Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” 

 “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” 

“I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!” 

“I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!” 

I LOVE THIS so much. 

One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other.  And themselves. 

When they describe this smouldering fire of self-love and desire, they use the same kind of language and energy as if they were talking about the relationship with their lover: 

Especially from women—men seem to have an easier time and much more permission to develop a sexual relationship—read: wanking—with themselves.

Many women have never put their fingers in their own vaginas. 

Many women think that self-pleasuring is boring and just “not for them”. 

Many women have no idea of the geography of their own anatomy, or what turns them on. 

Know thyself. The keys to the queendom are found… in your vagina. 

In this episode: 

• The ultimate “love yourself first before you can find a parter”: loving and knowing your vagina
• 5 tools for mastering self-love and orgasms
• Doing Anami work alone 
• Raising your frequency to attract a higher caliber partner in your next relationship 
• The catharsis of vaginal orgasms: forget therapy and go f**k yourself instead 
• Working hard at manifesting and achieving vs. getting well-f**ked and being magnetic instead 
• The life-changing benefits of f**king the shit out of yourself

Join your squirting, orgasmic, well-f**ked women tribe.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 10-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on:

• Increasing your feminine magnetism and charisma
• Enlightened oral, manual and deep throating techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer 
• The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms
• Self-pleasuring 101
• How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
• Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
• Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy 
• How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
• And much more! 

You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERF**KED?

Sign up NOW for my free video series to become a Well-F**ked Woman!

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements. 

Slow. Soft. 

Maybe even more deeply in the softness. 

So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual encounter is—actually the majority of them—are under 10 minutes. 

ANYONE rushing through sex is afraid of going deep. Of really connecting and being seen. 

In slower, softer sex, there is no hiding. You reveal—and your partner sees—every millimeter, every cell of you. 

It’s like being split open and every dark nook and cranny of your being is exposed to the most radiant, healing light. 

These multi-hour experiences have been some of the most powerful of my life. 

Hours go by like minutes. Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored. We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions. 

It’s interstellar sex. 

And I’ll tell you all about what that’s like for me in today’s episode. 

A soft fuck is usually by default a slow fuck. 

A soft and slow fuck expands time. 

Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored. 
 
 Hours go by like minutes. 

We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions. 

It’s interstellar sex. 

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. 

I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying.

I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and relentless he can be.

I especially need the hard stuff when something is stuck in me and I’m looking for a way to dislodge it.

It could be a specific emotion that’s just lingering below the surface, like anger or sadness.

I need someone to hold me down and fuck me.

The best lovers do this for each other.

You hold each other down and love the fuck out of each other.

And fuck the shit out of each other—and by this I mean headboard-slamming sex and I also mean that by fucking each other with such intense love and admiration, you literally fuck the demons out of them. 

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. 

It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. 

In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara: 

Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozens of times in our sessions. We had one four-hour session where she had 37 orgasms. The G-spot, it’s my best friend. I can’t believe how it’s orgasm after orgasm. I fucking love the G-spot.”

Multiple orgasms indeed. 

In this episode: 

• 5 ways to orgasm together 
• Transitioning from clitoral to G-Spot and cervical orgasms 
• “Anal play was easier than we thought!”
• Orgasms clearing ancestral trauma 
• The power of worshipping your partner’s genitals 
• Having two hours of sex every day 
• Embodying more masculine and feminine energies 
• Your orgasms are a barometer for your connection 
• Slowing down in sex to awaken 
• Evolving from technique into pure flow and intuitive sexual brilliance 
• Bringing back the primal, throw-you-down attraction

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 

It's the Anami Guarantee. 

I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 

• How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
• How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
• Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage 
• Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
• Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm 
• Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
• Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 

To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers. 

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine.

But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays all her demons.

The kind of cock that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

I speak to my clients—and I know from my own experiences—that the stuff they've struggled with and applied so much willpower to—with no success—and tried so hard to fix with their minds and best efforts...all of that fell flat.

Until they got well-f**ked.

In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Keisha.

I LOVE her story. She shares openly about the impact of being an underf**ked woman who was about to start taking antidepressants.

And then some Supercock came along. And all was well in the world again.

In this episode we cover:

• “I was a raging bitch and a ballbuster!”
• What a woman wants her man to do when she’s emasculating him
• “Birth control sent me into the depths of hell”
• A numb vagina meets a jade egg
• “I had a prescription for Zoloft in my hand”
• Diving deep into stuff they never talked about in seven years
• Sobriety as a tool to go deeper
• Arguments cease in a well-f**ked world
• Restoring the natural masculine/feminine polarity
• How long can you go without sex in a well-f**ked relationship before you notice the disturbance?
• The healing power of yoni and lingam massages
• Tossing the vibrator forever
• Multiple G-Spot orgasms for her
• His orgasm is “a thousand times more powerful than it was before.”
• The better option to prescription antidepressants or hormones or weight loss drugs
• “Every time, it gets better. Every time we think that the last time was the best time, then the next time beats it.”
• Two people coming together as one person

THE COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON IS NOW OPEN!

10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!

