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Welcome to episode 221 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

It’s been a while since I’ve done a heart to heart episode, but with everything going on in the world right now, this is a good time because it absolutely impacts you.  

I’ve been receiving some feedback from my audience about resistance to feeling your feelings around anger or sadness or not wanting to dwell on these feelings.  So, I want to address where this resistance is coming from.  And if you know me, you won’t be surprised to hear me say, it’s in a large part because of the patriarchy.

I’m also addressing how patriarchy has a role in racism and how we contribute to racist structures in our society.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

1:50 - Why what’s going on in the world is related to the work I encourage you to do on the show

8:37 - How the patriarchy is keeping us from doing the deep uncomfortable, emotional work

13:24 - How patriarchy intersects with racism

16:40 - Announcing my new workshop opening up in 2 weeks!

• To sign up to be on the waiting list for my brand new workshop, Your Conscious Online Dating Blueprint, where we work to align your inner work and the outer strategy, sign up here  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
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• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 220 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I’m really excited about today’s episode because I will be debunking the myth that love is unconditional.  I’ll be talking with Carrie who is struggling with a pattern of running from relationships at the first sign of struggle.  We trace back to her childhood and find out where this pattern came from.  But the biggest takeaway from our conversation is the realization of the difference between unconditional love and unconditional acceptance.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

2:20 - Debunking the myth that love is unconditional

4:45 - Carrie describes the pattern she’s seeing in herself

6:09 - The fear Carrie has that creates the pattern and where that fear stems from

10:30 - Carrie talks about how it felt to be the 6 or 7-year-old who didn’t feel unconditional love

12:30 - The difference between unconditional love and unconditional acceptance

15:15 - I ask Carrie to remember what it was like to feel the love she felt from her grandparents

19:40 - What Carrie learned from our discussion

24:37 - Why I want you to ask yourself if unconditional love is what you really want

28:46 - What IS important in a romantic relationship

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Welcome to episode 219 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

Anger and forgiveness are important emotions that I think are widely misused and misunderstood.  In today’s episode, I’m addressing these misconceptions and explaining why they’re important to your growth.  I’ll also explain how to work through these emotions in a way that encourages healing rather than bypassing or gaslighting yourself. 

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

7:50 - Why I’m Addressing anger and forgiveness

9:25 -  What anger is and the misconceptions associated with it

11:49 - Definition of forgiveness

14:05 -  Why anger and forgiveness are so important to your growth

18:05 - How to work with both anger and forgiveness in a healthy way

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
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• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 218 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I think this is one of the more powerful episodes I’ve ever done.  I do some deep work with Baraba, revealing some pain and anger she’s been holding on to for most of her life.  Barbara was aware of her patterns and where they originated but wasn’t sure how to change them.  

Facing the pain at the core of your issue and feeling it is uncomfortable but necessary to heal.  The discomfort you feel in the moment will result in a meaningful long term relationship.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

3:39 - My thought for the week about emotional processing work I still need to do

8:53 - Barba presents her question: She knows she has an anxious attachment style but wants to know how to change her mindset 

13:45 - We dig into why Barabara stayed in a bad relationship for 12 years 

19:10- I ask Barbara what she would say to her abuser, her step-father

25:08 - I encourage Barba to continue to feel her anger and work through it

28:38 - Why anger is a really important emotion

32:03 - I recap my call with Barbara

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
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• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 217 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

In today’s episode, I’m going to go over three of the most common limiting beliefs I get from my clients about online dating.  I’ll break them down and then discuss how to move past each block.

If you find yourself struggling with online dating, I’m also presenting an opportunity to sign up for a workshop that addresses this.  Online dating doesn’t have to drain your energy.  You can actually meet someone and not hate the process!

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

1:54 - My experience with online dating

3:45 - The number one limiting belief about online dating I hear from my clients

9:00 - The second limiting belief I hear all the time

13:47 - The third limiting belief I hear

17:18 - An opportunity to join a workshop I’m holding about conscious online dating. 

