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Purity Meets Purpose (Guests: Shakia Seabrook)


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In a culture obsessed with casual relationships, Shakia Seabrook stands as a powerful counternarrative. This episode dives deep into her journey as the founder of The Sexless Tribe, a community dedicated to abstinence and purity that has grown from social media conversations to global meetups with hundreds of attendees.

 

Shakia shares her remarkable story of maintaining virginity at 37 years old - not from a place of religious upbringing, but from witnessing the emotional toll of casual relationships around her. What makes her perspective unique is her recent awakening to actually desiring marriage after years of contentment in singleness. Through her seven-year wilderness experience where God stripped away everything, she discovered a deeper purpose in creating a movement that's changing lives across continents.

 

## Timestamps:

- 8:30 - Shakia explains how she maintained purity without religious influence

- 22:15 - The birth of The Sexless Tribe and how it grew from Instagram Lives

- 36:40 - Her seven-year wilderness experience that shaped her ministry

- 48:25 - The double standard between how society views male and female sexuality

- 1:01:30 - Her thoughts on dating timeframes and what she's looking for in a partner

 

## Key Takeaways:

- Purity isn't just for the religiously raised - it can be a personal choice based on witnessing the consequences of casual relationships

- Building a community around abstinence creates support systems for those who feel isolated in their convictions

- There's often a double standard where men want to "sow wild oats" but expect purity from potential wives

- True intimacy requires vulnerability and letting someone fully into your life - something Shakia is now learning to embrace

 

Ready to be inspired by a woman who's created a global movement around purity while navigating her own journey toward marriage? Listen now to this powerful conversation that challenges cultural norms and celebrates the beauty of waiting.

 

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