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If you feel you lack feminine energy, you might be conflating it with something else altogether. Recently, my client Amanda asked about how to bring more feminine energy into her love life. But we discovered that the issue isn’t really about femininity but how to let go of needing to be perfect.

Perfectionism can feel like a masculine energy even though it isn’t. So in this episode, I walk Amanda through this confusion and help her release her need for controlling everything in pursuit of perfection. If you can relate to being a perfectionist or have some part of you that you wish to change, you’ll want to give this one a listen.

11:38 - The relationship that plays a huge part in Amanda’s perfectionist tendencies

14:57 - Looking at the phrase “no one’s perfect” in a different light

17:32 - How the perfectionism part of Amanda actually helps her

19:42 - A shift you can make with any part of yourself you want to change

21:50 - Ways in which Amanda has already cultivated her feminine energy

23:58 - Why Amanda tries to control things and what she fears can happen if she doesn’t

27:24 - What Amanda can do when she feels her inner child’s fear and habits coming up

30:26 - A quick recap of the coaching call and highlights of a few key points

33:57 - Going over a couple of important things you might have noticed during the episode

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Listen to these previous episodes:

• • Episode 67: “Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energy for Amazing Relationships with Amanda Gyuran”
  • Episode 244: “How to Use Fem/Masc Energy to Stop Procrastinating and Get Back on Track With Your Goals With Maureen”

• Read “How to Be More Feminine (Without Being Girly)”
• Sign up for Dating Without Swiping here. 
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

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I conducted a community survey last month, and one response really stood out to me. This person said they want to meet someone organically. However, they also appreciate the ability to pre-screen people online for compatible values and interests. While dating apps have their advantages, I don’t believe using them in this way guarantees you’ll reach your goal for a deep, romantic relationship.

Today, I want to dive into how to know if you’re compatible with someone. I cover three reasons why you don’t need dating profiles to figure out if someone’s a good fit for you. Then, I wrap up with three considerations to help you make informed decisions when dating someone new.

4:37 - The rabbit hole you can often fall into with dating apps

6:38 - How arbitrary decision-making on the apps can backfire

9:09 - The real issue with depending on dating app profiles

14:30 - Different ways discernment and judgment affect your approach to relationships

15:57 - Why compatibility and chemistry aren’t the same things

17:34 - One area where online dating can really trip you up

22:23 - A re-frame that can help you overcome your dating anxieties

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Sign up for Dating Without Swiping here. Save $50 with the code earlybird50.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

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Do you tend to rush into relationships and eventually find yourself overcommitted and losing self-confidence in your pursuit to make your partner happy? When you’re single, everything else can be going great: your work, your health, and your life generally. It seems like the perfect scenario to add someone special to the mix.

But when you finally meet someone, you suddenly want to drop everything else in your life and career, and the confidence you feel goes down the drain. If this sounds familiar, then you’ll love this episode! In my coaching call with Nilsa, you’ll discover how to stop rushing into a relationship with actionable tips to help you keep confidently living the life you want.

8:31 - Nilsa describes her self-sabotaging situation

12:00 - The habit Nilsa developed that affected her relationships for a long time

14:46 - How Nilsa’s long “situationship” still affects her today

17:49 - Nilsa’s underlying fear behind not earning love or approval

20:28 - What Nilsa really needed to hear as a child

23:43 - The small shift I want Nilsa to make in her inner child work

26:47 - How Nilsa can prevent overcommitting herself in her relationship going forward

33:20 - Two simple takeaways from this call that you can do right now

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Listen to Dating in the Wild Parts 4, 3, 2, and 1
• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

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Do you ever wonder how you're going to meet your “the one”? Does it occur to you that there is a possibility that you two have already met at some point?

If these ideas have crossed your mind, let me tell you that there is a great chance that you are already on your way to meeting the love of your life. I would be glad to share with you the steps I took to get to mine.

There are several places where you will most likely meet your soulmate. Welcome to Part IV of our miniseries called Dating in the Wild, where you’ll find out how I landed into the serendipitous moment of meeting my very own soulmate.

1:39 - How randomly saying “yes” can change your life entirely

3:18 - The role of common interests in building friendships

4:02 - Creating long-term relationships 

6:44 - Being open to new experiences and its impact on your chances at serendipity

8:09 - How to create serendipitous moments that may lead to your soulmate

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps:

• Listen to Part 1: Why meeting people IRL is easier than you think
• Listen to Part 2: Three Mistakes and Myths to Meeting People IRL
• Listen to Part 3: How to Meet More People IRL
• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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Are online dating platforms starting to feel forced and unnatural to you? Are you someone who appreciates the traditional meet-and-greet experience?

If you are looking to meet someone in a more organic scenario, I can tell you that there are lots and lots of ways that you can build your community to create more chances for serendipity to happen in your favor.

I want to guide you through this process of building your community and meeting potential partners off the apps and IRL. Welcome to Part III of our miniseries called Dating in the Wild, where you’ll find out how to make meaningful interactions to expand your community and find your potential soulmate.

