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  • Episode 68: No Ice Please, No Size Shaming & More Taurus Men

    Feels like summer hasn't started yet but like it’s already ended ??? Question mark ?? Anyone else not fckn w the vibes? Us to - so we’re here to give you a proper quickie (at leastttttt 25 min of course) so you can catch a proper nut and get a lil distraction. We’re talkin nonecents but we fear your host made a buck or two with her mini PP (Proper Point) of the week: they’re just not that into you … and it’s really them not you … anyways - we’re into you tapping in every week so thank you, love you, and C U Next Tuesday !!


    Proper Recs:

    Love Island USA



    Codes n links

    Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER

    Amazon Store Front

    Yellow Picnic — code PROPER

    My LTK


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    27 min
  • Episode 67: Girl Sht, Gay Sht, & Telling Men to Shut Up w/ Kia Little

    this week we are out with the men and in with the V’s… as in Virgos… and whatever body part that starts with a V… that’s right, we’re talking gay sht today yall happy pride!!!!


    we did all this and kept it PG with our Proper Guest, Kia Little (@kialikethecarr) — pretty girl spokesperson for the spoiled! who went from dating big (headed) men to pretty (proper) women


    before we move forward, we want you to ask yourself some questions: am i gay? are you gay? imagine your life in 5 years, will you be gay then? the answer here is yes but let us know if you disagree.


    anyways happy pride, f*ck ICE - and C U Next Tuesday!!!!


    xx


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    Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER

    Amazon Store Front

    Yellow Picnic — code PROPER


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    50 min
  • Episode 66: Getting Bullied as an Adult, Dating Men is Getting Boring and Going Clubbing Alone

    This week we have a light episode with some Proper Updates (peeeeyewww) on your Proper Mother’s boring dating life (because she’s dating *only* men, not *enough* men? unsure), going out alone, and her regular life type shiii. 


    Anyways, y'all barely read this anyways so ... go head and go tap in, tune in, n turn ON!


    Proper Recommendations:

    • Final Destination: Bloodlines


    Codes n links

    Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER

    Amazon Store Front

    Yellow Picnic — code PROPER


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    34 min
  • Episode 65: Prank or Peg?, Introducing Mr. NFL, and Finally Feeling Unfazed

    how tf has it been 3 months since we’ve talked?? idek but we are back and up and RAW!!! please bare with the first couple min of audio - still working on production hehe


    anyways, wtf is up ??? apparently your host’s confidence and character development ?? let’s let her have it, i guess … but we got some mf stories for you !! stories as in, Lex literally trying to move through life with a big heart n a$$ and life beating her down so now she just makes them into funny stories… when this is in fact her life :)


    regardless, we UP!!! will let this episode speak for itself :)


    Codes n links

    Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER

    Amazon Store Front

    Yellow Picnic — code PROPER


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    52 min
  • Episode 64: Legally Brunette, FMK: Astrology Edition, and Two Cuban Hyenas

    we have our very first proper guest this week, Demi mf Mundo (@queendemi), and we play some games - not the games those men play… but some astrology games where you can play along - or with yourself! 


    alexis and demi are two cuban hyena’s in this week’s episode, sharing some confessions about previous (and unfortunately, still current) lovers, situationships, and entanglements (the E stands for earth sign men). in these situations you gotta ask yourself - will they let you be the STAR that you ARE (based on your star sign compatibility)… if they’re a Leo or Libra man then probably not. 


    besides that, lex caught a case and beat it, self represented, like the Virgo boss she is!!! she walked into the court room with a phat a$$ and a fat stack of papers defending her squatters rights!!!


    anyways, we hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did. comment your thots and answers, leave us a 5 star review, and we’ll see you next tuesday!!!


    Proper Recs:

    • Blink Twice
    • Hereditary
    • Take the MF TRIP!!!!


