Overthinking with the Overbys

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Join us as we continue to reveal plans to transform an old building into our dream podcast studio, and ideas of a relaunch and overhaul of the pod. We talk renovation strategies, a return to Matt's social media content creation, and their experiment with "Bricking" phones to reduce screen time and improve mental well-being.

• Announcing plans to renovate a rundown building into a dedicated podcast studio
• Reflecting on July's positive impact on mental health and family activities
• Matt's preparation for an upcoming fitness competition
• Return to social media with a more intentional approach
• Discussion of the "Brick" phone experiment to limit phone usage
• How Matt falls down research rabbit holes when using technology
• Insights on breaking backyard renovations into manageable zones
• Advice on masters swimming programs for adult swimmers
• Thoughts on navigating political differences in conservative areas
• Becoming more comfortable with authentic identity rather than fitting in

Tune in next month for our September episode as we continue developing our podcast studio renovation plans!

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Join us as we break down the realities of making a living as content creators, answering listener questions about everything from revenue streams to work-life balance while sharing personal insights from our own experiences.

• Brand collaborations - involving contracted content creation with companies
• Platform payments from YouTube, TikTok, and other platforms offer another revenue stream based on views
• Commissionable linking / purchases through creator affiliate links
• Subscription models through Patreon or platform features as reliable monthly income
• Individual businesses or product lines representing additional revenue opportunities
• Filming with kids and clear boundaries and communication about work time versus family time
• Simple vs. Easy - explaining the time and skill to produce quality videos
• Video editing time and variance
• Spontaneous vs planned content breakdown
• The pros and cons of social for us personally

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If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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This week we dive into gardening adventures, backyard wildlife, philosophical questions, and relationship boundaries while sharing personal stories about family planning and wedding decisions.

• Jo confesses to having limited gardening knowledge 
• Matt explains the difference between fruits and vegetables 
• We share our mosquitoes theories
• Both agree they would choose the "blue pill" in a philosophical hypothetical
• A debate unfolds about the size of a lizard found in our house
• We share our preference for baby names and naming styles 
• Advice on setting boundaries with family members during wedding planning, especially when financial support comes with strings attached
• Tips for supporting long-distance friends during postpartum when you can't be physically present

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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We explore the reality of welcoming our third child into the family and adjusting to life as a family of five!

• Reflecting on Jo's Instagram message frustrations, with hidden requests causing missed connections
• Discussing the 41-week induction and lightning-fast delivery experience
• Addressing how to manage resentment between partners during the intense newborn days
• Sharing insights on postpartum anxiety versus depression and different treatment approaches
• Explaining our experience using doulas and the value they can provide during birth
• Tackling the guilt some parents feel about not giving older children enough attention
• Offering practical advice on setting boundaries with excited family members after birth
• Providing thoughts on hospital bag essentials that actually matter
• Discussing how communities can genuinely support new parents beyond just holding the baby

If you're enjoying these conversations, consider joining us on a weekly basis!\

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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We jump right into the Chapel Roan controversy, offering nuanced perspectives on her viral parenting comments while sharing our own experiences as content creators balancing family life and work. They explore how cultural context and systemic failures make parenting harder than it needs to be, not the children themselves. Join us as we:

• Discus greenhouse dreams and how life's priorities shift when raising young children
• Examine family planning and the realities of pregnancy versus postpartum experiences
• Break down the Chapel Roan controversy and why her comments about friends with children "being in hell" resonated
• Share our spring break without childcare and how we managed expectations
• Offer hot takes on parenting, including why parenting itself isn't inherently difficult but lacks proper support systems
• Challenge the idea that love between parents and children should be equally unconditional
• Laugh about their astrological incompatibility despite our long term relationship

Join our Patreon to be the first to hear baby news and updates as we head into our brief break before welcoming our third child!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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This week we negotiate the real ups and downs of pregnancy and parenting, sharing personal stories and insights of how we have navigated our experiences on our way to baby number three. We talk about how our previous experiences have shaped our expectations this time around and the unique challenges we're expecting this go around.

This episode we get into:
• Personal updates and reflections 
• Navigating prenatal depression during pregnancy 
• Preparing other children for a new sibling 
• The differences between pregnancies and their effect on our mental health 
• The decision to find out the baby's sex and its implications 
• How to approach parenting gender differences 
• Creating a supporting environment for older siblings 
• The impact of identity on parenting 
• Finding joy in the chaos of growing families 

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

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This week's episode delves into the emotional complexities of daily life, focusing on Matt's recent struggles with anxiety and ADHD and Jo's experiences with parenting. We emphasize the importance of acknowledging feelings, discussing the balance between embracing emotions and managing mental health. Plus updates from life over the last month and our feelings on the new year so far!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
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Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

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This episode explores the comedic chaos that often comes with the holiday season, as we reflect on our own memorable experiences. We engage in discussions about mental health, the importance of building routines, and our evolving resolutions. We talk about how we're using technology this year to improve our planning, all while navigating the complexities of communication within our relationship. 

• Reflecting on holiday memories and mishaps 
• Discussing the importance of mental health and stability 
• Setting resolutions focused on building routines 
• The role of technology, specifically AI tools, in planning 
• Navigating communication styles as parents

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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This week we swap stories about our fashion quirks and the hilariously mismatched outfits that make us who we are. From Jo's playful grilling of Matt's love for cozy oversized clothes to tales of "Gumby syndrome" in the family, our conversation offers a humorous take on body image and self-perception. Laugh along as we navigate the complexities of dressing for comfort versus style and attempting pull-ups at 37 weeks pregnant!

Whether we're discussing the art of fitting an access point system in the house or recounting the frenzy of Black Friday shopping, our anecdotes offer a lighthearted glimpse into the joys and challenges of everyday living. Plus, we debate the anxiety-inducing headlines that flood our news feeds and how they shape our perceptions of the world. And we answer questions from the listeners this week, ranging from how to handle different religious and political perspectives in parenting, to how to build community away from home.

Don’t forget to check out our Patreon for more laughs and insights, and keep those questions coming for our future episodes!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

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Beyond the appearance change (check out the YouTube to understand), this week brings the news that baby number three is on the way, and we get into how life has taken an exciting, albeit challenging turn. We share personal stories of navigating pregnancy-related sickness and the emotional complexities of prenatal depression, all while adjusting to Matt's extended role as full-time dad. Our candid conversation reveals how these changes impact our family dynamics, especially as we prepare for our children's school years and strive to balance professional commitments with personal well-being.

Recently, a night out turned into an unexpectedly entertaining adventure, complete with creative costumes and a stubborn commitment to a not-so-great drink. Amidst the fun, we chat about our podcast strategies and the importance of connecting with our listeners. Preparing for our growing family, we consider how priorities shift and emphasize the creation of meaningful spaces for each child, focusing on nurturing a loving home environment. The episode is rich with playful anecdotes and heartfelt reflections that resonate with anyone managing the chaos of family life.

Quilting and reading habits take center stage as we explore the comforting nostalgia of homemade quilts and the laughter behind "Greg's Reads of the Week." From Halloween costume dilemmas to a lively debate about main characters in family ensembles, our lighthearted banter keeps the pod rolling. We also touch on body image and fitness, sharing how competitive swimming has shaped Jo's perspective outside the norm. This episode blends humor and sentimentality, offering a genuine connection filled with laughter, insights, and a dash of Halloween spirit.

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq