Key Takeaways:

• The process of raising children aims to prepare them to thrive independently rather than keeping them at home.
• Transitioning to an "open nest" allows for relationships to evolve, fostering a friendship between parents and young adults.
• Parents have the opportunity to deeply appreciate who their children are becoming, while children gain newfound appreciation for their parents.
• Family interactions become more intentional and meaningful once children have left home, as time together is a choice rather than an expectation.
• The journey of parenthood doesn't end when children leave the house; it simply evolves into a new role of guidance and support.

Notable Quotes:

• "Our role wasn't to raise our children who stay, our role was to raise adults who can thrive on their own."
• "I think an open nest is a home where parents can shift their relationship to a friendship."
• "Leaving home doesn't end your role, it changes it. You're less of a director, you're more of a guide."
• "Remember, raising teens isn't about keeping them close forever. It's about helping them grow strong enough to fly."

 

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Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.

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