Longing is at the root of relationship problems. It spins off from four different mindsets:

1. Reality is not the way we want it.

2. We want somebody or something to change.

3. We believe we are responsible to bring about change in someone or something.

4. We want to protect or rescue someone.

Longing is an obsession. You don't know what you can do if anything, but you desperately want to control another and help them change.

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To make a sound decision about whether to leave your relationship or stay, you need to go from tunnel vision to a broader spectrum. Today you will learn precisely how to see the big picture so you can leave relationship ambivalence behind and either seek help to stay or go.

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Woundology validates your suffering but many take their suffering and victimhood to such a high level it keeps them stuck. Eventually, this person finds a "wound mate." Then it gets ugly.

You are free to choose victimhood or healing. You are free to live an abundant life or one that is full of stress and anxiety. The choice is yours.

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If you're trying to decide what to do with an iffy relationship, you want to avoid two mistakes:

1. You want to avoid leaving when you'd really be happiest staying.
2. You want to avoid staying when you would be happiest leaving.

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Sending much love and peace.

Heather

One of the most pervasive myths is that we are entitled to a great life. That somehow, somewhere, someone (not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness, exciting career opportunities, wonderful family time, and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist.

The real truth is that there is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live. That person is YOU!

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Your partner is not willing to change and this problem is making you miserable; what now?

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You've hoped that love would be enough. You've tried to accept things as they are. And you've agonized over the possibility of leaving. Now you're ready to face the choice that's been weighing on your heart.

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We cannot begin to work on ourselves, live a healthy life, and have healthy relationships until we stop obsessing about other people and their problems.

Attachment is becoming overly-involved, hopelessly entangled, excessively worried, and, yes, even obsessed.

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