Redeemed Identity After Divorce | Christian, Divorce, Encouragement

Redeemed Identity After Divorce | Christian, Divorce, Encouragement

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  • Ep 92 - Purity After Divorce: Does It Still Matter?

    Is purity still relevant after divorce—or is it something reserved for the never-married?

     

    In this honest and thought-provoking episode, we dive into what Scripture actually says about sexual purity, sanctification, and honoring God with your body after divorce. Looking at passages like 1 Thessalonians 4, Romans 7, and 1 Corinthians 6, we unpack the tension between flesh and Spirit, the cultural lies surrounding sexuality, and the deeper purpose behind God’s call to holiness.

     

    This episode isn’t about shame—it’s about alignment, healing, and walking in freedom.

     

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    • What “sanctification” (hagiasmos) really means
    • Why purity is not limited to the unmarried or inexperienced
    • The truth about porneia and God’s design for sexuality
    • How sexual choices impact emotional and spiritual healing
    • The difference between struggling and surrendering
    • Why purity protects your future—not just your present
    • SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

      • 1 Thessalonians 4:3–8
      • 1 Corinthians 6:13–20
      • Romans 7:21–25
      • SHOWS REFERENCED:

        Episode 58

        Episode 67

        Episode 68

        CALL TO ACTION:

        If this episode encouraged or challenged you, share it with someone who needs truth and hope.

        Be sure to follow Redeemed Identity After Divorce for more faith-based healing, real conversations, and practical steps forward.

         

        We are the fragrance of Christ,

         

        Dana

         

        WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

        LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

        SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

         

        Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

        TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

         

        Amazon:

         

        Healing After Divorce Paperback:

        https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

        Healing After Divorce ebook

        https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

         

        WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

         

        YOUTUBE:

        https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

         

        25 min
      • Ep 91, From Porn Addiction to Freedom – A Man’s Real-Life Journey

        Pornography can quietly take control of a man’s life, heart, and relationships—and yet few speak honestly about it. In this final episode of our series on pornography, a men’s ministry leader shares his real story: how it started, how it escalated, the damage it caused, and how he finally found lasting freedom.

        We cover:

        • How pornography first entered his life and why it escalated
        • The emotional, spiritual, and relational damage he experienced
        • What true repentance and accountability look like
        • How he achieved freedom and maintains it today
        • Advice for men struggling in silence and those supporting them
        • Disclaimer: This episode discusses pornography and addiction. It is intended for awareness, hope, and biblical guidance—not to shame or condemn.

           

          Whether you’re personally affected, supporting someone, or seeking understanding, this conversation offers honesty, insight, and practical hope for freedom and restoration.

           

          To watch on YouTube and engage with our audience there, go to https://youtu.be/us8aCF2Kg58

           

          We are the fragrance of Christ,

          Dana

          WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

          LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

          SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

           

          Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

          TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

          Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

           

          Amazon:

          Healing After Divorce Paperback:

          https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

          Healing After Divorce ebook

          https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

           

          WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

          PODCAST:

           

          APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

           

          YOUTUBE:

          https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

           

          31 min
        • Ep 90, Understanding Porn Addiction and the Path to Healing from a Pastoral Perspective

          ⚠️ Disclaimer

          This episode discusses pornography, sexual immorality, betrayal trauma, and marital restoration. While no explicit details are shared, the themes may be emotionally triggering. Listen with care and step away if needed.

           

          Episode Summary

          Pornography is one of the quietest home-wreckers in Christian marriages—not because people don’t care, but because they’re afraid to talk about it. In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Ben Brinkman of Canvas Church to unpack the spiritual, emotional, and relational impact of pornography from a pastoral perspective.

          We talk honestly about betrayal, repentance, biblical grounds for divorce, and the hidden damage that ongoing pornography use can cause. Whether you’re the one struggling or the spouse carrying the weight of secrecy and lies, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and a path toward healing.

          👤 Guest: Pastor Ben Brinkman, Canvas Church – San Diego

          Pastor Ben and his wife Katie have been in ministry since 1999 and are passionate about helping people grow in faith and experience real transformation. Known for his humor, biblical clarity, and practical teaching, Pastor Ben brings a grounded, grace-filled perspective to this difficult conversation.

