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Welcome to episode 249 of the Love Live Connection podcast. I’ve brought back my good friend, Veronica Perretti. If you’ve been listening for awhile, you know she’s one of my favorite astrologers. I have her on the show a few times a year, just to give us little astro updates so we can know the energy and its effects on politics, society, and our lives (including our love lives).

This is a longer episode than I intended, but I really think you’re going to love it. Will 2021 be a step up from last year? Maybe...or maybe not. Obviously in our conversation, we only speak of things very broadly. So I highly recommend looking to see where some of the things Veronica’s talking about are playing out in your chart. 

5:22 - 2020 recap where we kicked off with generational conjunction of Saturn and Pluto

12:39 - Saturn loves to put us in our place but we need him for growth

20:00 - Why Veronica P. believes we’re entering an era of Aquarius, but not the Age of Aquarius

25:13 - Uranus in Taurus will force us to make changes on how we treat the planet

32:17 - First half of this year will still be challenging but also a good time to re-access

40:12 - Old friendships and other relationships falling apart and new ones forged

45:00 - Social media and big tech changes coming this year

50:13 - What Veronica P. fears most with all of this Aquarian energy

55:19 - Biden’s very fitting presidential campaign slogan and building for the future with Saturn in Aquarius

1:02:16 - A really good example of astrology using the U.S. Capitol attack

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Links to previous episodes with Veronica Perretti:
• • EP198: 2020 Astrology: Politics, Doing the Work, and Transformation
  • EP213: Venus Retrograde and the Astrology of the Pandemic
  • EP229: The Rest of 2020 Astrology: Your Love Life, Coronavirus, and the U.S. Election
• Check out Veronica Perretti’s website to book a reading, listen to her podcast, join her yoga club, and connect with her on Instagram.
• Join me for the on-demand workshop, Attract Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. This is how to do the deep work and create a thriving relationship in your life without changing who you are.  Sign up here.
• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 here.
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Welcome to episode 248 of the Love Live Connection podcast. Today, I’m having a coaching call with Antoinette. As you listen, keep the following questions in mind: Do you have a habit of escaping certain parts of your life, especially when things feel uncertain or chaotic? Do you check out through travel, work, exercise, Netflix, or something else? Does a part of you believe that a relationship would just be a burden?

In this call, Antoinette reveals her deep rooted feeling that relationships are a burden, feelings of insecurity in her home, tendency to use escapism as an act of avoidance, and how her parents and childhood contribute to it all.

5:25 - Antoinette suspects there’s something wrong with her or her dating approach

11:22 - Feeling a subtle instability undercurrent from being raised by incompatible parents

17:01 - Little Antoinette lack of a group of friends or peers consistently nice to her

24:49 - Feelings of shame associated with home spaces in Antoinette’s past

31:58 - Recapping my conversation with Antoinette

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Welcome to episode 247 of the Love Live Connection podcast. As I acclimate to new parenthood, I’m re-running a series that originally aired on my podcast almost four years ago. 

It’s a 6-part series about how I met my husband, beginning with my first boyfriend in sixth grade. I share with you the ups, downs, and everything in between. For many years in my dating life, a healthy and long-term partnership felt so far away. So my goal with this series is to inspire you and help you see that a relationship is possible for you too, no matter how far off it may feel right now.

7:20 - Embracing the creation of serendipitous moments and envisioning your relationship10:21 - Wanting to find, at age 11, the person I was going to marry and spend forever with13:49 - The best friend I thought about marrying at one point, despite misgivings

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Join me for the on-demand workshop, Attract Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. This is how to do the deep work and create a thriving relationship in your life without changing who you are.  Sign up here.
• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 here.
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Welcome to episode 246 of the Love Live Connection podcast. In today’s coaching episode, we’re joined by Nicole to discuss whether to follow the head or the heart when they contradict each other in relationships. It’s really her 11-year old self asking for help. A history of perfectionism, OCD, seeking the approval of family (especially her parents), and a religious upbringing all combine in her outsourcing her power. So I talk her through doing some inner work and figuring out how to get marriage off the pedestal she’s placed it on. 

