In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm.

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From the Bible

Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 (NASB)

Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. 1 Corinthians 7:3-6 (NKJV) - but see the definition and examples for deprivation HERE

Resources

• 75 Ideas for Spicing Up Your Sex Life - Honeycomb & Spice
• How To Tips - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker
• 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle
• Foreplay – Webinar
• Getting in the Mood Webinar
• Oral Sex Webinar
• 280+ Illustrated Sex Positions | Christian Friendly Sex Positions
• Packing the Suitcase Sex Position - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
• Dragonfly Sex Position - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
• Games & Sex Dice for Couples - Married Dance Online Store
• 3 Benefits to Playing a Bedroom Game - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• How to Fantasize About Your Spouse - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• How to Get Rid of a Fantasy You Don't Want | The Forgiven Wife
• Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• What Is Emotional Safety? (and What Does It Have to Do with Sex?) - Knowing Her Sexually
• Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg
• Sex Positions with Clitoral Stimulation - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
• 6 Steps to Learn to Orgasm with Your Husband - Honeycomb & Spice
• Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns
• Orgasm Webinar

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)