           

          🗣️ What We Discuss in This Episode
          • Why pornography is often a hidden root issue in struggling marriages
          • Whether pornography use qualifies as a form of infidelity
          • How betrayal trauma impacts the heart and mind of the wounded spouse
          • Where pornography fits within Jesus’ teaching on sexual immorality in Matthew 19
          • The emotional and spiritual fallout of repeated lying, gaslighting, or secrecy
          • What true repentance looks like—and when someone needs professional help
          • How pastors and churches can better support BOTH spouses without pressure or shame
          • Why “just reconcile” can be harmful when safety and emotional well-being are ignored
          • What someone should know if they’re realizing, "This is my marriage..."
          •  

            💛 Listener Reflection (Outro)

            Before you close this episode, take a breath. Whatever came up—grief, conviction, anger, clarity—those feelings matter.

            If you’re struggling with pornography, freedom begins with honesty, not hiding.

            If you’ve been betrayed, you’re allowed to seek safety, healing, and truth.
            You are not weak or unspiritual for needing support beyond prayer.

            Jesus’ teaching on sexual immorality is meant to protect hearts, not shame them.

            Sit with this conversation, pray through it, and reach out to safe, wise support if needed.

            Pastor Ben closes us with a powerful prayer for all listeners walking this road.

             

            RESOURCES

             

            Episode on Betrayal Trauma

            On YouTube: https://youtu.be/C1e1ZWziB7E

             

            Ted Roberts, Pure Desire:

             

            Covenant Eyes:

             

            YouTube Version: https:  //youtu.be/M6MGb3pMz4E

             

             

             
            🔗 Connect with Redeemed Identity After Divorce

            WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

            LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

            SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

            Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

            TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

             

            Amazon:

             

            Healing After Divorce Paperback:

            https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

             

            Healing After Divorce ebook

            https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

             

             

            WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

             

            PODCAST:

             

            APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

             

            YOUTUBE:

            https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

            43 min
          • Ep 89, Redeemed After Divorce: Understanding Porn Addiction and the Path to Healing (Therapist Perspective)

            What actually happens in the brain when someone becomes addicted to pornography—and why is it so hard to stop? In this episode, a retired marriage and family therapist explains the neuroscience behind porn addiction, escalation, and the real path toward healing.Keywords: Divorce counseling, porn addiction recovery, therapist advice, emotional healing, betrayal trauma

            Pornography addiction is often misunderstood—but its impact on the brain, relationships, and personal identity can be profound.

            In this episode, I’m joined by retired marriage and family therapist Jeff Herring to explore what pornography actually does to the brain and why breaking free can be so difficult.

            Jeff explains the neurological cycle behind addiction, why porn use often escalates over time, and how secrecy and betrayal can deeply affect relationships and trust. We also talk about hope—because healing and recovery are possible with the right support, accountability, and renewal of the mind.

            If you’ve ever wondered why porn addiction feels so powerful or how real recovery happens, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical insight.

            In This Episode
            • How pornography affects dopamine and neural pathways in the brain
            • The addiction cycle: euphoria → normal → pain.
            • Why pornography use often escalates over time.
            • The hidden impact pornography can have on relationship.
            • The role of accountability and support in recovery.
            • Renewing the mind and rebuilding trust after addiction.
            • Why recovery is not a quick fix—but a lifelong journey toward healing
            • Resources Mentioned

              Renew Program – https://northpoint.org/renew

              Neuroplasticity Explained – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/neuroplasticity

              Jeff Herring – https://creatorrescue.com

              Connect with Jeff Herring

              Website: https://creatorrescue.com

              Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/jeffherring

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              If this episode encouraged you, be sure to follow, rate, and review the podcast. Your review helps other people navigating life after divorce find hope and healing.

              We are the fragrance of Christ,

              Dana

               

               

              WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

               

              LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

               

              An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/

               

              Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/

               

               

              SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

               

              Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

              TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

               

              Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected].

              Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!

               

               

              Amazon:

               

              Healing After Divorce Paperback:

              https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

               

              Healing After Divorce ebook

              https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

               

               

              WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

               

              PODCAST:

               

              APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

               

              YOUTUBE:

              https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

               

              Guest Scheduling

              https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/

               

              FOR MUSIC "SMILE":

              Music I use: Bensound.com

              Funny Song

              License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L

               

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              Hashtags:

              #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

              44 min
            • Ep 88 – Redeemed After Divorce: The Road to Redemption After Pornography & Betrayal

              Listener Discretion Advised

              This episode discusses pornography, sexual immorality, betrayal trauma, addiction, and divorce from a biblical perspective. While no explicit content is shared, the topic may be emotionally sensitive for some listeners. Please listen with care and seek support if needed.

