High achievers typically do such great work that they're often recruited for opportunities, courted by associates, even pursued by friends. 

Instead of being the aggressor, it's not uncommon for them - despite all of their success - to find themselves in the passive role of waiting to be chosen.

It's what they're used to after all.

If this resonates with you, and you're not in the field you want to be in, on the career track you want to be in, or in a relationship that serves you because you were chosen but did not choose, let me be the first to tell you things can be different.

You can choose to choose.

Don't settle for what falls into your lap. Decide what you want in every area of your life, and go after it.