Content Advisory: Discussion of SI

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Dr. Juliette McClendon (they/them) is a clinical psychologist trained at Harvard and Washington University. They are an expert in the delivery of evidence-based, scalable, culturally-responsive mental healthcare, and I’m pleased to have them on to offer their clinical perspective on the development, assessment, and treatment of BPD.

In this episode, Jules and I discuss these topics:

• Is BPD nature, or nurture? What is the biosocial model?
• Does BPD only develop from childhood trauma?
• What is an invalidating environment and what can it look like?
• How is BPD assessed in clinical practice?
• What can different levels of care look like for people with BPD?
• What are ways professionals help a patient cultivate a support system?
• Why it’s okay to finish treatment and need support again later
• What is splitting, how does it happen, and why do people with BPD do it?
• Guilt and shame that can come after you struggle with eliminating BPD-related coping mechanisms
• Why it’s important for professionals to learn to compassionately assess and decide how to help with suicidal thoughts
• Why it’s important for professionals to provide referrals if they cannot provide the level of care someone w BPD requires

Follow Dr. McClendon on TikTok: @doc4thepeople - Twitter: @drjuliettem

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The Biosocial Theory of BPD

What is Passive vs Active SI, and How To Help

If you think you have BPD, try finding a mental health professional if you’re able to: zencare.co

Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide

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Music: Paper Ghosts | Limbanja by ODDBAHL

Intro: Vanilla Sky by Lunareh

Outro: Sonic Sepia by Lunareh

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Content Advisory: Brief mentions of SH, SI, DV

Hi there. I'm Avery, and I live with quiet BPD. In this episode, I'll answer these questions for you:

• How was I diagnosed?
• How did it feel to receive a diagnosis?
• How did my journey start?
• What is Borderline Personality Disorder?
• What are BPD subtypes?
• What is quiet BPD?
• What are some common experiences of quiet BPD?
• How have I found ways to cope on my healing journey?
• What are some myths about quiet BPD?
• Is there such a thing as classic, or loud BPD?

Quiet Reflection:

What is mindful tea-drinking?

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BPD - National Institute of Mental Health

BPD Subtypes, by Dr Theodore Millon

More about BPD Subtypes

Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide

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Music by: ODDBAHL, Lunareh

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Can people with BPD recover? Do we ever heal?

The short answer: Yes. We can, and we do.

Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with various presentations of Borderline Personality Disorder.

My name is Avery (they/she), and I live with quiet subtype BPD. Together, we're gonna get to casually explore topics like: BPD subtypes, dissociation, chronic emptiness, internalized shame, people-pleasing, splitting, recovery journeys, self love, self compassion, coping skills, relationships, support systems, different therapies, etc.

And you'll get to hear interviews from people I've met along my own recovery journey: people in different stages of BPD recovery, mental health professionals, advocates, researchers, and even people who don't have BPD themselves, but love someone who does.

Quiet, Not Silent aims to break the silence that BPD stigma traps so many of us in and stops us from seeking help and building ourselves up. You deserve good things. <3

Join the community on Discord:

The Quiet BPD Keep is a recovery-focused community that offers daily affirmations, tarot readings, self-care reminders, DBT skill commands, books and resources, advice and listener roles, and voice chats. Age 18+, LGBTQ+ and 420 friendly.

Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

averythequiet.carrd.co

xx atq

DISCLAIMER: My content is meant for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for professional clinical advice, diagnosis, or therapy.

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