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Pack your bags and BUCKLE up! Kam and Lindsey take the show on the road this week for a wedding in the South Carolina upstate! We're recapping a weekend that had it all: a ridiculously fun couple, a surprise fire ant attack, and a reception so good we ended up crashing the after-party.

We also get real about trends we're seeing in the industry, like brides booking way later than they used to. Plus, we dive into the ongoing struggle of navigating overbearing planners who sometimes do more blocking than helping, and why photographers real need to take the lead on their own timelines. And, of course, we make the case that content creators aren't just documenting the party- we ARE the party:)

If you want stories, hot takes, and plenty of laughs from life behind the lens, this one's got it all. 

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For the Bride with a champagne taste, but a Cricut budget. In this episode, Lindsey and Kam spill the secrets every bride needs to know about saving money without sacrificing style. From crafty hacks that wow guests to the splurges actually worth it. We’re breaking down the real budget wins (and fails) we’ve seen firsthand. If you’re a bride on a budget or just want to spend smarter, this one’s for you!

0:00 – Weddings are $$$

0:24 – Save vs. splurge intro

1:04 – Time is money

1:23 – Invitations

2:00 – Canva & printing

2:43 – QR codes & RSVPs

3:56 – Budget invites

5:04 – Signage hacks

7:58 – Seating chart tip

9:08 – DIY details & gifts

11:15 – When DIY isn’t worth it

11:36 – Photo/video hours

14:12 – Content creators vs. videographers

15:15 – Florals on a budget

19:45 – Boutonnières & groomsmen

20:50 – Rentals & chairs

22:54 – Lighting & candles

25:02 – Food & bar

29:01 – Hair & makeup

32:42 – DJ vs. band

36:09 – Transportation

38:05 – Final budget tips

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This week on RSVP Thanks, we sit down with Alex from Bella Bridesmaids, who shares everything you need to know about shopping for both wedding gowns and bridesmaid dresses. From timelines and alterations to sizing realities, regrets, and trends, Alex gives practical advice to make dress shopping less stressful and way more fun.

We also dive into Bella Bridesmaids’ sister store, Madison Row South, a Charleston bridal boutique where brides find their dream gowns. If you’re preparing to shop for a wedding dress or wrangling your bridal party into fittings, this episode is filled with insider tips, funny stories, and the kind of advice every bride wishes she had.

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0:00 – Welcome + meet our guest, Alex from Bella Bridesmaids

1:10 – Alex's background in the industry

2:30 – When brides should shop for their gown

3:45 – How the bridal gown sets the tone for bridesmaids

5:00 – Staying true to your style vs. following trends

6:30 – How many shops should you really visit?

7:45 – Avoiding dress regret + social media pressure

9:00 – Bridesmaid dress ordering timelines

10:15 – Seasonal factors that affect dress delivery

12:00 – Bridal sizing explained (and why it feels so different)

13:30 – Alterations: budgeting + common surprises

16:00 – Alex’s alteration horror stories

18:30 – Finding reliable alteration shops

20:00 – What to bring to your fittings (shoes, undergarments, jewelry)

23:30 – Exclusive designers + how to shop smart

24:00 – Discounts, trunk shows + tax-free weekend tips

28:30 – Sample sales + saving on formalwear

31:00 – Why tailoring can transform a dress

33:00 – Wedding fashion trends

36:00 – Looking ahead at what’s trending next year

40:00 – Bustle tips + avoiding day-of disasters

42:00 – Who should actually be in charge of your bustle?

44:00 – Cleaning + preserving your dress after the wedding

45:45 – Closing thoughts + where to connect with Alex

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Think wedding flowers are “just bouquets”? Think again. In this episode, Lindsey sits down with florist Hannah of Flora by Hannah to spill the secrets behind stunning wedding florals. From Pinterest expectations vs. reality, to why flowers cost what they do, when you should actually book, and the trends you’ll want... and the ones to skip. This convo will save you stress, money, and headaches while giving you major inspo for your big day. 

