The holidays can stir up all kinds of emotions after divorce — loneliness, pressure, old memories, and moments that hit way harder than expected. In this episode, Dana gets real about what this season can feel like… and how God meets us right in the middle of it.

She walks you through the “rebuilding bricks” God gave her over the last few years, how those words held her steady when circumstances didn’t, and why intentionally redirecting the mind is a powerful part of healing. You’ll also hear how the valley of dry bones in Ezekiel isn’t just a dramatic Bible moment — it’s a picture of what happens when we speak God’s truth over situations that look completely lifeless.

Dana also shares new research on gratitude and how it literally transforms the brain — from boosting dopamine and serotonin to calming emotional triggers and helping you shift your perspective. It’s wild how God designed us to heal from the inside out.

If you remember Episode 33, this episode builds on that foundation of praying Scripture out loud and watching the atmosphere change. Dana ties it all together for this holiday season, reminding you that you don’t have to pretend things aren’t hard — but you can choose what you cling to.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Listen in if you need:

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If this episode encourages you, share it with a friend who’s navigating a hard holiday season. You never know who needs a reminder that God rebuilds, restores, and breathes life into what feels lost.

In Service to Him,

Dana

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In today’s episode, we’re talking about something simple, steady, and powerful: how to build a prayer focus after divorce, one word at a time—just like laying bricks on a wall.

For years, the Lord has given me one or two “focus words” each year, along with scriptures that anchor my prayers. What I didn’t realize until recently was how each word built on the last… and how God was quietly rebuilding my life brick by brick.

In this episode, I’m walking you through my yearly “bricks” from 2020 to now—Hope, Endurance, Rebuilding, Transition, Focus, Shepherding, Obedience, and more—and showing you how this simple practice became a blueprint for healing after divorce.

Inside this episode:

In His Service,

Dana

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Have you ever realized that the pain you carry might be protecting you—but also holding you back? In this episode, Dana dives into how unresolved hurt can become armor, keeping us from fully embracing God’s love and grace. Drawing from personal experiences with judgment, gossip, and navigating post-divorce relationships, Dana shares how the Lord revealed hidden wounds, guided her to Isaiah 50:4-7, and showed her how to replace painful armor with a banner of His love.

Learn practical ways to:

If you’ve been carrying pain as a shield, this episode is a gentle, powerful reminder that God’s love heals, restores, and transforms.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Keywords: healing after divorce, rejection and faith, identity in Christ, overcoming rejection, redeemed identity, Christian encouragement

Rejection stings. It makes you question your worth, your calling, even your place in God’s story. But what if the feelings of rejection and abandonment aren’t who you are — because that version of you died with Christ?

In this episode of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana unpacks the truth that Jesus didn’t just purchase your salvation — He purchased your identity. The cross wasn’t only about forgiveness; it was about freedom.

Through powerful scripture (Galatians 2:20, 1 Corinthians 7:23, and more) and a deeply personal revelation, Dana reminds you that your name was written on that cross. Every lie of rejection and insecurity was nailed there too.

It’s time to stop living from rejection and start living from redemption. You are chosen. You are enough. You are His.

🎧 Listen now to rediscover your worth and walk in the identity Jesus already paid for.

We are the Fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Healing After Divorce ebook

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Have you ever been blindsided by rejection or loneliness long after you thought you’d healed? In this vulnerable episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, Dana shares a deeply personal story about how an unexpected moment reopened old wounds — and how God used His Word to bring lasting comfort and truth.

You’ll hear how Psalm 73 became a lifeline, why rejection and loneliness often resurface even years after divorce, and how to anchor your identity in Christ when human validation falls short.

If you’ve struggled with loneliness, singleness, or feeling forgotten, this episode will help you remember who truly holds your heart.

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Healing After Divorce ebook

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Healing After Divorce Paperback:

https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

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In part 2 of The Hidden Power of Soul Ties, Dana Williams continues with Pastor Darius Good, author of Soul Ties: How to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties.

Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak.

You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process.

If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free.

Connect with Pastor Darius:

www.dariusgood.com

Get his book on Amazon! https://a.co/d/7wlbr3F

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BOOKS AND RESOURCES:

Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Amazon:

Healing After Divorce ebook

https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

Healing After Divorce Paperback:

https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

PODCAST:

APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

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to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties.

Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak.

You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process.

If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free.

Blessings,

Dana

Pastor Darius Good's book Soul Ties: https://a.co/d/67di5Nu

Pastor Darius Good website: www.dariusgood.com

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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Amazon:

Healing After Divorce ebook

https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

Healing After Divorce Paperback:

https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

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APPLE: REDEEMED IDENTITY AFTER DIVORCE

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Keywords: soul ties, intimacy, toxic relationships, emotional healing after divorce, breaking soul ties, divorce recovery, spiritual connections, counseling, divorced christian

This year isn’t just another turn of the calendar — it’s a prophetic season full of meaning for your healing journey after divorce. In this episode, Dana unpacks what the Hebrew year 5786 reveals and how it can impact your faith, your words, and your future.

👉 Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode:

If you’re walking through divorce recovery and wondering how God is speaking in this season, this episode will encourage you to rise up, speak truth, and establish a new future in Christ.

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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Amazon:

Healing After Divorce ebook

https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

Healing After Divorce Paperback:

https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

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APPLE: REDEEMED IDENTITY AFTER DIVORCE

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If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs hope after divorce.

In this episode, Dana announces a significant shift: Rise and Reclaim After Divorce is becoming Redeemed Identity After Divorce.

This isn’t just a name change—it’s a reflection of what God is doing in this ministry and in your life. Tied to the Hebrew calendar year 5785—known as the Year of Pei (the mouth)—this episode explores the spiritual significance of speech, declaration, and reclaiming your voice after divorce.

Dana shares what’s coming next, including a move to YouTube, a heartfelt prayer request, and a bold encouragement to speak life over your story, your healing, and your future.

💬 What You'll Hear:

🔑 Key Verses & Themes:

📣 Call to Action:

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

🙌 Let’s Stay Connected:

In this last episode of our Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series, we take a deep dive into what it means to engage in spiritual warfare from a place of rest—especially after the intense emotional and spiritual toll of divorce.

Host Dana unpacks the truth about spiritual authority, warfare fatigue, and the importance of understanding your jurisdiction, identity, and the weapons of warfare available to you as a believer.

🎧 Episode #58 – Breaking Soul Ties to Find Freedom

Coming Soon: "Healing After Divorce – 35 Healing Prayers Rooted in God’s Word"

Got feedback or want to weigh in on the idea of post-divorce jurisdiction? Dana would love to hear from you! Email: [email protected]

Take time this week to ask the Lord:

Then, dive into Ephesians 6:10–18 and let the Word of God be your strength.

You don’t need to strive in the spirit to win. The battle is the Lord’s—and you’re already standing on a finished work. Let praise rise, let love lead, and let rest be your position of power.

🔔 Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode where we continue this Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series!

We are Christ's epistle,

Dana

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