
[0:00] Intro
[0:58] Introducing the guest for today’s episode
[2:31] On Pasha's hesitation in calling this podcast with anything pleasure related
[3:02] Krista’s definition of pleasure
[5:38] How do we access pleasure during this unprecedented time?
[8:26] Devotion to self is service
[10:21] Pain and pleasure: do we need both?
[13:32] Krista as a passion catalyst
[17:37] When Pasha needs to refresh her own pleasure practices, she runs to kristahaapala.com. She is Pasha’s personal sexologist and consciousness guide. Go check her out.
[18:48] How to get pleasure and sensuality without having an active sexual life
[25:45] Talking about polyamory
[30:58] The easiest way to find Krista
[31:56] How to sprinkle pleasure during dark times
[34:02] Outro

Where to find me:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/pasha.marlowe
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe

Welcome to the first episode of Let Pleasure Be The Measure with me, Pasha Marlowe. I am so looking forward to talking to you about topics that I am passionate about.  This podcast will allow you to open yourself up to pleasure and play, to focus on yourself, and to fill your own cup. I want to create a community of women and empower them to be seen, heard, and known --- freely! I hope you are as excited as I am, so make sure to subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family.

Show notes:
[0:00] Intro
[1:36] My goal and vision for this podcast
[2:44] Let’s talk about pleasure practices
[6:18] Why I named this episode “The Pleasure Pandemic”?
[8:23] When I need to refresh my own pleasure practices, I run to kristahaapala.com. She is my personal sexologist and consciousness guide. Go check her out.
[9:06] What I am sad to admit?
[10:57] My favorite emotion and maybe something is missing in your pleasure practices
[14:02] What activities did you do as a child that made you happy?
[15:15] The importance of focusing on pleasure and play during this crazy time?
[17:18] Episode wrap up

Where to find me:
Websites: http://pashamarlowe.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/pasha.marlowe
IG: https://www.instagram.com/pashamarlowe/
Email: [email protected]

Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and families. Your support to me and this channel will be greatly appreciated. Not only will it help my podcast to grow, but it will also allow me to help others find pleasure in their lives. 

Support the show

HIRE PASHA to SPEAK at your next training event or conference.
Or hire her as your personal coach (1:1 and couples)
https://pashamarlowe.com/

To reach Pasha (and please do, as she loves to connect with listeners!):
email [email protected]
https://pashamarlowe.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pashamarlowe/
https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/
https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach
https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe

An easy way to support Pasha and her mission: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/pashamarlowe