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Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed El' Deity Princey. 

📝 Summary of the Interview

El' Deity Princey is a transformational master coach, author, and speaker with a background in social science, neuroscience, and trauma recovery. In this powerful and deeply personal interview, she shares her journey from childhood trauma and dysfunction to becoming a high-achieving coach helping others reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties, and build wealth-driven lives. Her book, Monetize a Mind That’s Colonized, and her coaching business, 11 Master Consulting, are tools she uses to empower others to transcend adversity and manifest success.

🔑 Key Takeaways 1. Mindset is the Foundation of Wealth

  • “Energy is currency.” True prosperity begins with internal transformation.
  • Reprogramming the subconscious mind is essential to breaking free from societal conditioning and limiting beliefs.

2. Cutting Toxic Ties

  • Toxic relationships—whether personal, familial, or professional—drain energy and hinder growth.
  • “When you cut toxic ties, you thrive.”
  • Applies to both employees and employers: focus on those who contribute positively to your mission.

3. Coaching vs. Therapy

  • Coaching focuses on present and future goals, while therapy often addresses past trauma.
  • El' Deity emphasizes accountability, strategy, and results in her coaching practice.

4. Routine Builds Wealth

  • Daily habits, environment, and self-care routines are critical to building internal and external wealth.
  • “Everyone has a gift. Everyone has a talent.” Routine helps unlock and monetize those gifts.

5. Healing from Trauma

  • She shares her personal experience with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) and how childhood PTSD mirrors veteran PTSD.
  • Her journey from dysfunction and cult-like environments to academic and personal success is a testament to resilience.

6. Manifestation Requires Action

  • Her concept of “Coagulation Law” emphasizes that belief alone isn’t enough—resources and action are required to manifest goals.
  • Life is like Monopoly: strategy and movement are key to winning.

7. Empowering Language

  • Words shape reality. Avoid saying “I’m struggling”—instead, affirm your intelligence and capability.
  • “Speak life into yourself.”

8. Client Success Stories

  • She helped a client leave a toxic home, pursue her talents, and attract a supportive partner—demonstrating how mindset shifts lead to real-world success.

9. Accessibility & Services

  • Offers free live coaching on TikTok three times a week.
  • Book: Monetize a Mind That’s Colonized is available on Amazon under her real name, Princess Halo.
  • Coaching and courses available through 11 Master Consulting.

đź’¬ Notable Quotes

  • “When you master your emotions, you master your reality.”
  • “Healing doesn’t take years—it takes intention.”
  • “I got tired of begging for crumbs of love and began to give myself loads of love.”
  • “Your self-image is what you attract.”
  • “Are you tired yet? If yes, it’s time to pivot.”

#SHMS #STRAW #BEST

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