Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about perfectionism, attitude, and judging others. What should I say to my elderly dad who is verbally abusive and falsely accusing me, my mom, and my sister? My 49yo son has a demanding wife who has convinced him that he has dementia and tries to keep us out of his life; how do we approach her? I lost my dad and sister, and my youngest daughter was kidnapped; why do I keep going back to my physically and emotionally abusive husband? I just ended a month-long relationship, and it seems like every time he hugged or talked to a woman, I felt a crippling pain in my heart; what is causing it, and how do I get rid of it? My 19yo granddaughter is afraid of her father and suicidal, and I my older granddaughter told me she was sexually and physically abused by him.