RSVP Thanks

Weddings are magical, but chasing down RSVPs? Not so much. In this episode, we’re diving into the world of wedding invitations: how to get guests to actually respond (on time), who really gets a plus one, and what makes a wedding website actually useful. We’re also spilling a few invitation hacks and tips on creating stress-free seating charts.

Whether you're planning your big day or just love the drama of guest list etiquette, this 25-minute episode is packed with helpful info and a few laughs along the way. Hit play, and let’s make RSVPs less of a mystery!

00:00 intro

00:26 when to send invitations 

2:19 venue requirements on final numbers 

3:36 wedding websites and why you need them 

5:39 QR code RSVP

6:36 what to put in your wedding website 

9:03 RSVP etiquette 

9:57 paper invitation layouts 

12:27 wording on no kids/plus ones 

12:54 invitation hacks 

13:45 envelope hacks to avoid handwriting each one 

14:56 how to save on stamps 

16:12 do not lick your envelopes 

17:32 RSVP yes but no showing 

19:15 RSVP no then coming 

20:46 not giving a gift as a guest 

22:02 seating charts are a must 

24:53 episode ending

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Say cheese—and cue the unfiltered opinions—because this week we’re getting real about all things wedding photography with Charleston-based photographer and creative pro, Brittany Chavez.

In this episode, we dive into what really matters when it comes to booking a photographer you actually vibe with. From understanding photo styles and red flags to the vetting process, Brittany shares her approach to building trust, delivering both raw and refined images, and why honesty and communication matter just as much as the photo presets.

We also unpack:

• Why not every photographer is the right fit (and how to tell the difference)
• What couples often miss when hiring their media team
• The planner vs. photographer debate (who owns what?)
• Wedding day chaos—from tech issues to surprise no-shows
• And how to stand out in a saturated sea of content creators

Whether you’re newly engaged or deep in the Pinterest scroll, this one’s for you.

00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday
01:14 Meet the Expert: Brittany Chavez
02:24 Finding the Right Photographer for You
03:31 Understanding Styles, Techniques & Editing
05:20 Transparency, Boundaries & Red Flags
12:10 Engagement Sessions & Getting Comfortable
13:27 Top-Tier Service & Personal Recommendations
13:44 What It's Like Navigating a Saturated Market
13:58 Wild Wedding Stories & Unexpected Challenges
17:33 Who Owns the Photos? The Planner vs. Photographer Debate
23:31 Choosing the Right Media Team for Your Day
24:30 Where to Find Brittany
25:09 Follow Us and Stay Connected

Connect with Brittany Chavez Photography:
📸 https://www.instagram.com/brittanychavezphotography/

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Pour a drink and cue the playlist, because this week we’re talking all things wedding entertainment with the one and only DJ Jilly Beatz — a Charleston-based DJ with over a decade of experience turning receptions into unforgettable parties.

In this episode, we dive into how to actually create a wedding vibe that reflects you — from picking a DJ who knows how to read the room to navigating the DJ vs. live band debate, understanding pricing, booking timelines, and handling last-minute chaos (looking at you, rogue MOBs 👀).

Jilly shares what it’s like to be a woman behind the booth in a male-dominated industry, how she keeps dance floors packed, and what she wishes every bride knew before handing over the playlist.

Whether you're planning your wedding or just love a good behind-the-scenes moment, this one’s packed with insight, energy, and a few jaw-dropping stories.

00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday
00:27 Importance of Wedding Entertainment
00:45 Special Guest DJ Introduction
01:35 Jilly joins the convo
01:54 What a DJ actually does for your wedding
03:25 Personal stories + why vibes matter
07:37 The power of female DJs
09:33 How Jilly got started in the industry
11:09 How to book your DJ (and when)
11:43 DJ responsibilities throughout the day
13:06 Wild wedding stories: the MOB incident 👀
17:16 Positive moments: bride surprise performance
19:58 Tips for choosing the right DJ for your day
21:06 Understanding DJ pricing + what to expect
23:09 Final thoughts and where to find us

Connect with DJ Jilly Beatz:
🎧 https://www.instagram.com/dj_jillybeatz/

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Pour a glass and pull up your Pinterest board because this week, we’re talking all things color analysis with the fabulous Katie Heatherington of House of Color.

In this episode, we dive into how finding your wow colors can totally transform your bridal style—from picking the perfect shade of white for your dress to choosing bridesmaid colors that don’t make your girls look like they’re auditioning for a pastel horror movie. Katie walks us through what really happens during a color analysis (spoiler: it’s not as scary as it sounds), shares her fave makeup tips by season, and spills the tea on spray tans, color “mistakes,” and why you might want to ditch that go-to bronzer.

Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or just love a good glow-up moment, this one’s for you.

00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday

00:28 Importance of Color Analysis in Weddings

00:52 Guest Introduction: Katie Heatherington

02:04 Understanding Your Best White for Wedding Dresses

04:11 Color Analysis Process Explained

07:30 Color Analysis for Bridesmaids and Wedding Parties

09:08 Seasonal Color Tips and Universal Colors

14:45 The Experience of Professional Color Analysis

15:24 Spray Tans and Wedding Day Tips

17:31 Conclusion and Contact Information

Connect with Katie: https://www.instagram.com/houseofcolour_southmtpleasant/

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Welcome to the very first episode of RSVP Thanks!

 
Lindsey and Kam kick things off with real-talk advice for anyone just starting their wedding planning journey — including timeline tips, budget breakdowns, and the truth about why vendors don’t always list their pricing.

They also answer some of your hotline questions (like whether you should do a first look) and wrap up with some rapid-fire hot takes — from bouquet toss debates to garter removal, videographer vs. content creator, and more. 

Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!

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