Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

This week opens with a deep conversation about our actualy relationship and communication styles. Then we dive into this mess:

• [UPDATE] I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they’ve been dating for months. Now I’m expected to third wheel this trip and don’t know what to do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bylg7u/update_i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends/

• I [29M] have been dating my GF [37F] for 4 years - why don't I feel like I want to marry her yet?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzf190/i_29m_have_been_dating_my_gf_37f_for_4_years_why/

• My (25M) husband is excited for me (26F) to come and clean his parents house. Should I file for divorce after my husband told me he was excited for me to visit so I can clean for him?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzij5n/my_25m_husband_is_excited_for_his_26f_to_come_and/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

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We're back with quite a few spicy questions that run the gamut! We're talking birth, friendship, and religion. Buckle up!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu1211/my_34f_husband_30m_has_been_secretly_donating/
• I (29F) refused to let my MIL (63F) be present while I give birth. We think she'll try to show up anyway - how can we stop this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btx6t4/i_29f_refused_to_let_my_mil_63f_be_present_while/
• My (30F) family won’t stop pushing religion on my daughter (5F). How can I make it stop?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu2z6o/my_30f_family_wont_stop_pushing_religion_on_my/
• I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they’ve been dating for months. Now I’m expected to third wheel this trip and don’t know what to do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btqy5m/i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends_31f_26m/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

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This is the sweepy episode.

We're hopping in these threads:

I (28M) broke up with my partner (26F) a few years ago, I'm very close with her parents, but recently learned she is now getting married and she's asked can I not contact them anymore?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bcp5g3/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_partner_26f_a_few_years/

My [22f] best friend [23f] forgot my birthday. Is it dumb I’m sad?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bd6swn/my_22f_best_friend_23f_forgot_my_birthday_is_it/

Wife (34F) got into performing standup comedy a few years ago and I (32M) can't take it anymore.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1baywkd/wife_34f_got_into_performing_standup_comedy_a_few/

i think i (23f) ruined my fiancee's (23m) friend group?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bc3vmi/i_think_i_23f_ruined_my_fiancees_23m_friend_group/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Lots of wedding talk in this one! Some weddings that should happen and one that shouldn't!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My Fiance (45M) is infatuated on knowing if ex wife (42F) is dating. Is this serious? How do I approach him with this info so he will feel open to express himself & not attacked?
• I(26F) have very few people to invite to wedding, fiance (M32) has huge potential invite list. Feeling a little sad and embarrassed, looking for advice/encouragement from those who've been in similar situations?
• I (35f) need there to be less topping. How do I do that without hurting or embarrassing him (40m)?
• What can I do about my(36M) partner(30F) who doesn’t want to come to band practice with me?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Sometimes you brainwash yourself into not wanting to sleep with your wife. You know, normal marriage things.

We're hopping in these threads:

• Am I wrong for "Friend Zoning" my wife?
• My husband (32m) and I (34f) have been married for 8 years, and he made a callous remark in bed. What do you guys make of it?
• Is it weird to invite a male classmate at home for assignment? Me 28F BF 34M
• I (25f) am being expected to pay $150+ to attend my cousin’s fiancé’s (27f) bachelorette party. Should non bridal party guests be expected to pay this much?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 

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Did you notice that I forgot to remove add a [Fun anecdote] last week and just left it in there because I was in a rush to upload the latest episode? Anyway we go through it all in this one. Friends getting scammed potentially, what information should be upfront when dating, poop alerts, and baby delivery woes. Come for the relationship advice and stay for the poop jokes!

We're hopping in these threads:

• I (36M) am trying to talk my friend (30M) out of wasting $5000 of his $8000 savings on a social media mentor. How can I further explain that he's being scammed?
• I (f24) found out my bf (m30) actually “separated” and not divorced. I feel a little lied to, is that fair?
• My husband (38M) judges my (39F) cooking by telling me how he’ll be pooping the next day. I’ve asked him to stop, but he doesn’t see the big deal. Am I just being up tight?
• I F30 told my doctor I would sue him if he touched me and delivered our son on all fours and “embarrassed” my husband M32?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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[Fun anecdote]

We're hopping in these threads:

• I (F19) accidentally implied that my boyfriend (M19) is a loser. How can I fix this?
• Is my (28F) boyfriend (28M) addicted to porn?
• My (26f) best friend (23f) might be in love with my husband (26m). Where do I go from here?
• I (30F) discovered through therapy that I’m gay, how do I tell my fiancé (38M)?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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I promise to stop complaining about our cats one day.

We're hopping in these threads:

I’m (F27) starting to think my “best friend” (F27) doesn’t like me very much.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auzxip/im_f27_starting_to_think_j_my_best_friend_f27/

How do I (20F) build healthy communication with my partner (21M) and stop shutting down?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1av78tf/how_do_i_20f_build_healthy_communication_with_my/

I (35F) just found out my bf (36M) slept with his step sister

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1atxto9/i_35f_just_found_out_my_bf_36m_slept_with_his/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

I (24F) was worried I was being too mean to my boyfriend (27M). He says I’m keeping things interesting.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auvnn5/i_24f_was_worried_i_was_being_too_mean_to_my/

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Happy Valentine's Day, we go deep in the episode and there's an interesting Dad theme.

We're hopping in these threads:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agdb71/my_23f_boyfriend_25m_thinks_my_dads_59m_gifts_are/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agee6r/my_36f_husband_47m_says_its_inappropriate_to_wear/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/19a0omr/my_29f_wife_has_lost_alot_of_weight_i_want_to31m/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/187w18h/my_girlfriends_23f_dad_died_a_week_before_i_24m/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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