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Guest 1 on the line: Hon. Velenkosini Fiki Hlabisa is a South African politician and former teacher and the President of the Inkatha Freedom Party

Poor service delivery and general poor government services lead to the decline of resources, zero job opportunities, job losses and overall poor living conditions. How do we address these issues?

 

-What is the state of service delivery now compared to the mid-90s?

 

- Impact of coalition government on service delivery

 

-The never ending motions of no confidence

 

 

 

 

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Guest 1 on the line: Advocate Kagiso Maphalle is a customary law expert who has done research on woman-to-woman marriages in South Africa

Topic: Woman –to-Woman Marriages

 

1. What are woman-to-woman marriages?

 

1. How did you come across these marriages?

 

 

1. Where are they found?

 

1. Are they still being practiced in recent times?

 

 

1. What are some of the challenges you have come across researching these marriages?

 

1. What have you learnt from researching these marriages?

 

 I did research on woman-to-woman marriages for both my Masters and PhD but coming from different angles. The marriages are found in both the Balobedu and BaPedi cultures

 

Guest in studio: Confidence Seleme - an award-winning author of 29 books and a Motivational Speaker and Facilitator

Wake up and live

 

Topic: "Discovering the leader in the mirror".

 

1. What do you see in the mirror?

 

1. The dirty-mirror effect

 

1. Cleaning the mirror

 

1. Self-developmental areas for leaders

 

1. Defining leadership

 

1. The struggles of leadership

 

1. Turning mirrors into windows

 

 

 

 

Guest on line:Makhosi  Mdladla from Chatsworth

I Have a Dream (manifestation)

Please share your dreams and visions with us and allow our guest to guide you through.

 

 

 

 

Guest 1 on the line: His Worship Mayor Cllr Mfeka- Mayor | Ndwedwe Local Municipality

Service Delivery watch 

We are Unpacking service delivery in Ndwedwe.

 

 

Guest 1 on the line: Dr. Zulumathabo Zulu- s a Doctoral Practitioner; Research Scientist & Director of the independent Madisebo University Research Institute;

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This morning we are talking about African Philosophy of Truth.

 

 

Guest in studio: One of South Africa's leading Mind-set Coaches, Quinton Sanders

Mindset coaching helps people overcome their own unique set of beliefs. For example, people with a fixed mindset may believe that they were born with a certain talent or skill. In contrast, those with a growth mindset understand that their natural talent is not a fixed trait, but something that they can develop. For example, the book The Talent Code discusses the role of practice and learning in developing a growth mindset. When you understand the power of your mindset, you can achieve more. To be a high achiever, you must stop thinking of your inability or fixed skills. You should stop comparing yourself with others, and instead work for your own capacity. No one can become the best, but you can always strive to be better than you were yesterday. Mindset coaching can help you develop a growth mindset and become a high achiever.

 

 

Guest 1 on the line: Menzi ka Gudu Maseko –Africologist

Topic: Women and Power in Post-colonial Afrika

 

 

 

 

 

 

Service Delivery watch

 

 

Guest on the line: Dr. Mashudu David Mbedzi, marriage counsellor and author of the book titled “Married but Intimately Divorced” and “Wrong: Husband, Wife, and Partner”.

How to change Negative Thoughts into Positive Actions?

 

- Quiet the negative inner voice

- Learn to cope under negative pressure

- Are negative thoughts affecting every area of your life?

- Get to know your inner child (sub consciousness) e.g. emotional memories or emotional pain

 

*Negative thoughts can take many forms (also called 10 distorted thinking patterns)

 

- polarised thinking (e.g. I have failed)

 

- Overgeneralisation (this always happens to me; I will never find anyone; I always have bad luck)

 

- Mental filtering (When I had a business, money, friends, wonderful partner....I was only focussing on.....(stop self-blame)

 

- Mind reading (When my partner introduced me to friends/family I was sitting thinking they hate me)

 

- Catastrophizing (am going to lose my clients, my job)

 

Emotional reasoning (The time my ex- manager suggested I apply for a better position.... I thought I will not get the job anyway...?)

 

"Should statements"...( I should be waking up early. l...Should be... now I blame myself)

 

- Personalizing & Blame (I can't do anything right...I must have done something wrong...( delete Inner child)

 

- change Negativity to Neutrality (This is impossible but let's try a different approach....)

 

- be brutally honest with yourself (identify areas to change)

 

- STOP feeling sorry for yourself

 

 

How to change Negative Thoughts into Positive Actions?

 

- Quiet the negative inner voice

- Learn to cope under negative pressure

- Are negative thoughts affecting every area of your life?

- Get to know your inner child (sub consciousness) e.g. emotional memories or emotional pain

 

*Negative thoughts can take many forms (also called 10 distorted thinking patterns)

 

- polarised thinking (e.g. I have failed)

 

- Overgeneralisation (this always happens to me; I will never find anyone; I always have bad luck)

 

- Mental filtering (When I had a business, money, friends, wonderful partner....I was only focussing on.....(stop self-blame)

 

- Mind reading (When my partner introduced me to friends/family I was sitting thinking they hate me)

 

- Catastrophizing (am going to lose my clients, my job)

 

Emotional reasoning (The time my ex- manager suggested I apply for a better position.... I thought I will not get the job anyway...?)

 

"Should statements"...( I should be waking up early. l...Should be... now I blame myself)

 

- Personalizing & Blame (I can't do anything right...I must have done something wrong...( delete Inner child)

 

- change Negativity to Neutrality (This is impossible but let's try a different approach....)

 

- be brutally honest with yourself (identify areas to change)

 

- STOP feeling sorry for yourself

 

 

Guest on the line: Dr. Mashudu David Mbedzi, marriage counsellor and author of the book titled “Married but Intimately Divorced” and “Wrong: Husband, Wife, and Partner”.