In today's episode, I sit down with Beate Pilgreen — a professional organizer, sober powerhouse, and all-around life declutterer — to talk about the connection between getting sober and clearing the damn clutter — both emotionally and physically.

Beate shares her journey from growing up in Germany to making a "geographic" move to the U.S., thinking a new zip code could fix her heartbreak (and her drinking). Spoiler: it didn’t. But the story didn’t end there. After years of struggle, a 20-year marriage, and a full life reset, Beate found her way into sobriety — and, unexpectedly, into a whole new career helping other women find freedom through simplicity.

In this episode, we cover:

• How Beate discovered professional organizing after getting sober (and realized it was more emotional work than she expected).
• The link between addiction, clutter, and self-worth — and why sober women often feel stuck in their homes post-recovery.
• Reclaiming your space as a sober woman and redefining comfort and safety.
• Living intentionally, consuming consciously, and learning to say “no thanks” to a bag of random hand-me-downs.
• Beate’s transition from in-home organizing to digital offers and coaching — and her dream of building an army of sober, clutter-free women.

Whether you’re clearing out your closet or cleaning up your past, this episode is a heartfelt, hilarious, and grounding reminder that letting go — of stuff, of stories, of self-doubt — is powerful as hell.

Follow her journey on Instagram @noworganizing

Links: 

You can find Kate on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/katevitela/

Explore Kate’s blog: https://thesobercurator.com/category/sober-lifestyle/youve-been-selected/

Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

Email Podcast: [email protected] 

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Solita Roberts, founder of Style to Impact and a true catalyst for transformation—one wardrobe at a time.

We go deep on how style isn't about playing dress-up for the world. It's about dressing in alignment with who you actually are. Whether you're stepping into sobriety, into leadership, or just into a new era of self, your closet shouldn't be holding you hostage to an outdated version of you.

Solita shares how getting dressed during the darkest season of her life became an act of self-care—and ultimately, survival.

Together, we unpack:

• Why style is about internal transformation first, not just external polish
• The myth that shopping fixes confidence (spoiler: it doesn’t)
• The fear women have of being “too much” and why color is an act of rebellion
• How personal style can shatter conformity and unleash executive presence
• Tips for reassessing your wardrobe when your identity has shifted—hello sobriety, hello authenticity

If you’ve ever stared at your closet and thought, “Nothing in here feels like me anymore,” this episode is for you.

Solita C. Roberts is a catalyst for transformation—unlocking the confidence and authenticity of women leaders to cultivate a bold leadership image and personal brand.

As a speaker and founder of Style To Impact, Solita partners with organizations, entrepreneurs, and mid-to-C-suite executives to develop influential leaders and position top talent with strategies to show up authentically appropriate, and increase executive presence. Her work has impacted over 18,000 women leaders and earned her a LinkedIn Top Voice recognition.

Solita understands the pressure to conform to traditional corporate image standards—often at the expense of one's authentic self.

That’s why she is passionate about pushing boundaries and redefining what it means to lead with authenticity in a professional world where it’s easy to feel unseen, unheard, or undervalued.

She believes style is a tool for empowerment, self-care, and resilience—enhancing presence, influence, and career growth.

When she’s not on stage or leading workshops, Solita enjoys exploring the world of pickleball, finding inspiration in books, and cherishing quiet moments alone.

To discover how Solita can help you or your team enhance perception, performance, and power by refining their executive presence, visit styletoimpact.com/workwithme.

Together, let’s lead with purpose, style with intention, and transform how you show up in the world.

Connect with Solita:

WEBSITE: https://styletoimpact.com/

INSTAGRAM: @styletoimpact https://www.instagram.com/solitacroberts/

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/solitacroberts/

Connect with Kate:

The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry

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Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

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In this beautifully candid conversation, Kate sits down with writer and recovery advocate Celeste Yvonne to talk about sobriety, identity, motherhood, and what it really takes to step into the light after years in the shadow of shame.

Celeste shares the powerful backstory behind her book It's Not About the Wine, and what it was like navigating early recovery with a deep fear of being “found out.” From unpacking inherited narratives around addiction to co-founding the transformative Sober Mom Squad, Celeste opens up about finding her voice—and using it to help others find theirs.

