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We trade bits for honesty, connect Icarus to individual comedy stylings, and admit that fevers and caffeine expose what’s sustainable and what's not. Then we sprint through Winter Olympics highs and heartbreak, tackle kid spacing, and give unvarnished dating advice for weathering ghosting with your self-worth intact. Chats this week include:

• humor as connection versus derailment
• Pushing past limits or flying into the sun
• fever recovery, hydration, reduced caffeine talk
• algorithm talk and scrolling habits
• Winter Olympics stories, medals, controversies
• difficulty and judging across sports
• parenting logistics and holiday overwhelm
• age gaps between siblings and readiness
• dating apps, ghosting, boundaries, self-respect

Rate, review, follow us, and don't forget to let 19 of your closest friends know they'll be cursed if they don't do the same!

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From analytics we hope are broken to turbulent family dynamics, we unpack the halftime show’s symbolism, viral backlash, and how to keep parenting aligned with your values without shrinking your life on this week's episode of Overthinking!  Discussion includes:

• broken analytics and redefining success
• halftime show as TV-first spectacle and symbolism
• AI-heavy ads and the uncanny vibes
• community kindness and outreach
• viral clip fallout and gendered blame online
• Word of the Week
• screen time on walls and boredom as a skill
• do kids really change everything?
• travel with kids, expectations, and building a village
• Family boundaries / gentle parenting your family

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Don't forget, you're supposed to send this to 19 of your closest friends or you'll have ten years of bad luck.

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From the ashes of Oversharing comes Overthinking - and this week we talk about taking a pause on the launch to respect real news, a nine day studio build, and a better plan for goals and habits in our version of the new year. 

• Why Overthinking fits better than Oversharing
• Postponement of the launch to due to the state of the world
• Drink of the day and lighter moments to reset
• Studio building and the drywall learning curve
• Hyperfocus vs steady systems in work and marriage
• Vlogmas lessons on editing, streaks and comments
• February as the new January
• How to restart habits without all‑or‑nothing thinking
• Empathy, boundaries and functioning as a community
• Parenting through loss of cell service

Please rate the podcast, review the podcast, leave us a voicemail, text us, email us, reach out any way you feel because we love, love, love this community and talking with you all. Links and everything are below!

We'll be back to chat every Wednesday, hope to see you here.

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We share our raw emotions about our kids' first day of preschool and reflect on how parenting has changed us both in unexpected ways. This conversation explores life transitions, reassessing priorities, and finding our path forward as content creators and parents.

• First day of preschool brings reflections on parenting and personal growth
• Matt opens up about the challenges of being a stay-at-home parent to young children
• After 135 episodes, we're planning a full relaunch with a more professional setup!
• Matt plans to return to content creation with a more consistent approach. Again.
• We discuss how life transitions prompt self-assessment and new directions
• Our Train concert experience reminds us that sometimes you need fun amid big changes
• Greg's Reads segment covers suburban golf cart wars and pandemic preparedness
• We address listener questions about online engagement and privilege awareness

We'll be taking a break from monthly episodes to build our new studio, but Patreon subscribers can expect a few more exclusives before our relaunch. Stay tuned for a sneak preview of our new space before the official return!

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And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

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Join us as we continue to reveal plans to transform an old building into our dream podcast studio, and ideas of a relaunch and overhaul of the pod. We talk renovation strategies, a return to Matt's social media content creation, and their experiment with "Bricking" phones to reduce screen time and improve mental well-being.

• Announcing plans to renovate a rundown building into a dedicated podcast studio
• Reflecting on July's positive impact on mental health and family activities
• Matt's preparation for an upcoming fitness competition
• Return to social media with a more intentional approach
• Discussion of the "Brick" phone experiment to limit phone usage
• How Matt falls down research rabbit holes when using technology
• Insights on breaking backyard renovations into manageable zones
• Advice on masters swimming programs for adult swimmers
• Thoughts on navigating political differences in conservative areas
• Becoming more comfortable with authentic identity rather than fitting in

Tune in next month for our September episode as we continue developing our podcast studio renovation plans!

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And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

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Join us as we break down the realities of making a living as content creators, answering listener questions about everything from revenue streams to work-life balance while sharing personal insights from our own experiences.

• Brand collaborations - involving contracted content creation with companies
• Platform payments from YouTube, TikTok, and other platforms offer another revenue stream based on views
• Commissionable linking / purchases through creator affiliate links
• Subscription models through Patreon or platform features as reliable monthly income
• Individual businesses or product lines representing additional revenue opportunities
• Filming with kids and clear boundaries and communication about work time versus family time
• Simple vs. Easy - explaining the time and skill to produce quality videos
• Video editing time and variance
• Spontaneous vs planned content breakdown
• The pros and cons of social for us personally

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
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This week we dive into gardening adventures, backyard wildlife, philosophical questions, and relationship boundaries while sharing personal stories about family planning and wedding decisions.

• Jo confesses to having limited gardening knowledge 
• Matt explains the difference between fruits and vegetables 
• We share our mosquitoes theories
• Both agree they would choose the "blue pill" in a philosophical hypothetical
• A debate unfolds about the size of a lizard found in our house
• We share our preference for baby names and naming styles 
• Advice on setting boundaries with family members during wedding planning, especially when financial support comes with strings attached
• Tips for supporting long-distance friends during postpartum when you can't be physically present

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If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
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We explore the reality of welcoming our third child into the family and adjusting to life as a family of five!

• Reflecting on Jo's Instagram message frustrations, with hidden requests causing missed connections
• Discussing the 41-week induction and lightning-fast delivery experience
• Addressing how to manage resentment between partners during the intense newborn days
• Sharing insights on postpartum anxiety versus depression and different treatment approaches
• Explaining our experience using doulas and the value they can provide during birth
• Tackling the guilt some parents feel about not giving older children enough attention
• Offering practical advice on setting boundaries with excited family members after birth
• Providing thoughts on hospital bag essentials that actually matter
• Discussing how communities can genuinely support new parents beyond just holding the baby

If you're enjoying these conversations, consider joining us on a weekly basis!\

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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We jump right into the Chapel Roan controversy, offering nuanced perspectives on her viral parenting comments while sharing our own experiences as content creators balancing family life and work. They explore how cultural context and systemic failures make parenting harder than it needs to be, not the children themselves. Join us as we:

• Discus greenhouse dreams and how life's priorities shift when raising young children
• Examine family planning and the realities of pregnancy versus postpartum experiences
• Break down the Chapel Roan controversy and why her comments about friends with children "being in hell" resonated
• Share our spring break without childcare and how we managed expectations
• Offer hot takes on parenting, including why parenting itself isn't inherently difficult but lacks proper support systems
• Challenge the idea that love between parents and children should be equally unconditional
• Laugh about their astrological incompatibility despite our long term relationship

Join our Patreon to be the first to hear baby news and updates as we head into our brief break before welcoming our third child!

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If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

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If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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This week we negotiate the real ups and downs of pregnancy and parenting, sharing personal stories and insights of how we have navigated our experiences on our way to baby number three. We talk about how our previous experiences have shaped our expectations this time around and the unique challenges we're expecting this go around.

This episode we get into:
• Personal updates and reflections 
• Navigating prenatal depression during pregnancy 
• Preparing other children for a new sibling 
• The differences between pregnancies and their effect on our mental health 
• The decision to find out the baby's sex and its implications 
• How to approach parenting gender differences 
• Creating a supporting environment for older siblings 
• The impact of identity on parenting 
• Finding joy in the chaos of growing families 

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq