We continue our Polyamorous Men series with this live interview with The Good Chad of @Polyamfam. In this episode we discuss Chad's polyamory origin story. Chad shares the struggles he had early on-- his insecurities and jealousies, and how polyamory actually helped him work through them to become a better version of himself. Chad talks about the role toxic masculinity played in his polyamorous journey, and he gives us his number one tip in helping other men overcome toxicity: Listen. To. Women.   

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~ From Purity Rings to Non-Monogamous Things ~

In this episode, The Daylovers chat with a special guest, Instagram's @PurityToPolyamory (now @puritytopercolating). In part 1, she shares what lead her to starting her Instagram account, and her reaction to its quick success. She mentions that "exvangelical" and "deconstruction" circles are on the rise right now, and delves into the parallels within her journey between the deconstruction of her faith and her realization that she is polyamorous. @PurityToPolyamory also gets into the toxic elements of purity culture, the damage it does on young individuals, and how she's having to unpack all of those pieces now as an adult stepping into the fullness of her sexuality.

In part 2 she shares the twisty-turny story of how she discovered her own polyamorous nature with her husband, whom she's been with since she was 16, as well as the unexpected-but-profound shift that's occurred in the last few weeks.

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In this live and (mostly) unedited episode, The Daylovers share some exciting news regarding their recent rise to UK trash mag fame, update everyone on their dating life, and talk about some fun new merch they just launched. Plus, Jes goes off about how capitalism has ruined dating apps, does a deep dive into how her demisexuality affects her online dating life, and announces her newly discovered identity as a "Demisexual Slut". 

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In this kick off to the long-awaited Season 2, Jes pitches her mushroom-inspired idea to Joe that if she can let go of editing each episode as intensely as she did in Season 1, then they can get a lot more episodes out quicker. Joe doubts Jes is capable of that.

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In this special "Mini Episode", Jes shares a coming out story with you all. Just because you're 35 doesn't mean there aren't parts of your sexuality that you're still discovering. This story is dedicated to anyone with whom it resonates. 

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In the Season 1 Finale of “Remodeled”, The Daylovers sit down with the Godfather of their children, Christopher Daniels (aka “Titi”), to share the sacred birth story of Lucius Sol Daylover. The mission of Remodeled is to Redefine Family and Redefine Love, and the reverent home birth of their sweet LSD did just that. Can you imagine a more perfect way to end our first season?

The telling of birth stories, if you’ve never read or heard one, is an extremely powerful genre of storytelling. Not only does it capture forever the details for the family, but it can open up something for the listener, too. From a semiological standpoint, expanding your consciousness around the truth and power of home birth is as important as expanding your consciousness around the truth and power of polyamory, and other lesser known relationship models . Sure, neither are designed for everyone, but it’s important that everyone have the wisdom so that the script exists for the culture at large. This is how we build an inclusive world that works for every body.

The system has taken and hidden so many things from us, the power of birth being one of them. Hearing stories of successful, healthy polyamorous relationships, as well as successful, healthy home births, gives all of us permission to take our power back. We all have a right to live and birth the way WE are called to, whether that breaks tradition, sticks with tradition, or redefines tradition all together.

[Trigger Warning for this episode: mentions of birth trauma & obstetric violence. If you or someone you know had a traumatic birth experience, please consider a Birth Processing session. Jessica recommends www.sacredbirthspace.com/birth-processing and www.threefeathersholistic.com.]

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In this episode of Remodeled, Mr. Daylover recounts his mostly solo journey growing up on the East coast, moving to Vegas, and then finding his tribe in Reno. So far in this podcast we’ve focused on the relationships that shifted us into polyamory, but this 3-part memoir looks at the backstory, and unearths the seeds of a weird existence that would oddly match with a polyamory lifestyle later. Joe explores his middle class Catholic upbringing, his angsty teenage years, being a late bloomer, the world of Theatre, and other influences casting him as a weird person in an even stranger world.  

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In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers take you inside their hearts, to the depths of their total mystical weirdness, to answer a listener's email asking them to describe the role their spirituality plays in their polyamory. The episode starts with a chronological telling of how each of them came to have the beliefs they currently have -- a unique synthesis of their mutual passion for world religions, philosophies, and mystic traditions. Jes completely nerds out on her profound love of Spinozian metaphysics, shadow work, psychedelic drugs, The 12 Step Program, witchy folklore, and even Christ. Joe recounts his journey beginning as an east coast Catholic boy, to a bitter skeptic, to a lover of The Tao, to now a gooey place that sees God as All. In Part 2 of the episode, The Daylovers tie it all together by describing the exact nature their personal faith plays in their pursuit of many loves.

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>> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")

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In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers have the honor to chat with one of their favorite polyam content creators, all the way in the UK, Poly Philia. @polyphiliablog, whose sole creator is a brilliant human called Leanne, is a 22-year-old bisexual, autistic, polyamorous Asian cis-woman, who's also a part-time swinger and meme maker. The trio discuss Leanne's identity, the role she feels her autism has played in her logical view of relationships, her journey into polyamory, and her current adventures in non-hierarchical polyamory, and stress-relieving sex parties. In the second part of the interview, Leanne discusses her venture into content-creation, how her content took off, the effect it's having, and the importance of honest and accurate polyamorous content for the community. The links to all of Leanne's media are below: 

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In this saucy, sexy, and absolutely hilarious episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers sit down with one of the finest humans on this entire fucking planet, Wade Gainer. Wade identifies as a Black, Pansexual, Cisgendered Male, with Narcolepsy, who's been sober now for 4.5 years. The trio explores Wade's history with polyamory, as well as his journey into pansexual exploration. They also have a vulnerable and encouraging discussion on topics such as worrying about the penis-size of your partner's other partners, and discuss how to work through ego-based insecurities while exploring polyamory. Lastly, Wade and The Daylovers get political, and Wade shares his thoughts on complacency, while bringing listeners into a new project he's working on with Jes and Joe. You can learn more about this project at www.alchemistmovement.org.

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