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00:00 – Welcome & introducing Hannah

00:15 – Flora by Hannah: business beginnings

00:52 – Why florals are key to a wedding vision

01:19 – First steps before booking a florist

02:29 – Proposals, inspo boards & mood palettes

04:34 – Pinterest dreams vs. realistic budgets

05:48 – How Hannah became a florist (Valentine’s Day inspo)

08:07 – Starting a business & navigating Covid

09:14 – Handling tariffs, contracts & rising costs

10:29 – Breaking down the cost of florals

13:37 – When to book a florist & cut-off timelines

15:10 – Out-of-season color palettes & creative fixes

18:28 – Where flowers are sourced (local & global)

20:21 – Seasonal price spikes & Valentine’s Day “Super Bowl”

21:12 – The joy of florals & favorite wedding moments

27:29 – DIY florals vs. hiring a professional

35:36 – Floral trends: love it or pass

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This week on RSVP Thanks, we kick things off with our very first hotline caller and then dive headfirst into Reddit’s wildest wedding stories. From a fake camo proposal and bouquet toss gone wrong to drunk guests, bridesmaid brawls, and even our own personal wedding experience! No story is too outrageous. We also spill on our proposal stories, share lessons learned, and remind you why some traditions (and cold sparklers) should stay far away from the big day. 

00:00 – Intro

00:48 – Bridesmaid’s fake camo proposal

02:23 – Bouquet toss proposal gone wrong

04:14 – Why bouquet/garter tosses are cursed

05:04 – Camping wedding chaos & drunk fight

06:19 – Runaway bride with champagne & cops

08:26 – Officiant says wrong name at vows

10:06 – Bachelorette party turns into a brawl

12:01 – Bridesmaid drops out, wants $50 back

13:41 – Lindsey’s bachelorette trip drama

17:39 – Waiter ruins proposal with jazz hands

20:07 – Our proposal stories

26:12 – Wedding registry with $150 minimum

30:36 – Couple does tasting during another wedding

33:09 – The Wedding that caught on fire

39:27 – Lessons learned + closing hotline

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Dreaming of saying “I do” somewhere magical? This week we’re joined by Ashley Pate Newkirk of Ash Events, a destination wedding planner with experience in Pawleys Island, Charleston, Jamaica, Italy, and beyond. Ashley shares how she got started in the industry, the unique challenges of planning weddings abroad, and the tips every couple needs to know before booking their dream destination.

From passports and packing lists to wild wedding stories (yes, police arrests and champagne explosions included), this episode is packed with laughs, lessons, and insider advice. Whether you’re planning a beachside ceremony, a Tuscan villa wedding, or just want to hear some juicy behind-the-scenes stories, this one’s for you. 

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 00:00 – Welcome & Charleston weddings
 02:00 – Meet Ashley Newkirk
 06:15 – Destination clients in Pawleys
 10:00 – Booking clients via TikTok
 14:10 – Destination vs. local weddings
 18:30 – Language & culture barriers
 22:40 – Travel agents + local vendors
 27:00 – Jamaica & Italy wedding stories
 33:15 – First steps with destination couples
 38:00 – Passports, packing & checklists
 42:20 – Wildest wedding mishaps
 49:00 – Avoiding destination disasters
 53:30 – Save vs. Splurge game
 1:01:00 – Lighting, photo booths & cars
 1:09:40 – Specialty cocktails + bars
 1:15:20 – Kids at weddings (hot takes)
 1:22:00 – Final tips + where to find Ashley 

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Planning a wedding? Avoid these mistakes at all costs. We’re breaking down the biggest vendor red flags, the guest behavior that makes us cringe, and some truly chaotic Reddit wedding hot takes you have to hear to believe. This is a must Listen... trust us!