              Pornography isn’t just a private issue—it quietly damages marriages, fuels divorce, and erodes intimacy. In this episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, we break the silence on the hidden effects of porn, explore the emotional and spiritual fallout, and discuss practical ways to heal and restore relationships. Whether you’re navigating post-divorce healing or trying to save your marriage, this episode offers clarity, hope, and actionable guidance grounded in faith.

              Keywords / SEO: porn, pornography, marriage, divorce, Christian marriage counseling, sexual immorality, healing after divorce, intimacy issues, marital restoration

              In This Episode, We Discuss:

              • The history of porneia and sexual immorality in Scripture
              • How pornography changes brain chemistry and fuels addiction
              • Why pornography is linked to 56–60% of divorces
              • The difference between lust, adultery of the heart, and covenant faithfulness
              • Matthew 5 and Matthew 19: what Jesus actually taught
              • Two major Christian perspectives on pornography and divorce
              • Betrayal trauma and its impact on spouses
              • Healing for both the betrayed and the addicted
              • Repentance, accountability, and the role of community
              • Why secrecy keeps people stuck—and truth brings freedom
              • Resources Mentioned

                Books

                • The Porn Trap – Wendy & Larry Maltz
                • https://www.christianbook.com/the-porn-trap-wendy-maltz/9780061231872/pd/231872
                • Intimate Deception – Sherri Keffer
                • https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Deception-Healing-Wounds-Betrayal/dp/0800729129

                  Articles & Research

                  • Verily Magazine – Pornography & Divorce Statistics
                  • American Sociological Association – Porn Use & Divorce Risk
                  • Manhood Journey – Porn and Marriage
                  • https://manhoodjourney.org/porn-and-marriage/

                    Recovery & Education

                    Covenant Eyes – Pornography, Recovery, and Theology

                    https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/books-on-porn-addiction/

                     

                    We are the fragrance of Christ,

                    Dana

                    WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

                    LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

                    An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/

                     

                    Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/

                     

                    SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

                    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

                    TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

                    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

                    Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected].

                    Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!

                     

                    Amazon:

                    Healing After Divorce Paperback:

                    https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

                     

                    Healing After Divorce ebook

                    https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

                     

                    WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

                    PODCAST:

                     

                    APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

                     

                    YOUTUBE:

                    https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

                    Guest Scheduling

                    https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/

                     

                    FOR MUSIC "SMILE":

                    Music I use: Bensound.com

                    Funny Song

                    License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L

                     

                    For country music:

                    Music by: https://www.bensound.com

                    License code: B11SABINWV4BESSF

                     

                    Hashtags:

                    #porn, #pornaddiction, #sexaddiction, #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

                     

                     

                     

                    23 min
                  • Ep 87, When Divorce Changes Everything, with Nefertiti Wade,

                    “There’s a moment after divorce when the title is gone, the future feels blurry, and you’re left asking, Who am I now?—and today, we’re talking about that moment.”

                    In this episode, Dana sits down with Nefertiti Wade, author, speaker, and founder of Crowned with Purpose, to explore the journey of reclaiming identity, healing emotional wounds, and rebuilding life after loss.

                    Drawing from her book Reclaiming Your Crown, Nefertiti shares how unaddressed emotional baggage can hold us back, how pain can become purpose, and why learning to love yourself again is a crucial part of healing. We also talk about setting healthy standards and boundaries while stepping into a new season with clarity and confidence.

                    This conversation is honest, encouraging, and for anyone navigating life after divorce and learning how to rise—stronger, wiser, and more grounded than before.

