Have you ever felt more like roommates than husband and wife? Most couples go into marriage with forever in mind, but then life happens. There are times when you may find yourself clashing with your spouse, and instead of growing closer together, you are being driven further apart.

In these cases, you have three options: get divorced and co-parent if you have children, wait until the children are grown and then divorce, or get radical about turning your marriage around.

Joining us to discuss this important topic is a couple who chose the third option. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are the hosts of the top marriage podcast, The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, where they speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love, and commitment. They challenge every listener to make their marriage a priority. Their bestselling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has changed countless marriages around the world.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• How self-leadership impacts your relationship
• What it means to go “volcano” or “iceberg” in your marriage
• The importance of prioritizing your marriage relationship
• And so much more!

This conversation was such an encouragement to take a closer look at what we can do today to strengthen and invest in our marriage!

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/tony-alisa-dilorenzo-220

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