In this episode, Philip shares a powerful insight that stemmed from a comment his mom had made to him. She told him that every woman he had ever loved had left him. This was a very important moment for Philip,  he distinguished that it wasn’t all of them that had left him, something was going on with him. When he started to look at the why, he began to realize that he had more going on inside him that he knew. He began to do the work that you need to do in growth and development to have the ability to see. He started to be responsible for what he was doing, instead of placing the blame somewhere else. As a result, he began to create responsibly. 

The episode has a lot more moments like this.  Looking at pain and what that was like. How pain forces us to change.