Are you hesitant to commit to your relationship just in case there’s someone better out there for you? Join Del and Barry as they discuss The Shiny Object Syndrome and how we get distracted by the superficiality of someone and overlook the more essential aspects of a good relationship, such as personality, compatibility, and shared values. Since the onset of online dating, our sphere of potential partners has widened, and with it, our fear of missing out on the potential of meeting someone better. As a result, many become less committed, with one foot in and one foot out of their relationship, always looking out for the newer, shinier version of what they already have.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you tired of playing the role of a Damsel in Distress waiting for your Knight in Shining Armor to rescue you? If so, this episode is for you. As children, many of us were raised on Fairy Tales, such as Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, and Rapunzel, to name but a few. Mix that with a dysfunctional childhood, and we grow up wanting and believing in the Rescue Fantasy. Del and Barry discuss how, due to their childhoods, they both innocently fell into the role of Damsel and Knight until they did the work necessary to overcome these unhealthy relationship dynamics.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you addicted to love and can't be without a relationship? And when you are in a relationship, do you abandon your friends and family and make your significant other the focus of your life? You're not alone. Many people fall into this trap. Del and Barry discuss the causes behind this unhealthy dependency and what you can do to heal from it so you are free to create the happy, healthy, and loving relationships you desire.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Have you been lured into a relationship with a Covert Narcissist and left feeling like you don't know what's hit you? Del and Barry discuss the common traits of the Covert Narcissist. They appear sweet and sensitive when you first meet them, the polar opposite of the classic Overt Narcissist. But don't be fooled; the relationship will still be all about them. They feel like no one has suffered as much as they have. They have fragile egos and are easily wounded. They're the masters of passive aggression, backhanded compliments, and stinging putdowns.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Did you know that when you jump into a new relationship and haven't given yourself the time to grieve your previous relationship, your capacity to love is limited? Del and Barry share advice and tips on how to mend your broken heart so you are ready to love again. When we take the time to process our breakup and look for the gifts and lessons learned, no matter how painful our relationship may have been, it allows us to move forward with an open heart and readiness to love again.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Did you know that these days over 50% of people meet their romantic partners using online dating apps? Del and Barry share their experience of using dating apps and how Del met the love of her life fifteen years ago on Match.com. In addition, they give some great advice and tips on how to date safely and wisely. Such as remembering not to give out personal information to someone you've just met. And how to avoid the pressure of looking for Mr. Right on the first date and look instead to practice expanding your social circle instead. You'll be surprised how love can grow over time.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you in a new relationship, but things are starting to feel vaguely familiar? You begin to see the same dysfunctional behaviors in your new partner that drove you crazy about your last partner. Del and Barry share how we unconsciously keep drawing the same type of partner to us if we haven't learned the lessons we need to learn from our previous relationships. Only once we do our inner work will we be able to break the pattern of dating the same person with a different name and face.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt sexually prayed upon by a person in a position of power? Thankfully the #metoo movement has bought this abusive behavior out of the shadows and into our awareness. Del and Barry discuss the positive impact the #metoo has had on the dating scene. We still have a long way to go, but it has raised the level of consciousness in how we respect and treat each other. They cover everything from how to protect yourself on a first date to how to ask permission before going in for that first kiss.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Do you feel like you are repeating negative patterns of behavior that have been passed down in your family for generations? Del and Barry share how, if unaddressed, we repeat these generational patterns in our present-day relationships. Furthermore, we tend to attract a partner who reminds us of the parent we had the most challenges with, such as an abusive, absent, or alcoholic parent. We do this unconsciously in hopes of achieving a different, happier outcome this time around.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you in a relationship where you feel loved, abused, confused, and left doubting your sanity? If this rings a bell with you, you may be in a Narcissistic relationship. One minute you feel like your partner worships you and puts you on a pedestal; the next, they belittle and tear you down. Del and Barry explain what you are experiencing is a classic case of love bombing, followed quickly by the devaluing stage and gaslighting, where your partner tells you that you are the problem and accuses you of being insane.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.