    Codes n links

    Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER

    Amazon Store Front


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    54 min
  • Episode 63: LLNB, How to Live With Grief, and Crying on the Internet

    Last time we talked it was about getting over a ghost. That was nothing compared to what we’re going over this week. It’s only right I cry on the internet for one purpose, and that’s for Nalah Bean Fernandez. The one not the two. My best friend. My daughter. My sugar pie. We filmed this episode 4 weeks post Nalah and I still sat on this for another 3 weeks - so thank you for baring with us during this transition. Also note we are testing a new mic so it goes fuzzy for a sec. Anyway, next week will be more light hearted and back to our regular proper schedule. Thank you for holding space for us and loving us. Nalah left me in good hands <3 xx


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    41 min
  • Episode 62: How to Get Over a Ghost & Under a Man, Got Cuddy?, and PH is Up

    Ever been ghosted? I know you have bc you’re hot and proper and the hottest PP’s are the ones who get ghosted (just like you’re host)! This week our Proper Point is How to Get Over a Ghost & Under a Man — going through the psychological impacts of ghosting, and how tf to get through it (over it) in multiple ways. Besides that, your PH (Proper Host) gets vulnerable through her PH (Proper High) with her PP (Proper P____) — are you keeping up??? HELLO!!!!? Anyways, let us know how you feel about this episode by messaging us on IG and sharing your thots, stories, and praise. C U Next Tuesday !!!! ily


    Proper Recs:

    • The Substance


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    35 min
  • Episode 61: Father F*cker$, Pray for LA, and Winter Blues

    we don’t have much to say this week but that doesn't mean we wont have a proper chat, HELLO! honestly do you even read these? let’s hope this week is one of the ones you don’t :) enjoy !!! xx


    Links for LA Relief:

    save the animals: https://spcala.com/programs-services/dart/?bbFormId=178a1dfb-5482-4675-ba9e-4b315097f86f

    food bank: https://www.lafoodbank.org/fire/

    temporary donation center in NYC on jan 25th 2025 - 12pm-6pm - 31w 125th St New York, NY


    Proper Recs:

    • Rewatching Summer House
    • Winter Survival Tip: Setting up your space like a winter cozy cafe
    • Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER


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    27 min
  • Episode 60: Enjoying Being Lonely, Half Celibate, and Are You Addicted To Stress?

    You ever enjoy your alone time so much that you feel like you got a crush?? That crush being yourself… Yeah - thats true celibacy we fear but that’s OK. It’s a path we’re choosing… Anyways, this week we get into a few boy updates, which boys??? THE boys… smh some made it over to 2025 but we’re putting an end to it !! (we hope) and we’ve been binge watching tv so we got mad recs for you! Besides that, our PP (Proper Point) of the week is: Are you addicted to stress? and how to rewire that thinking. We really hope you enjoy this week! Talk to us!! and C U Next Tuesday !!! xx


    Proper Recs:

    • Cruel Intentions (Series)
    • My Old Ass (Movie)
    • The Idea of You (Movie)
    • Becoming Supernatural by Dr. Joe Dispenza (Book)
    • Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER


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    50 min
  • Episode 59: Wynx n Wild, Happy Holidays Ho, and Vision Boarding is an Art Form

    Guess what we get to do today?? We GET TO be proper. Meaning we get to be ourselves in today’s proper chat with our not so sponsor, Wynx. We wooing, wynxin, n wildin as we dive into some revelations from Lex’s work week, the return of the Peloton instructor, and questioning what one would do for $20k. Our topic of the week is a lowkey serious one on how and WHY we should romanticize our lives — from how 2024 went, how we want 2025 to go, and how we want every minute in between to feel. We tippin n trickin as we run thru this so keep tf up!! Anyways, happy holidays ho — n see you next Tuesday!! 


    Proper Recs:

    • Best Case Scenario (Daily Journal Prompt)
    • Chula Playlist


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    34 min

About Proper Podcast

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Welcome to PROPER, the comedy podcast that brings you genuine conversations about pop culture, dating, personal stories, and self-development. Hosted by Alexis Fernandez (

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