Everyone’s posting flowers and chocolates… Meanwhile, we’re reading Reddit stories that remind you why being single might be the real gift. From petty breakups to controlling partners and wild boundary violations. This Valentine’s Day, we’re unpacking what happens when love gets toxic.

Grab your snacks and your standards. This one’s a mess.

A roommate’s girlfriend accidentally walks into the wrong room… and suddenly someone’s being told how to sleep in their own bed.

In today’s Principal’s Office, a guy who’s always slept naked gets blamed after his roommate’s girlfriend opens the wrong door in the middle of the night. Instead of owning the mistake, they demand he start wearing clothes to bed—and it only gets weirder from there.

Including the roommate walking into his room on purpose to “check.”

So let’s talk about it.

Is this about being considerate…

or is this straight-up boundary crossing?

🎓 Welcome to Principal’s Office.

Drop your verdict.

Imagine planning your birthday trip…inviting 30 people…getting 16 RSVPs…booking the Airbnbs…paying for activities……and then watching your “friends” drop out one by one.In this episode of OBK Reacts, we break down a brutal TikTok story about a woman who tried to celebrate her birthday with the people she thought were her circle — only to realize she was celebrating alone.And here’s the part that hurts the most:This wasn’t the first time.She admits that last year, none of her friends showed up for her birthday party either.This one is uncomfortable.This one is familiar.And this one is going to have the comments in shambles.🎓 Classmates let us know:Have you ever realized you were more invested in your friendships than they were in you?Yeah… let’s talk about it. Class is in session.

This month’s Ask the Black Kids inbox did not disappoint. We’re talking cousin betrayal, closeted fiancés, messy husbands, and even a confession titled “hoes r less drama.” From macroaggressions to bread-based arguments, the drama is unhinged, and the commentary is spicier than ever. Plus, we read some real listener wins in our 3% Happy Stories segment to balance the chaos. As always, school snacks and toxic confessions included.

A bachelorette party. A group chat. And videos that weren’t meant to be seen.

After four years together and weeks away from the wedding, this man accidentally discovers videos from his fiancée’s bachelorette party—showing her kissing multiple men and disappearing into a bedroom with them. When confronted, she and her friends insist it’s “not what it looks like.”

Receipts say otherwise.

Now the wedding is canceled, the truth is being minimized, and everyone wants him to stay quiet.

So let’s talk about it.

Is silence the mature move…

or is this already over?

🎓 Welcome to Principal’s Office.

Drop your verdict.

Moving to a new city is supposed to be fun…
not life-threatening.

In this episode of OBK Reacts, we break down a wild TikTok story from a young man who moved to Atlanta and started hanging with an old college friend who liked to get a little too loose on the weekends.

What started as partying and “outside” vibes quickly turned into late nights, sketchy locations, unfamiliar faces, and people who were very much up to no good.

This story is a masterclass in:

• Not knowing who your friends REALLY are

• Getting dragged into shenanigans you never signed up for

• And learning the hard way that proximity can get you caught up

One bad decision.
One trusted friend.
And a situation that could’ve ended very differently.

🎓 Classmates — this one is for anyone who’s ever said:
“I was just there because of my friend.”

💬 Sound off in the comments:
Have you ever had to cut someone off because they kept putting you in dangerous situations?

Welcome back to class.

In this chaotic episode, we dive into stories that blur the line between wild and unbelievable. A woman defecates in the shower with her boyfriend. Another admits to being furious over a $150 engagement ring. One man eats all the jalapeño poppers, while someone else delivers a harsh ultimatum to his pregnant girlfriend. We also unpack a “free” wedding that’s anything but, and a woman losing it over clown figurines.

Plus, we read two unforgettable Ask the Black Kid emails, share our school snacks, and react to some truly toxic confessions. If you’ve ever said, “People are wild,” this episode proves it.

A 9-year-old needs surgery—and his parents can’t agree on what happens next.

In today’s Principal’s Office, a dad with 50/50 custody schedules his son’s surgery during winter break—his parenting time. The day before the operation, his ex asks if their son can recover at her house instead. He says no.

What follows is a standoff over boundaries, comfort, and who gets to decide when things get hard. He holds firm—even refusing in-home visits—saying custody agreements exist for a reason.

So let’s talk about it.

Was this about protecting his role as a parent…

or was this control disguised as boundaries?

🎓 Welcome to Principal’s Office.

Drop your verdict.

We thought the story was over… until the friend responded.In this episode of OBK Reacts, we watch the friendship fallout get even messier as the other woman finally speaks up.

She calls out what she says are mistruths, breaks down why she really ended the friendship, and drops details that completely flip the original narrative.

This isn’t just “he said, she said.”This is receipts, hurt feelings, crossed boundaries, and a plot twist we did NOT see coming.By the end, you’ll be asking:

• Did we judge too fast?
• Was this friendship already dead?
• And… who was actually out of line?

👀 Watch until the end 'cause the final reveal changes everything.

Classmates, sound off in the comments:Was the friendship salvageable, or was ending it the right move?

🎓 Welcome back to class.

You thought family drama was bad? Wait until money, weddings, and secrets get involved. In this episode, we dive into the pettiest, wildest, and most jaw-dropping wedding dilemmas—from parents skipping ceremonies to friends getting dropped over cash. Oh, and someone’s sister just walked into the bathroom with her fiancé three days before saying “I do.”

Plus, we’ve got School Snacks and a fire lineup of Toxic Confessions: cheating, scams, and one woman who left her husband just because she got bored.

Strap in. It’s messy.

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00:00 Homeroom

05:10 ATBK- Wedding Money Drama

12:04 AITA for expecting my sister to finally pay me back for her wedding... five years later?

19:20 WIBTA if I refused to attend my best friend’s wedding because she’s making guests pay for everything?

24:30 AITA for telling my friend that her "free" wedding is unrealistic?

31:15 AITA For going on a motorcycle trip with my friends instead of my daughters wedding?

36:23 Me [26F] visiting family with my boyfriend [27M] of 6 years. We are staying with my parents for the week leading up to my sisters [24F] wedding. I just saw my boyfriend and sister (who is to be married in less than 3 days) walk into her bathroom together

46:58 School Snacks

52:49 My former best friend kicked me out of her wedding because I wouldn’t drop $800 on her “bachelorette weekend,” and now she’s acting like nothing happened

56:37 AITA? I didn’t attend my son’s wedding, I instead spent the evening with his ex wife.

01:02:31 Money Ish

01:12:29 Toxic Confessions- I'm Not Proud of Cheating on My GF

01:13:27 Toxic Confessions- Give Me a Sign to Stop Tricking

01:14:29 Toxic Confessions- Stingy Scammer

01:15:43 Toxic Confessions- My Fiancé Doesn't Know I Have Two Kids

01:16:41 MsParker Toxic Confessions- I Broke Up With My Husband Because I Was Bored