                     

                    To contact Nefertiti:

                    Instagram:@nefwade

                    Facebook: Nefertiti Wade

                    LinkedIn: Nefertiti Wade

                    YouTube: Reclaiming Your Crown

                     

                    You can also purchase an autographed copy of Reclaiming Your Crown: Getting Your Identity Back After Divorce along with other empowering items directly from my personal website. The book is also available on Amazon for those who prefer that option: https://a.co/d/0c4AmWKX

                    Autograph Copy Website:  https://reclaimingyourcrownbook.com/

                     

                    To watch the YouTuber version, go to: 

                    https://youtu.be/48fl7wfAIko

                    38 min
                  • Ep 86, Stuck in Betrayal Trauma After Divorce? Part 2, with guest Denise Stiffler

                    In part 2 of this emotional conversation, we’re finish our talk  about betrayal trauma—what it really is, how it impacts your nervous system, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself again, and why healing often takes longer than we expect. More importantly, we explore what actually helps when fear, grief, and overwhelm feel paralyzing.

                    This isn’t about rushing your healing or slapping spiritual clichés on deep wounds. It’s about understanding what’s happening beneath the surface and taking grounded, compassionate steps forward.

                    In this episode, we discuss:

                    • What betrayal trauma is and why it’s different from ordinary heartbreak
                    • Common emotional and physical signs you may still be living with trauma after divorce
                    • Why restoring a sense of safety is the foundation of healing
                    • Questions you can ask yourself to help break out of the “stuck” cycle
                    • How to move through paralyzing fear during major life transitions
                    • Rebuilding trust with yourself after betrayal
                    • Navigating faith and spiritual confusion after relational trauma
                    • Practical tools and rhythms that support real, lasting healing
                    • If you’re navigating life after betrayal and wondering whether healing is even possible, this conversation will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re healing.

                      💛 Encouragement

                      Healing from betrayal trauma doesn’t mean going backward or failing to “move on.” It means learning how to feel safe again, trust yourself again, and take the next right step—at your pace.

                       

                      YouTube for Part 2: https://youtu.be/C1e1ZWziB7E

                       

                      TO CONTACT DENISE STIFFLER:

                      See her Link Tree here:

                      https://linktr.ee/denise.lifecoach7 

                      For her weary heart prayer guide, go to her website:  https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/d5be2d9c  

                       

                      DANA’S CONTACT INFORMATION:

                      WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

                       

                      LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

                       

                      SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

                       

                      Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

                      TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

                      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

                       

                      To receive the free ebook, email me at [email protected] and I will send you a PDF.

                       

                      Amazon:

                       

                      Healing After Divorce Paperback:

                      https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

                       

                      Healing After Divorce ebook

                      https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

                       

                      WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

                       

                      PODCAST:

                       

                      APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

                       

                      YOUTUBE:

                      https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

                       

                      23 min
                    • Ep 85, Stuck in Betrayal Trauma After Divorce? You’re Not Broken, You’re Healing with guest Denise Stiffler

                      Betrayal doesn’t just break a relationship—it can leave you feeling frozen long after the divorce papers are signed.

                      If you’ve ever wondered Why am I still stuck? Why does this still hurt? Why can’t I just move on?—this episode is for you.

                      In this deep conversation, we’re talking about betrayal trauma—what it really is, how it impacts your nervous system, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself again, and why healing often takes longer than we expect. More importantly, we explore what actually helps when fear, grief, and overwhelm feel paralyzing.

                      This isn’t about rushing your healing or slapping spiritual clichés on deep wounds. It’s about understanding what’s happening beneath the surface and taking grounded, compassionate steps forward.

                      In this episode, we discuss:

                      • What betrayal trauma is and why it’s different from ordinary heartbreak
                      • Common emotional and physical signs you may still be living with trauma after divorce
                      • Why restoring a sense of safety is the foundation of healing
                      • Questions you can ask yourself to help break out of the “stuck” cycle
                      • How to move through paralyzing fear during major life transitions
                      • Rebuilding trust with yourself after betrayal
                      • Navigating faith and spiritual confusion after relational trauma
                      • Practical tools and rhythms that support real, lasting healing
                      • If you’re navigating life after betrayal and wondering whether healing is even possible, this conversation will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re healing.

                         

                        💛 Encouragement

                        Healing from betrayal trauma doesn’t mean going backward or failing to “move on.” It means learning how to feel safe again, trust yourself again, and take the next right step—at your pace.