1:17 - How people meet their spouses according to statistics

2:22 - What serendipity really is all about

3:30 - The mindset my coach taught me that lead to my business success that we can adopt to dating

5:06 - Different ways to build and expand your community

6:01 - Setting goals for social interaction on a regular basis

8:00 - Where to stay focused on

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps:

• Listen to Part 1: Why meeting people IRL is easier than you think
• Listen to Part 2: Three Mistakes and Myths to Meeting People IRL
• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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What can you do to create the off-chance of meeting someone new today? Believe it or not, you have a lot more control than you think.

If you, like many of my clients, want to meet people off the apps and in the wild, then I challenge you to create your own serendipitous moments. “Serendipity” is defined as “the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way.” I help my clients create more of it in their daily life, and in this episode, I cover the three mistakes and myths that can prevent you from creating, encountering, and enjoying serendipity in your own love life.

1:49 - Real life examples of what serendipitous moments can look like for you

2:16 - The series I could watch all day long, that I recommend you watch to see serendipity in action

3:00 - The #1 mistake that’ll burn you out on creating serendipity 

5:05 - The challenge I give to my clients to prevent them from making mistake #2 in creating serendipity

6:07 - What you don’t have to be in order to create serendipitous moments

7:26 - How I can help you create more serendipity in your life to attract potential partners

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Listen to Jia Jiang’s “What I learned from 100 days of rejection. 
• Listen to Part 1: “Why meeting people IRL is easier than you think”
• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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Are you tired of spending the last year and a half at home and just want to get back into the dating world offline? 

While I don’t think it matters whether you meet your partner online or offline, so many people tell me they want to have serendipitous dating experiences and discover partners organically. 

If you feel that meeting people in person is the best fit for you too, then I’ve created this new miniseries to support you. Welcome to part one, where you’ll find out why dating in the “real world” isn’t as complicated as you think.

1:53​ - The surprising place where you can meet great men 

3:04 - The #1 way people meet their spouses and why it doesn’t really matter

4:14 - The 80/20 rule and how to apply it to your dating life

7:27 - How to begin tackling your biggest challenge in meeting people organically

8:34 - Manifesting serendipitous romances without using Law of Attraction tactics

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Read “Dating Apps Are Officially the Most Popular Way to Meet a Spouse”
• Read “Meeting online has become the most popular way U.S. couples connect, Stanford sociologist finds”
• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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It’s time for us to talk about the dark side of personal development. If you’re in the self-help industry as a coach or any kind of healer or helper, then this episode might make you feel a little uncomfortable, but I’ll remind you that this feeling can catalyze growth.

What I’m sharing reflects both my experience being on the receiving end of the dark side of personal development, as well as the ways I’ve fallen prey to the industry when it comes to making money and getting clients.

I’m being really transparent on my own growth in this way and how I want to show up for you, but I also want to warn you of the pitfalls so you can become a better consumer (or coach) of personal development as well. 

6:42 - The inner child programming that the personal development industry plays into

9:11 - How toxic positivity shuts us down from healing through spiritual bypassing

14:32 - The critical piece missing when we talk about The Law of Attraction 

17:20 - The toxic culture around gurus, and the false belief that there is one right way

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
• Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
• Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose. Sign up here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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Welcome to episode 268 of the Love Live Connection podcast. If you feel like you lose yourself in relationships, struggle with worthiness or boundaries, or become a chameleon, then this episode is for you. Ashley has been feeling lost in many areas of her life but especially when she starts a new relationship. In my coaching conversation with her, I help her work through her feelings of self-worth, self-consciousness, and rejection and uncover her perpetual pattern of outsourcing her worthiness and likability.

5:40 - Ashley’s journey in the last few years 

12:36 - What Ashley wants and requires right now

17:53 - Difficulty getting into 10 or 12-year-old Ashley’s head space

21:03 - My preferred self-exploratory question to ask daily, at minimum

23:31 - Passion and purpose don’t need to be tied to income

26:27 - Working through feelings of self-consciousness

31:07 - Recapping the coaching call with Ashley

39:23 - Two action steps to take

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Get my Free Guide on How to Have a 3-Month Conversation here.
• Are you done with where you are right now?  With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love.  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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Welcome to episode 267 of the Love Live Connection podcast. Today’s topic probably applies to most, if not everyone, who listens to this show. One thing that comes up in dating and relationships is the different levels of interest in personal development and growth. One person will often be more interested in this area than the other, and sometimes that can create real relationship conflict or some wrinkles that need to be ironed out.

Luckily they can be, so in this episode I talk you through my process of being married to someone who isn’t super into this stuff whereas I live and breathe it as a life coach. Yet, my husband and I still have a beautiful relationship and make it work, even with ups and downs. So perk your ears up as I get really personal!

6:42​ - My history with personal development since childhood

9:03 - Deciding what personal growth will look like in the relationship

13:41 - Spiritual growth and my anxiety about its affect on my relationship

18:09 - First thing I had to do in my relationship with Stevie

22:45 - Leading by example instead of telling your partner what to do

25:56 - Understanding who runs the personal growth industry (and who it targets)

30:49 - Some of my and Stevie’s frameworks and boundaries

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Get my Free Guide on How to Have a 3-Month Conversation here.
• Are you done with where you are right now?  With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love.  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here.

• Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose. Sign up here.

• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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