00:00 – Back in the Studio

00:30 – Wedding Vendor Horror Stories

01:29 – The Communication Red Flag

03:11 – Contracts That Protect You

03:40 – Pricing & Payment Red Flags

05:24 – Overpromising Vendors

07:46 – How to Spot Fake Experience

09:08 – Confident Vendors Only

12:25 – Vendor Gossip = Red Flag

15:06 – Vendor Energy on Wedding Day

17:47 – Trust Your Vibe Check

18:44 – When Clients Raise Red Flags

20:11 – The Shady Cancellation

22:03 – “Break the Bank” Couples

23:03 – $1,000 Wedding Ticket Scandal

25:54 – Mom in a Wedding Dress

27:49 – Black Tie Without the Experience

29:46 – Skipping the Ceremony

33:05 – Dance Floor Rules

34:31 – Reddit’s Wildest Wedding Takes

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In this episode we discuss the various aspects of wedding planning, focusing on managing stress, organization, budgeting, and the importance of delegating tasks. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help brides navigate the complexities of planning their weddings, emphasizing the need for checklists, emotional preparation, and the significance of prioritizing what truly matters on the big day.

00:00
Navigating Wedding Stress

02:14
Organization Tips for DIY Weddings

03:31
Budgeting and Vendor Prioritization

06:51
Managing Guest Lists and Outside Opinions

09:16
Commonly Forgotten Wedding Details

11:51
Writing Vows and Personal Touches

13:21
The Pressure of Acapella Vows

14:52
Planning Ahead for Wedding Week

16:19
The Importance of an Emergency Kit

17:15
Setting Boundaries in Wedding Planning

18:09
Delegating Tasks Effectively

19:50
Bachelorette Party Planning and Costs

21:56
Managing Expectations and Budgeting

24:05
Checking in on the Bride's Well-being

25:27
The Role of Wedding Planners

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In this episode we discuss the intricacies of wedding planning, focusing on the critical decision of selecting a venue. We explore various factors that influence this choice, including access, timing, coordination, budgeting, catering options, and logistics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of thorough planning and consideration of all aspects to ensure a smooth and enjoyable wedding experience.

00:00
Introduction to Wedding Planning Stress

01:18
Choosing the Right Venue

02:53
Access and Timing Considerations

05:06
Understanding Venue Amenities

08:30
The Importance of Contracts and Planners

10:21
Breaking Down Responsibilities

14:04
Catering and Kitchen Considerations

14:18
Planning for Venue Logistics

15:55
Lighting and Ambiance Considerations

16:17
Bathroom Facilities and Guest Comfort

16:54
Transportation and Parking Solutions

18:50
Food Service Options at Weddings

22:22
Catering and Rental Essentials

23:10
Weather Preparedness for Outdoor Events

23:50
Logistics of Venue Location and Accessibility

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Planning or attending a summer wedding? This episode is your no-fluff guide to making it through the heat and the chaos. We’re sharing must-know tips for warm weather weddings, why your rain plan needs a serious upgrade, and how to build a wedding timeline that actually works. Plus, we’re calling out the stuff that needs to stop: guests arriving too early, yoga pants on the dance floor, and bridesmaids being used as filler. We also dive into ceremony flow, vendor etiquette, and why rehearsals aren’t optional.

Get ready for real talk, good laughs, and practical advice to help your summer wedding run smooth from “I do” to the bouquet toss.

00:22 Intro
00:35 Summer weddings
01:04 Having your guests in mind at a warm weather wedding
03:58 Having a rain plan for a wedding
05:07 Rain plan tip
07:19 Vendor and Venue Contracts
12:52 Rain on your wedding day
14:32 A wedding timeline
16:26 Key points to create a wedding timeline
20:33 Hiring a coordinator
21:28 Stop doing this at weddings...
30:45 How to make your ceremony run smoothly
38:31 Rehearsal must do walk throughs
41:18 Ceremony music
42:53 Bouquet tip & empty your pockets
43:56 Family photos
45:53 Episode ending - contact us!

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