Run Your Money Show

Welcome to this quick bonus episode of the Love Life Connection podcast. I just wanted to pop in to tell you I have some space open for new clients this summer. Right now I’m taking on two new clients a month. In this short episode, I go over what I do, how my work helps you, and how you can get one of the open spots. So tune in if you’re interested in working with me!

00:53 - Clarifying the kind of work I do with clients

1:36 - The big secret about how my work benefits you

3:01 - Your first step to take if interested

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Welcome to episode 266 of the Love Live Connection podcast. This episode originally aired back in 2019, so if you’ve been listening for a while some of this might sound familiar. I know a lot of people experience a dating fizzle where things seem to be going well, then all of the sudden the other person feels a little more distant. Or they don’t want the same thing you want and the relationship fizzles out or just abruptly ends. If you can relate to this, you’re gonna love this episode.

6:24 - Renee explains her situation

14:58 - Surprising people-pleasing realizations

20:59 - Things Renee can do to put herself first

25:08 - Renee’s action steps moving forward

32:39 - Recapping the coaching call

36:38 - What to work on if being a people pleaser is blocking you in love

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Welcome to episode 265 of the Love Live Connection podcast! I often talk about how some gaslight-y things go on in the world of personal development, but Amy Smith doesn’t do that. I think the way she teaches about communication, vulnerability, and boundaries is her sweet spot. She also inspires me when she talks about her 20+ year marriage, which is why I’ve invited her as a guest today.

If you feel like you don’t have a healthy relationship model to inspire you, then this episode’s for you. Listen to what’s underneath the surface of what she’s saying so you can emulate it with your relationship.  

6:36 - Amy gives an overview of her relationship

11:13 - Why her marriage feels freeing instead of restrictive

16:59 - Intimacy and vulnerability as directly related to each other

23:07 - How we can over-glorify relationships these days

27:37 - Amy’s advice on personal growth and development in a relationship

33:32 - Tips for maintaining and daily care-taking of a marriage

42:08 - How Amy and her husband manage conflict in their relationship

47:07 - Communication tips for resolving marital conflicts

51:16 - What you need to do if you want change from your partner

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Listen to this past episode with Amy:

• • Episode 98: “Standing Up For Yourself Without Being A D*** With Amy Smith”

• Visit Amy’s website here.
• Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose.  Sign up here.
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Welcome to episode 264 of the Love Live Connection podcast! My caller today, Amy, has two issues. She keeps finding herself in the same pattern over and over again, settling for people and relationships she knows she doesn’t want long-term. She also has a fear of being in a committed life-long partnership, even though it’s what she desires.

Self-sabotage like this is more common than you think and can happen for several reasons: confirmation bias, over-identification with the part of ourselves we want to change, fear of vulnerability in allowing and receiving, and worry about what others’ think. So keep all of this in mind for today’s coaching call.

7:16 - Amy describes the pattern she keeps repeating

11:14 - What her fear of success is really about

19:25 - An assignment to help her let her light shine

26:37 - Another good exercise for getting in deep with subconscious fears

31:42 - Recapping the coaching call with Amy

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Are you done with where you are right now?  With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love.  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here.

• Sign up for my new course: BreakUP to BreakTHROUGH

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Welcome to episode 263 of the Love Live Connection podcast. A lot of advice you hear for getting over an ex comes from not just what we say to each other, but also our pop culture. But it can leave you feeling stuck and thinking it’s impossible to do, or you’ll put yourself in a similar situation in your next relationship. So today’s episode is all about getting over an ex, specifically three mistakes that I find a lot of women make in the process.

10:34 - Mistake #1: a dangerous mindset that gets quoted a lot

15:12 - Mistake #2: distractions and staying in busyness mode

17:56 - Mistake #3: forcing yourself to date again or dating too early

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Sign up for my free email course: How to Quickly Get Over Your Ex

• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
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Welcome to episode 262 of the Love Live Connection podcast. Today’s guest, T.J, wants to know that her partner is as serious as she is about commitment. But I need to give a trigger warning: she and I discuss abuse that she’s endured, and her experiences with past abusive relationships affect how she approaches her current relationship.

We don’t go into many details about it, but we do bring it up. So if this is triggering for you, please take care of yourself and don’t listen to this episode. For help with an abusive situation, call 1-800-799-7233 or go to thehotline.org.