7:01 - What Nicole’s head is saying about her current relationship

11:23 - OCD as a child and where Nicole’s perfectionism comes from

17:30 - Nicole’s message to her 11-year-old self and how she’d respond back

20:56 - Revealing Nicole’s misalignment and the work she needs to do

27:45 - Taking note and keeping track of the stories Nicole tells herself 

34:09 - Not liking yet still accepting what your partner does and compromising (or not)

38:35 - Compatibility issues and deciding if the PlayStation situation is a deal-breaker

45:02 - Nicole realizing the need to work on herself rather than find the “perfect” person

48:46 - Reiterating some concrete takeaways from this coaching call

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
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Welcome to a bonus episode of the Love Live Connection podcast! This feels extra special because this is the first episode I’ve recorded since giving birth. As much as this is my business and livelihood, it’s also my creative outlet. So it’s really good to be back podcasting and working with old and new clients again.

Usually, I look back and share some highs and lows (professionally and personally) at the end of the year. But this year has definitely been one for the history books and not one we want to re-live! Since I’ve always liked hearing other people’s birth stories, instead of the usual I thought I’d share with you my birth and fourth-trimester stories instead.

3:20 – Enduring a painful prenatal procedure involving “sweeping the membranes”

11:49 - Why I wanted to avoid an epidural and taking a morphine nap

23:15 - Surprising news, undergoing a big fear of mine, and seeing my baby for the first time

28:40 - Why I couldn’t hold my baby boy for 12 hours

35:19 - Realizing all the dogma about newborn care and delivery doesn’t matter

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my wait list here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
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Welcome to episode 245 of the Love Live Connection podcast, Why High Achieving, Successful Women Struggle in Love

When we talk about independence, we have to talk a little bit about feminine and masculine energy. This is not an episode on feminine and masculine energy. However, I do think it’s important to understand the basics of that, so you can see why being independent can actually be a hindrance and how you can be independent and be in a relationship at the same time

Make sure you listen to the end so you can take those steps and start making changes in your love life

5:41 – What the Independence Complex is and why it can be a hindrance

8:02 - A few examples of how masculine and feminine energy work together

10:52 - How being super independent results in the person in your relationship not feeling needed or able to hold an emotional connection with you

15:36 - Three actions steps to take from this episode

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me  with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my wait list here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
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Welcome to episode 244 of the Love Live Connection podcast, How to Use Fem/Masc Energy to Stop Procrastinating and Get Back on Track With Your Goals With Maureen

I’m speaking with a long time client of mine, Maureen, who’s having trouble leaning into her masculine energy to move her career forward.

I think she described herself as a puddle of feminine energy. She wants to meditate, clean, focus on the self-care inner work, but when it comes to moving her career forward, she feels stuck, and puts off applying to jobs.

In the past, Maureen  used to be very into her masculine energy.  She could achieve any career related thing and knock out any to-do list. She wants to know how she can get back into that.

Maureen thinks her problem is a masculine energy problem, but I disagreed. I think she has a healthier relationship with her masculine energy than she thinks. In reality, the problem is rooted in her feminine energy.

4:45 – Background information on Feminine and masculine energy

9:20 - Maureen asks how to re-engage her Masculine energy after focusing on her feminine energy for so long

10:55 - Maureen describes how her masculine energy felt in the past

15:59 - What it looks like now for Maureen when she tries to get stuff done

18:30 - Maureen may not be dealing with a masculine energy problem

24:48 - Why Maureen’s goal of getting back into the traditional workforce could be the wrong path for her

34:02 - Maureen’s next steps

38:36 - A recap of the coaching call with Maureen 

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me  with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Previous Episodes about Fem/Masc Energy
• • Episode 10 - Honor the Feminine With Shannon Ledford
  • Episode 67 - Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energy for Amazing Relationships With Amanda Gyuran
  • Episode 112 - Three Ways You’re Giving Your Power Away + Embracing the Sacred Masculine
  • Episode 190 - Why High Achieving, Successful Women Struggle in Love
• Previous Episode mentioned quitting something that doesn’t feel right:
• • Episode 158 - Quit Happens
• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 here.
• If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my wait list here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
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Welcome to episode 243 of the Love Live Connection podcast, How to Clear Love Blocks When Your Parents Had a Great Marriage

In today’s coaching episode we’re joined by Alice to talk about clearing love blocks and the inner child work that comes up even if your parents had a wonderful marriage. And be sure to join us for the entire show because, in the end, I’ll share why I didn’t move into some heavier topics during this conversation. It’s going to be really valuable if you’re also a coach, or even coaching yourself. 

