Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Good sweet all around cutie, Damian Haas joins us for today's episode. It runs the whole gamut! Grieving crushes, exes crawling back to you, terrible talk about your partner, and incels!

• How can I (F20) get over him (M21) (we never even dated)
• Months ago, my gf (36F) broke up with me (37M) after 14 years together, seemingly for someone else. Now, she's hinting at reuniting. How do I approach her about earning my trust back?
• I 26F broke up with my boyfriend 28M after I caught him referring to me as a "fuckdoll" and his plan to leave me if he meets someone better. He just called from his friend's number, said it was a "joke" and asked to forgive him. Is this forgivable?
• I’ve (23f) been dating him (23m) for three months and he hasn’t even held hands with me. How do I break up with him nicely?

Socials: Damian is @damianhaas, we are @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

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This week we are joined by relationship coach, pro intimacy coordinator, and all around awesome human Arielle Zadok! We get real insightful as we delve deep into some more relationship mess!

We're hopping in these threads:

• How can I (27F) make my husband (31M) not feel uncomfortable initiating sex?
• My wife (f49) just told me (m49) she slept with her massage therapist 
• Boyfriend (M30) of 6 years doesn’t want to try for a baby or get engaged to me (F30) do I leave him?

Arielle Zadok is at @ariellezadok

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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What a fun episode with our first guest, Ethan Nestor aka Crankgameplays! We're getting really wild with this one talking about eating, emotional cheating, and racist meetings.

We're hopping in these threads:

• I (21f) just found out my parents (43f and 46m) are related to one another.
• My (29 f) racist parent's (60 m) want to see me after they disowned me 10 year's ago. Need advice.
• I (28M) saw my GF (25F) getting coffee with a guy from work she has history with, is it bad?
• F22 here . My M24 bf claims eating a girl out is not common for men

Socials:

Ethan is @ethannestor

@ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Happy New Year! After a week hiatus we are back into mess in the new year. Lots of fun light ones this episode. Child birth, intrusive thoughts, weird politics, and potential butt slapping? Hop into the conversation and if your new years resolution is to support your favorite people, sign up for the patreon!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My (30M) wife (28F) has said she wants her mother with her when she gives birth, not me
• My (28F) boyfriend (28M) can't seem to move on from the fact that I had an abortion in a previous relationship.
• I (24F) love my boyfriend (24M) but whenever we are apart for more than I week I get strong urges to break up with him
• My girlfriend (24f) ass was slapped at a party by my friend (28m) of over 10 years.

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Merry Chrystler and Happy Honda Days! We're back with another episode to help you dissociate from a trip that you are now realizing might be a day or two too long, or maybe you actually like your family! Either way, this one is fun! We have video! Since it's post Christmas and we have family in town, that's probably going up tomorrow (12/27) but we'll blast the news on socials when it's up!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My (F 23) boyfriend (M 27) gives me horrible gifts and I’m fed up.
• Do I F20 back off from my M20 bf's parents before it becomes "incestuous"?
• I (26m) literally f*cked the shit out of my (25f) girlfriend and now she is ghosting me.
• I (19m) don’t trust my girlfriend(20f) for no reason and I’m extremely paranoid. What do I do?

The pod's IG is @ourrelationshippod, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, and Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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Em picked this week's questions and these are some good conversations, talking all elements of relationships and communication.

We're hopping in these threads:

• https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/18klnuo/finding_out_my_24m_girlfriend_27f_has_4_kids_not/
• https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/18kgo7r/my_31f_husband_37f_keeps_minimising_everything_i/ 
• https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/18kh7vc/how_do_i_f24_tell_my_boyfriend_m23_that_im_not/

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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I think we can call this one our Christmas episode because we have a festive question to answer. This one gets deep and Ify gets distracted as their cats go wild in the background. You may or may not hear the cats, but you'll definitely hear Ify complaining about this one. This episode is tangent heavy, but breaks into solid conversations about dating outside your race, non-monagamy (as always), and seeing your partner getting active with someone else on video.

We're hopping in these threads:

• I'm [29F] divorcing my husband [28M] for suggesting an open marraige... complicated feelings
• I (29F) broke my marriage because I refuse to go to my husband’s (36M) family Christmas party
• I m23 saw a video of my girlfriend 25f giving her ex a bj

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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What an episode! We get sooo spicy at the end of this one. We open with a conversation about bedroom media and behaviors, then jump into a very valid fiancee's anger, the we step into a discussion that starts in the bedroom and evolves into a talk about mind reading. We're not talking about X-men either... there is a reference tho!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My M30 boyfriend won't stop watching Avatar: The Way of Water during sex with me M27 for 3 weeks
• Boyfriend (35M) proposed to me (29F) with an expensive engagement ring he bought to propose to his ex but didn’t. Is it unreasonable to return it to him and insist that I don’t want a ring intended for someone else?
• I (30f) am feeling salty about the recent orgasm math with my partner (28m). Did I ask for too much?

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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Hope you enjoyed eating ya meats and sides! Em and Ify are back with another set of messy questions from r/relationship_advice. This week is for the freaks, a ruined proposal is bookended by a potential feet freak unwilling to go full form and a potential threesome poly relationship type thing. Just listen!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My husband (M36) told me (F35) that I should buy closed-toed shoes since I don’t do my toes.
• I (29F) am disappointed with how my fiancée (30m) proposed
• I 24M think my wife 23f is exploring her sexuality

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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This one is a fun one! We learn what a "diaper party is", talk about our libidos, and secret lives with current wives!

We're hopping in these threads:

• My (25f) boyfriend (25m) is going to a ‘diaper party’ where there is going to be a stripper and body shots

• My (24F) husband (25M) has to initiate sex or we don’t do it. Can anybody else relate to this?

• I (f27) recently found my partner’s (m28) secret life

• 29M finally told my 27F partner to leave, and she did. Did I do the right thing?

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon is: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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