Am I a good mom? How can I do better? I know these are the questions we ask ourselves as we navigate the challenges motherhood brings. This week on The Happy Moms Show, Ryann Watkin is joined by Karen Kenney and they’re chatting about how, as mothers, nurturers, and caregivers (you don’t have to have birthed a baby to be a mother!), we can do the deep work that’s required of us at every level. Karen shares her story about tragically losing her mother at 12 years old and how she’s transformed her story from one of horrific loss to spiritual glory. Karen is a writer, speaker, spiritual teacher and the founder of Fearless Flow Mentoring. She’s also a certified Spiritual Mentor and for the past 27+ years has been a student & guide of A Course in Miracles. She’s also a longtime practitioner of Passage Meditation, a certified Gateless Writing Teacher and has been teaching yoga since 1999. KK grew up in Lawrence & Boston, MA and is known for her storytelling, her sense of humor and her “down-to-earth” approach to spirituality. Her signature workshops, retreats and 1:1 Mentoring Programs: Your Story to Your Glory™ & Fearless Flow™ have helped people to let go of their old limiting stories of suffering and victimization, so they can choose Love over fear and live a new kick-ass story from a place of power, forgiveness, freedom and Spirit. A sought-after Expert, Guest Teacher and Spiritual Thought Leader for Live Events, Podcasts, Coaching Programs and Shows, Karen speaks on various platforms across the country and leads Transformational Retreats in the New England area and at the Omega Institute in NY. KK is the host of The Karen Kenney Show Podcast and The Sunday Spiritual with Karen Kenney. She’s currently at work writing her memoir.
Tune in to learn:
- Karen’s story about losing her mother to a horrific act of violence at 12 years old and how she healed, forgave, and became a spiritual mentor
- What the root of our suffering, trauma, can teach us and how we can start to heal
- What spiritual work entails and why having a mentor, coach or a trusted guide is essential
- How being a mother does not mean that you have to be perfect, and, that it's actually an invitation for growth and accountability
- What love actually is and why we can’t necessarily define it
Resources:
Karen Kenney’s Website
The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, MD
4 Ways to Heal From Childhood Trauma on the Dave Asprey Blog
Kalil Gibran's The Prophet
It Didn't Start With You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn
Overcoming Intergenerational Truama: We Can Break The Cycle of Abuse
End violence against women and girls: DONATE TO V-Day, 'a global activist movement to end violence against all women and girls. V-Day's small staff works in regions throughout the U.S. and around the world to empower local networks and volunteers to raise awareness and funds to end the violence.
Quotes:
“You are the light of the World” -A Course in Miracles
“We are all just walking each other home.” -Ram Dass
“This being human thing is like the Fucking forgiveness Olympics” -Karen Kenney
“You must become the parent you needed when you were a kid. You must mother yourself first.” -Karen Kenney