2:13 – Alice asks, why is she still single after ending a 20-year relationship 5 years ago. 

4:28 – We explore Alice’s background and childhood. 

6:18 – Do you really want unconditional love? 

10:17 – Alice becomes enlightened, and you can too. 

16:08 – The importance of looking at how you already have what you want in the relationship with yourself. 

18:48 - We dig in to why Alice attracts the wrong people

23:07 – Start taking people off the pedestal, it’s not fair for you or them. 

29:48 – Where I’d go next to help clear more of Alice’s love blocks if I was working with her over time.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me  with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

• Are you done with where you are right now?  Do you want to get serious about finding love in the next 12 months and are you ready to invest the time and money into radically changing your life?  If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my wait list here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
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Welcome to episode 242 of the Love Live Connection podcast, How to Relax in the Early Stages of Dating with Miriam

You know when you’re dating someone you feel excited about, and yet, the anxiety is killing you! You anxiously await text backs, you hate not having plans in place, you want to know how they feel and where this is all going.

My caller Miriam, just started dating someone she’s super excited about… yet the excitement has tipped over into anxiety, to a point where it’s becoming unsustainable.  We talk through some tools she can use to help relax during this early stage of her relationship.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me  with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

4:18 - Miriam asks how to navigate the anxiety she’s feeling in the early stages of dating

6:42 - How Miriam is trying to deal with a wound of not being picked.

13:00 - Tools Miriam can use to help with her negative storytelling

19:00 - The power of not giving your power away

26:57 - A recap of my coaching session with Miriam

• Join me for the new on demand workshop, Attract Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. This is how to do the deep work and create a thriving relationship in your life without changing who you are.  Sign up here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
• Are you interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 241 of the Love Live Connection podcast, Is He Right for Me and How to Know What You Need With Marti

In today’s show, my caller is unsure of how to ask for what she wants and needs in her relationship without being bitchy or naggy. She’s also got these other questions swirling through her head, “Is he right for me?” “How can I ask for what I want without trying to change him?” and “What’s happening long term in this relationship?”

All of these questions can feel overwhelming and cloud the issue at hand which, getting what she needs.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me  with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

3:14 - A list of episodes (linked below) to start with if you are new to the podcast

7:51 - Marti asks for direction with dating 

10:59 - Finding a balance between settling or being too picky

15:05 - How to ask for what you want

36:45 - A walk-through of the Emptying the Vessel technique to help you make big decisions

• Recommended podcasts if you are new and don’t know where to start:  
• • 6 Part series on how I found love and met my husband
  • • Episodes 81, 82, 83, 84, 85, 86
  • 4 Part series on Why You’re attracting Unavailable Men
  • • Episodes 68, 69, 70, 71
  • Top 3 Podcast Downloads - 
  • • Episode 94 - Get Out of the People Pleaser/Narcissistic Relationship Trap
    • Episode 111 - Three Kinds of Relationships You’re Confusing with Love
    • Episode 122 - Dealing with Rejection, the “Pullback” and Texting with Hillary
    • Episode with Link to cheat sheet -  How to Know What You Need in a Relationship Pt. 1 
• If you want to hear the breakdown on why I coached Marti the way I did and the steps I had her take, make sure you listen to the original airing of this episode here.
• Join me for the new on demand workshop, Attract Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. This is how to do the deep work and create a thriving relationship in your life without changing who you are.  Sign up here.
• If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy, to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy, sign up here
• Are you interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
• Are we connected on Instagram? Come tell me WHO you are here!
• Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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