If you've ever felt like recovery looked like church basements and weak coffee, this episode will reframe what’s possible.

What We Talk About in This Episode:

• Celeste’s fear of being labeled an “alcoholic"
• Breaking the cycle of addiction inherited from family
• Writing publicly about sobriety for the first time
• Founding Sober Mom Squad and the power of virtual recovery community
• Why “Mommy Wine Culture” is more dangerous than we think
• Grief, growth, and what comes after the end of a chapter
• Discovering your voice in sobriety—and how to use it

The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry

Register here to gain immediate access to Gut Check—your space for clarity, relief, and next steps.

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/offers/2et4yoCH

Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

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Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with author, speaker, NLP trainer, and coach Marsha Vanwynsberghe. Marsha is a six-time bestselling author, host of the Own Your Choices, Own Your Life Podcast, and founder of several transformational coaching programs. She shares openly about her journey as a parent navigating teen substance abuse and how that experience catalyzed her mission to help others reframe their stories and reclaim their power.

This episode is an honest, wide-ranging look at the realities behind building a meaningful business, facing personal breaking points, and evolving through discomfort. Marsha and I discuss what it really means to stay in the long game, whether it's in podcasting, personal growth, or entrepreneurship—and how choosing yourself, again and again, is an essential part of the process.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The emotional toll of starting a podcast and staying consistent
• Marsha’s experience parenting through teen addiction and how it shaped her voice
• What it means to reach a breaking point—and how to rebuild from it
• The danger of building a business that doesn’t reflect your values
• Why making space (not doing more) is key to creating what you actually want
• How NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) helps uncover blind spots and reprogram your mindset
• Reframing challenges as part of your growth and legacy

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend or leave a review wherever you listen. Your support helps more listeners find these powerful conversations.

The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry

Register here to gain immediate access to Gut Check—your space for clarity, relief, and next steps.

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Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

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Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In today's episode, I am joined once again by my husband, Philip, to talk about something they’re frequently asked: What do sober couples do for fun?

Together we share how our social life has evolved in sobriety—from bar brawls and boring nights in to a packed calendar filled with live music, fashion shows, comedy, art events, photography gigs, and spontaneous "treasure hunts" at flea markets.

Not only that, our marriage and personal interests have flourished, and being sober has enhanced our ability to enjoy and explore life. From mocktails to night drives, downtown adventures to daytime dates, we prove that a sober life doesn’t mean a boring one—it means a better one.

We talk about:

• What our social life looked like before vs. after sobriety
• How sobriety sparked new passions in fashion and photography
• Making space for joy, creativity, and meaningful connection
• Laugh-out-loud moments from comedy clubs to green rooms
• How being sober brings clarity, safety, and financial freedom

Connect with Phillip:

https://www.instagram.com/a13photography/

SMART Recovery Meeting Finder

https://smartrecovery.org/meeting

The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry

Register here to gain immediate access to Gut Check—your space for clarity, relief, and next steps.

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Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

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Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In this episode, I want to share a little bit about a new course called The Gut Check—a private self-inquiry course designed for those stuck in the space between “not rock bottom” and “not free.”

This episode is both a behind-the-scenes look at why The Gut Check course was created and an invitation to explore what happens when we pause before the pivot.

Whether you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol, stuck in comparison traps, or simply wondering “Is this working for me anymore?”, this episode and course are designed to meet you in that sacred space of curiosity without judgment.

In this episode I cover:

• Why The Gut Check isn’t a sobriety bootcamp or an “Am I an alcoholic?” quiz
• The power of internal consequences and invisible pain
• How fear masks itself as logic—and keeps us stuck
• Why curiosity is key, and how it opens the door to transformation
• Reframing the concept of “rock bottom” and making space for quiet truth
• Why it’s never too late to rewrite your story

The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry

Register here to gain immediate access to Gut Check—your space for clarity, relief, and next steps.

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/offers/2et4yoCH

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend, artist, and sober mentor Catherine Just — a visual powerhouse whose photography gives voice to the unspoken: love, loss, desire, and transformation.

