Proper Podcast

By Alexis

Welcome to PROPER, the comedy podcast that brings you genuine conversations about pop culture, dating, personal stories, and self-development. Hosted by Alexis Fernandez (

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How many episodes does Proper Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 81 episodes available.

Proper Podcast episodes:

September 30, 2025 Episode 78: High Functioning Anxiety, Bare Minimum BS, and Living My Life Like a Rom Com
inconsistency is triggering, which is why we’re showing up for you today - say @THANKULEXX !! this week we go from discovery mode (gay sht) to survival mode (straight sht) in the matter of seconds. while we love men, we’re realizing how our bodies can reject them, how they’re sometimes not enough, and how we barely wanna be their friends… but we LOVE THEM RIGHT ?! anyways, its the opposite of our HX3 week so our Proper Host is feeling pretty anti and is running on E. fill her tank up by sharing this episode and rating us 5 stars !! kk that’s all for now, ily ttyl !!!

Codes n links
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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32min
September 23, 2025 Episode 77: Dumbocracy, Consistently Unsatisfied, and Battling Seasonal Depression
welcome back to another proper episode ! comment back if you even read this ??

Proper Recs:
Anxiety Tips

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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33min
September 16, 2025Episode 76: Stop Sleeping on NJ, Stop Bringing Your Man to Events, & Stop Using Dating Apps
For time purposes (and since yall dont read this anyway) our copy writing team (Lex) will not be writing anything *still writes something*... Things we remember discussing:
stop sleeping on jersey
hamptons v new jersey
first time having cold brew
feeling insecure and disconnected
meeting ur fav influencers
stop bringing ur man to the function
prank phone calls
why i dont do dating apps

Proper Recs:
The Inmate

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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32min
September 09, 2025 Episode 75: Vulnerability on Pretty Privilege, Self-Worth, and Finances as an Influencer
this week we record on the last day of our cycle which makes us a lil insecure and a lil emo — so we’re really considering this a filler episode. still filled with proper wisdom, your hosts navigates her current emotions on grieving, being an “aspiring” influencer, and the lack of love and finances. inspiring you to show up as you are is the goal here and we hope you take that w you, if anything!!

Proper Recs:
- Reading before bed
- Building healthy habits ahead of seasons change
- NWTN Home (not sponsored)

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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41min
September 02, 2025 Episode 74: Uncaught Bodies, A Pack of Tricks, and No Longer F*****g Fans
first episode since turning 30 and lex already got new rules in play (very virgo of her)!! this week we have some major PU’s of some characters we're leaving in our 20s (so this should be the last we hear about them EVER AGAIN) and with that, we carry the most valuable lesson which is to stop f*****g fans… anyways, your proper host is on some FINISH HIM mode and she’s bout to out some mf’s. adding to the gravesite if u will. hope you enjoy and see you next week!

Proper Recs:
- So This is War by Meghan Quinn
- Sending me a birthday present (cashapp $thankulexx, venmo thankulexx813)

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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42min
August 26, 2025 Episode 73: Turning 30, How to Properly Lay Pipe, and Public Nuts
everyone say happy birthday to your proper host by sending her $5 EACH - she deserves it since she’s entering her 30’s without a proper nut, ride or relationship. this week we raw dog w ya a lil more than usual… it’s virgo szn and lex is honestly going off the rails (send her $5 if you care). so pls enjoy this very vulnerable, reflective and light hearted episode where we reflect on our 20’s and see what we wanna bring into our 30’s (money and nuts).

Proper Recs:
- The Summer I Turned Pretty
- Sending me a birthday present (cashapp $thankulexx, venmo thankulexx813)

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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39min
August 19, 2025 Episode 72: Dating Divas, Smelly Men, and No Broke Boys
we’ve got major PU’s this week but they put the PEEEYEWWWW in PU …. meaning we got some stanky mf’s getting added on to the story board. we also have a returning character (???) unsure of the vibes this week tbfh but as always — we UP! always UP when it’s our Hx3 week !! every week we realize how women are the way and men are (g)ay. anyways that’s all - enjoy !!!

Proper Recs:
- Dr. Dennis Gross On The Spot Eliminator
- Dermalogica Age Renew SPF
- No Broke Boys

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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41min
August 05, 2025 Episode 71: Unplugging the Plug, Staying Strapped and Grieving While Ovulating
we’re back but don’t ask us no questions. sit back, listen, laugh and rate us five stars. talk to us on IG tho and in the YT comments. kk ily bye!!

*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!

Proper Recs:
- Spearmint Tea for PCOS and Acne
- The Hunting Wives on Netflix
- Yellow Picnic: use code PROPER

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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35min
July 02, 2025 Episode 70: Tongue Kissers Scare Me, Huda Stans Rise Up, and Florida Scammers
Trying our best to get an episode out to ya weekly, even if its proper nonsense - so here's that! Enjoy!

xx

Proper Recs:
Spearmint Tea
Love Island USA and my notes

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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39min
June 24, 2025 Episode 69: Intentionally Fluid, Practicing Free Will, and Love Bombing
We got another Proper Chat this week with some major updates: Lex is officially intentionally fluid (happy pride !!!), Cognac is back…, and fck cancer szn & fck a cancer!!

We kept it short n sweet for you since we do not actually get paid to be here and we’re about to burn tf out (pls spread the proper word the way you spread your legs for that man who dont even like you!!!).

Anyways we UP, never down - even when we feel down we still UP tf!!!

Proper Recs:
Practicing Free Will

Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Amazon Store Front
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
My LTK

Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
Your Hosts Instagram: @thankulexx
Your Hosts TikTok: @thankulexx
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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36min

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More shows like Proper Podcast

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