BONUS EPISODE: How to Stay Connected as a Couple During Busy Seasons of Life
If you rated your marriage on a scale of one to ten right now, what number would you actually give it? A lot of us land somewhere in the middle. Not bad, no big problems, just, you know, fine. And "fine" is exactly the word my guest and I want to talk you out of settling for.
In this special bonus episode, I sat down with my friend and fellow coach Chanelle Neilson, who coaches on marriage alongside her husband of 25 years. We get into why it's so easy to drift from your spouse once the kids and the calendar take over, and the freeing truth that a stronger marriage doesn't take more time, it takes more intention. Chanelle also walks us through her FIRM framework, Friendship, Intimacy, Respect, and Momentum, and shares small, doable habits that quietly compound into real closeness.
If your marriage has slipped to the back burner while you pour everything into your kids, and you're ready to feel connected again without adding one more giant thing to your to-do list, this conversation is for you.
In this episode you'll learn:
Why "we're fine" can be the most dangerous phrase in a busy marriage, and what to aim for insteadThe reason real connection isn't about finding more time, but about bringing more intentionWhat the FIRM framework is (Friendship, Intimacy, Respect, Momentum) and how to use it in everyday lifeHow to invite your husband toward more connection without making him feel like he needs to changeThe one small, two-minute habit Chanelle says can start a whole chain reaction of feeling closerGet full show notes, transcript, and more information HERE
To connect with Chanelle Neilson:
Website: www.firmfoundationdatenight.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/firmfoundationmarriage/
Email: [email protected]
If this one resonated with you, these may also help:
Episode 272: Lessons from 25 Years of Marriage: Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage
Episode 174: Summer of Love: Strengthening The Relationship With Your Spouse
Episode 171: How To Love Harder
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