Catherine celebrates 37 years of continuous sobriety, and her life’s work is a testament to what happens when you listen to the inner whisper that says, “There’s more to life than what you’re living.” From battling meth addiction at 18 to gracing the walls of galleries in Paris, Milan, and Los Angeles, Catherine shares the raw truth of what it takes to own your space, your voice, and your art.

Catherine shares:

• The spiritual nudge that saved her life
• How creativity became a lifeline and a practice of truth
• Battling impostor syndrome (even at the top of your game)
• What it means to step into your full power — before you feel ready
• The behind-the-scenes of her recent international art exhibitions
• Using self-inquiry and awareness to quiet the inner critic
• Raising her incredible son Max, and how their collaboration redefines inclusion and love

This episode is packed with spiritual sass, real-deal honesty, and tender reflection on what it really means to be selected for something more.

Connect with Catherine:

Website: http://www.catherinejust.com

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/cjust

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4bo0oqdchsxKMwMPC8ghBn?si=88cb4b8ce7b8439b

Free Masterclass April 16-18: https://www.catherinejust.com/courses#/deardoubt/

The Deepening : Online Creativity Mentoring Program: https://www.catherinejust.com/courses#/thedeepening/

Fine Art: https://www.catherinejust.com/art-portfolios

Photo Sessions: https://www.catherinejust.com/photo-sessions

NMFW Devotional Kits: https://catherinejust.myflodesk.com/vd8gi8o8pq

NMFW Merch: https://www.catherinejust.com/shop

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

What started as a silly reel (complete with banana phone and bathrobe chic) evolved into a powerful reflection on identity, transformation, and fashion as a mirror of recovery. In this episode I unpack how sobriety shattered the illusion of what I once thought was a “fabulous” drinking life and how, ironically, my style and confidence actually blossomed in recovery.

I discuss:

• The real meaning behind “get a life” after getting sober
• How fashion helped Kate find her footing in recovery
• The identity crisis of ditching wine-soaked glam for authentic style
• From "Hollywood Kate" to conscious consumer — the evolution of a personal brand
• The cringe, the chaos, and the clarity of navigating fast fashion, designer dupes, and RealReal regrets
• How personal development and personal style are deeply connected

Links: 

You can find Kate on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/katevitela/

Explore Kate’s blog: https://thesobercurator.com/category/sober-lifestyle/youve-been-selected/

Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

Email Podcast: [email protected] 

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

My husband Phillip is back, and this time he is sharing his story about getting sober. From his career in the military, to binge drinking, blackouts, and rock-bottom moments—this is his story, 4 years after I decided to quit drinking.

In this episode Phillip shares:

• The night he wrecked his car—and how it saved his life
• The emotional toll of transitioning out of the military
• Binge drinking, masculinity, and cultural expectations around alcohol
• How relationships can grow together even when recovery looks different
• The stigma (and silence) around sobriety in certain families and communities and the work he gets to do now

Connect with Phillip:

https://www.instagram.com/a13photography/

SMART Recovery Meeting Finder

https://smartrecovery.org/meeting

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program

In this episode, I’m diving into the truth that no one tells you about getting sober: the real work starts after you put down the drink.

For many of us, the next layer of recovery is learning how to navigate our relationships without numbing, fixing, or losing ourselves in other people.

This one is for anyone who is navigating sobriety with a partner who still drinks.

• What happens when your nervous system finally stops buzzing
• Why peace can feel threatening after a lifetime of survival mode
• The sneaky ways people-pleasing and codependency show up post-sobriety
• Setting boundaries without guilt (and why it’s so damn hard)
• Healing the real root of addiction: disconnection from self

If you’re sober (or sober curious) and finding that your relationships are now the thing taking up all your emotional bandwidth, you are so not alone.

Links: 

You can find Kate on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/katevitela/

Explore Kate’s blog: https://thesobercurator.com/category/sober-lifestyle/youve-been-selected/

Work with Kate: https://linktr.ee/KateVitela

Email Podcast: [email protected] 

Mentioned in this episode:

Rewired Sober Group Coaching Program

https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program