8:40​ - Walking TJ through a quick ground process

17:46 - Past abusive relationships, childhood bullying, and their effect on TJ

24:42 - A rundown of what I want TJ to do to heal her inner child

31:30 - TJ’s biggest relationship fear and not putting all her worthiness eggs in one basket

39:04 - What I want you to take away from this episode

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Sign up for my free email course: How to Quickly Get Over Your Ex
• Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up ​here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
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Welcome to this bonus episode of the Love Live Connection podcast! I just want to share one quick thought today based on a question that’s been coming up a lot with my clients: how does money work in a relationship? Who should pay on the first date? Here’s the truth.

3:59 - First date recommendation and having a money conversation for future dates

6:05 - Why it actually might not be fair sharing expenses 50/50

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Link to the episode mentioned:

• EP211: Money, Love and Food

• Sign up for my free email course: How to Quickly Get Over Your Ex

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Welcome to episode 261 of the Love Live Connection podcast. I’ve brought clients on the show before and often tell them that you have to reach mini goals along the way to reach the big goal. So it’s not a failure if you’re not in the relationship that’s going to last forever by the time we’re done working together. Sometimes you just need to get the confidence to start dating again and meet real potential partners, or get over an ex.

My guest today, former client Markie, is a really good example. So much of her life has changed, not just in her love life but in other parts of her life too. In this episode, I let her tell you her story.

12:43​ - Markie before we started working together

17:10 - How inner child work supported her in achieving her wins

21:00 - The transformational shifts she underwent with online dating

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Links to the previous client episodes mentioned:

• • EP127: How to Stop Wanting Men Who Aren’t Interested in You with Sarah
  • EP139: How to Know What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like (with Joanne)

• Are you done with where you are right now?  With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love.  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here.
• Take the free quiz, Discover What’s Blocking You in Love, and get on my newsletter list here.

• Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose.  Sign up here.
• Download the free how-to guide: Finding Love in a Pandemic

• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.

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Welcome to episode 260 of the Love Live Connection podcast! Sandra is really struggling with anxiety and forgiving herself for mistakes she’s made in past relationships. She’s also taking the unfair brunt of the blame for her relationships ending. We’re gonna get into why this is happening to her but also get into the bigger picture of wider things at play subconsciously.

It takes a few minutes to get into the meat of this coaching call, but I highly encourage you to hang in there and listen to the whole episode. We cover a lot of ground, unpack a lot of things, and I think it’ll be an incredibly helpful and transformative experience for you.

6:28 - Questions to keep in mind as you listen to this coaching call

10:05 - Sandra recalls her mother’s behavior in relationships

19:29 - Why parenting the parent gets in the way of your ability to receive love

23:09 - I walk Sandra through an introspective and emotional exercise

27:55 - What Sandra would say to her mom

30:51 - My recommended next steps for Sandra

35:49 - Summary of the call and tying it back to her original question about anxiety

38:29 - Wrapping up with some action steps

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Work closely with me this year to transform your love life. My Love Incubator coaching program is an affordable way to get 1-on-1 coaching calls with me and go deep where you need to. Plus, you’ll be part of a small community of 10 women or less doing the same work and willing to support you. Join us here!

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Welcome to episode 259 of the Love Live Connection podcast, How I Found Love Part 6. Previously, I finally fulfilled a dream of living in a big city, had moved to Washington D.C., and was excited to meet a nice Jewish boy. Things were going really well, but then I took a couple of steps back when I found myself crazy about a guy who wined and dined me. The connection wasn’t really there, so he broke up with me and I was really devastated. Thankfully, I got some sense knocked into me by a good friend and pulled myself together. I’d started online dating, and for the first time in my life dating was really fun no matter what happened (or didn’t). Eventually, it all led me to a Happy Hour hosted by my (then) future husband, Stevie.

5:31 - Finally pursuing Stevie a few weeks later

9:31 - Our first date and the possible Tanzanian bump in the road that wasn’t

13:53 - Deciding to move to Dallas together

16:01 - A trip to Denver and a proposal in Boulder I saw coming

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Listen to the previous episodes in the series:

• • How I Found Love, Part 1
  • How I Found Love, Part 2
  • How I Found Love, Part 3
  • How I Found Love, Part 4
  • How I Found Love, Part 5

• Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose.  Sign up here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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