In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex you’ll learn: 

• Sexual reflexology and massage techniques for the yoni and lingam 
• My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments 
• Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius 
• How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms 
• Supercock stamina techniques for men 
• Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers 
• And all my secrets to coming together

https://kimanami.com/lovers

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. 

I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. 

Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in prayer all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t do Tantra. 

I do a modern, sophisticated version of it. I remove the fluff and cut to the chase. 

Don’t let the lack of incense and Mrs. Roper caftans fool you. 

In this episode: 

• 6 steps for creating a Tantric relationship 
• Healing sexual positions and sex as medicine 
• Slow sex to go deep 
• Vulnerability is the best armour 
• Quick sex as a fear of intimacy 
• Tantric telepathy between lovers 
• Building up your pleasure endurance. How good can you take it? How much ecstasy can you receive? 
• The #1 most important sexual skill men can cultivate 

My Coming Together for Couples Salon is Tantra 101 and Tantra 1001 nights. In this 10-week online salon, you’ll learn: 

• How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy 
• Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals 
• My sexual position prescription guide 
• The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women 
• Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours 
• How to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeat
• How to transmute your sexual energy into more cash and abundance in your lives 

Registration is open now until. Signup: https://kimanami.com/lovers

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. 

Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session before dinner. A blow job in the car on the way to the dinner. 

This is what it looks like when your well-f**ked energy now fuels your lives. 

In this episode, Ida and her partner went from lackluster sex to an elevated sex life that is now able to: 

• Heal her sexual trauma 
• Grow his cock 
• Make them richer 
• Instantly remove her chronic vaginal pain 
• Transform him into an alpha male 
• Ignite her inner insatiability, so she wants sex all the time 
• Have her find God
• Drop excess body weight 
• Calm their children and have them be better behaved
• Harness this energy to achieve their dreams and goals

Everyone can have this in their lives as their daily reality.

It’s the Anami Guarantee.

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My Coming Together Salon for Couples opens for registration next week! 

You can signup to our email list to be notified of when the doors open. And, you can receive our free 7-Day Sex Cleanse and get a leg up on all the practices in the salon. 

This 7-day sex date will give you a taste of what we do, with emotional and sexual homeplay for the next week. You’ll learn: 

• How to keep the simmer going 24/7
• The almighty G-Spot + Squirting 101
• Powerful stamina techniques for him 

Signup here:
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!).

How?

By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives.

We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magnetize massive business opportunities and boost their income exponentially.

Remember our Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job episode? How could you ever forget? 

We’ve also watched people alchemize their trauma—even deep sexual abuse—through this work. 

THAT’S how powerful it is.

You can do every one of these things through the power of the holy fuck.

In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star couple Colleen and Jessie.

They’ve learned to consciously direct their sexual energy and use it for everything from physical healing in their bodies (deep throating for the win!) and channeling this energy into their careers to make more cash.

We cover: 

• Life with three young kids and daily sex 
• Religious upbringing: Sex is God’s gift vs. it’s shameful and bad 
• Alchemizing stuck blocks 
• Throat and voice restrictions 
• Radical honesty
• What happens when a masculine woman meets a man more masculine than her? 
• “He’s got it. He’s got me. I can completely trust him.” 
• Daily sex. At least once a day. 
• “The day normally starts off with some sort of blow job. That’s the wake-up.” 
• Plugging into each other for energy 
• Well-f**ked parents = well-behaved children 
• “Even though there’s a storm of life going around me, I have a centering point. My penis is my centering point.”
• “Colleen might have had a rough day and she’ll say, “I need to suck your cock for five minutes and then go make dinner.”
• Band-Aids and quick fixes vs. permanent healing

Signup for the free 7-Day Sex Cleanse.
A weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.

Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: 

• Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets
• Broken bed frames
• Being fully energized by each other's life force energy
• Clearing of relationship blocks
• Stronger stamina
• Increasing trust, intimacy and openness
• Sky-rocketing libidos

Signup here.
https://kimanami.com/lovers

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? 

Your whole world and woman change. 

She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life. 

Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning. 

Now try having a productive day at work when she’s woken you up with a blow job. 

Getting and keeping your woman sexually and emotionally open and available to you is the life, business and high-performance hack you never knew you needed. 

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Join my free 7-day Sex Cleanse for Couples!

In this 7-day relationship renewal sex cleanse, you and your partner will explore:

• Foreplay for epic sex
• How to open her up, and keep her open
• The art of all-night love making
• Occupy your masculinity and your cock 
• What weekly 3-hr sex dates will do to your relationship

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. 

How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and using your relationship as the power source that fuels your lives and elevates everything in your world. 

In this episode I’ll walk you through how to bring them into the fold, including: 

• How to frame the conversation to open them to these ideas, rather than trigger their defences
• Moving out of the norm of mediocre relationship into being the most well-f**ked couple around 
• A curated list of podcast episodes to share with them
• What to do if they resist the call 

In addition to the podcast episodes I’m suggesting, which you can find on this page: 

kimanami.com/invitepartner

You can also signup for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse that includes exercises you can practice together daily.