                         

                        To watch this episode on Youtube, go to: https://youtu.be/VxuUdQJNBjQ

                         

                        TO CONTACT DENISE STIFFLER:

                        See her Link Tree here:

                        https://linktr.ee/denise.lifecoach7 

                        For her weary heart prayer guide, go to her website:  https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/d5be2d9c  

                         

                        DANA’S CONTACT INFORMATION:

                        WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com

                         

                        LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/

                         

                        SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

                         

                        Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

                        TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity

                        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#

                         

                        To receive the free ebook, email me at [email protected] and I will send you a PDF.

                         

                        Amazon:

                         

                        Healing After Divorce Paperback:

                        https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp

                        Healing After Divorce ebook

                        https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

                         

                        WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:

                         

                        PODCAST:

                        APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447

                        YOUTUBE:

                        https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

                         

                        23 min
                      • Ep 84, Healing After Divorce, Guest Appearance on From Run Down to Renewed

                        Guest Appearance Spotlight: From Run Down to Renewed

                        This past week, I had the honor of joining Mackenzi and Denise on their podcast, From Run Down to Renewed. With their permission, I’m sharing this conversation with the Redeemed Identity After Divorce community.

                        This episode originally aired on Wednesday, February 4, 2026, and it’s one of those conversations that feels more like an exhale than a teaching.

                        This Episode Is for You If:

                        • You feel tired, worn down, or emotionally drained
                        • You’ve walked through loss, divorce, trauma, or a painful life transition
                        • You’re longing for healing but don’t know where to begin
                        • You desire to live abundantly—but not the world’s definition of abundance
                        • This conversation is an invitation to pause, breathe, and remember a powerful truth:

                          God is your source—not your circumstances.

                          We talk about how abundance isn’t about having more—it’s about living from fullness instead of emptiness. Together, we explore how healing begins when you:

                          • Shift from striving to trusting God
                          • Allow Him to fill what life has drained
                          • Root your identity in Christ—not outcomes, roles, or relationship status
                          • 👉 WATCH the full conversation on YouTube here:

                            https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxCdy9WggE-Q5g9-t6UVx6MTXu9i9hE6L_

                            Stay Connected with From Run Down to Renewed

                            Website & Socials:

                            👉 www.fromrundowntorenewed.com

                            🎓 Upcoming Webinar – February 28

                            👉 https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/…

                            Stay Connected with Dana

                            Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

                            YouTube: @redeemedidentityafterdivorce
                            Apple Podcasts: Redeemed Identity After Divorce

                             

                            1 min
                          • Ep 83, Exhausted After Divorce? The Missing Key to Healing, Pt 2

                            Divorce is exhausting—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. And yet, rest is often the first thing we sacrifice while trying to “hold it all together.”

                             

                            In this episode, Dana sits down with life and leadership coach Misty Hughes to talk about why rest isn’t optional during or after divorce—it’s essential for healing. Misty shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding her life, along with practical wisdom for women who feel overwhelmed, depleted, or stuck in survival mode.

                            Together, they unpack what real rest looks like (hint: it’s more than sleep), why grief requires personalized rhythms, and how trust, community, and reflection play a vital role in emotional recovery. This conversation is honest, grounding, and permission-giving—especially if you’ve been pushing yourself to “be strong” while quietly running on empty.

                            If you’re exhausted after divorce and wondering why healing feels so hard, this episode may help you exhale and reset.

                             

                            In This Episode, We Finish with Misty and discuss:

                            • Why rest is critical during and after divorce
                            • The difference between collapsing and intentional rest
                            • How grief and healing look different for everyone
                            • Creating life rhythms that support peace and stability
                            • The role of trust in emotional recovery
                            • Why community support accelerates healing
                            • Journaling and reflection as tools for processing pain
                            • Making space for joy and fun for yourself and your family
                            • How coaching can provide clarity and support during hard seasons.
                            •  

                              Misty's Contact Information:

                               

                              Misty Hughes, Transformational Speaker, Podcast Host, Gratitude Guide, Celebration Coach

                              P: 816-297-9919

                              lead-herministries.com

                              mom2mommentoring.com

                               

                               

                               

                              22 min

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                            Redeemed Identity After Divorce is a Christian divorce recovery podcast for believers who are ready to heal, rebuild, and walk confidently in their God-given calling after divorce. We Ranked #6 BEST CHRISTIAN DIVORCE PODCAST by Feedspot for 2026!!

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