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
• If you would like to join my Online Dating Workshop make sure you’re on my email list and look for an email from me coming out about this next week, or send me a DM on Instagram or send me an email, [email protected] and tell me you want info. There are only 30 spots available and only $99, so I expect this to fill up quickly.
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 216 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

In this episode, we are talking with Bridgette who is struggling with a pattern of running from relationships when things get rocky.  But as you might have guessed, Bridgette’s pattern isn’t really the problem.  As the discussion progresses, we get to the core of the issue by digging deeper into her childhood.  In Bridgette’s case, an unstable childhood prompted her to create a very stable life where she has complete control.  This control plays into Bridgette’s pattern as wanting something to feel a certain way in her relationships so that she feels secure. 

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

3:39 - Introduction to Bridgette who struggles with the pattern of running when things get rocky in a relationship 

6:16 - Bridgette presents her struggle with her recurring pattern

9:10 - Bridgette describes her childhood

11:23 - We do some inner child work and discover Bridgette needs to re-mother herself

13:10 - The types of relationships Bridgette is attracting

20:48 - How to determine if what you’re feeling is intuition or fear

23:40 - Bridgette talks about her takeaways

26:27 - Bridgette describes her expectations in a relationship  and whether or not they are realistic

35:06 - I breakdown the coaching session with Bridgette

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Are you ready for a love-life intensive? You could be a good fit for my Love Incubator program.  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 215 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

Believe it or not, this is actually a really exciting time to date.  It’s easy to feel like you are missing out on finding that special person during this quarantine.  But in today’s episode, I go over five tips to make dating during this pandemic easier.  This is an opportunity to try something different, so why not embrace it?

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

2:04 - An update on my life

5:55 - Why focusing on inner work is the first thing to focus on during this pandemic

10:48 - How to get excited about having fewer distractions

13:59 - Why this is a good opportunity to develop emotional attraction before physical attraction

17:12 - Why it is so important to use discernment when it comes to online dating

21:40 - How to make dating intentional, and nothing something to do to fill some time

25:39 - Why this is an opportunity

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Are you ready for a love-life intensive? You could be a good fit for my Love Incubator program.  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
• Are we connected on Instagram? Come tell me WHO you are here!
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Welcome to episode 214 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

In this episode, I am coaching Sherry who has a pattern of always wanting to be somewhere she’s not.  Together, we do some inner child work to find out why she feels this way.  But knowing the why is just the start of working through her triggers and emotional blocks.  Learning to manage them as they come up is an ongoing process.  Tune in to find out what the four layers of sustainable transformation are and how to put them to practice. 

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

4:40  - I introduce Sherry who has a pattern of always wanting to be somewhere she’s not 

7:00 - Sherry joins us and presents her block 

10:30 - Sherry digs deep and reveals where this all may be coming from

13:00 - Self-worthiness is not the root issue - we work through what IS

17:12 - Why it’s so important to have a good relationship with yourself and how to nurture that relationship

26:03 - Sherry asks how she can incorporate the practice of being at one with herself to help stop her destructive pattern

35:04 - I recap takeaways from today’s show

• If you are interested in being coached by me to do some inner child work, sign up for The Inner Child Work Mini Coaching Program here
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Are you ready for a love-life intensive? You could be a good fit for my Love Incubator program.  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
• Are we connected on Instagram? Come tell me WHO you are here!
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Welcome to April’s bonus episode of the Love Live Connection podcast.

Today, I’m sharing a special announcement with you:  Tomorrow, I am releasing a brand new course, Crappy to Happy.  In this two week course, you learn what your love blocks are, and how to clear them and find love.  I am really excited to share a sample of this course with you.  I hope you find this helpful and it turns on some light bulbs for you.  It will also give you an idea of my style of coaching and what you can expect from the course if you decide to sign up.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

1:28 - Special Announcement about my new course on inner child work, Crappy to Happy

5:41 - Start of Lesson 1, Part 1 of my new 2-week course

7:33 - What you will learn in Part one

8:16 - Why time does not heal all wounds

10:21 - Why we attract people or situations similar to our parents or experiences from childhood

15:01 - Why everyone has inner child wounds

• If you are interested in my two-week course to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Are you ready for a love-life intensive? You could be a good fit for my Love Incubator program.  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
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Welcome to episode 213 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

With so much going on in the world right now, it’s really interesting to note that Venus is getting ready to go into retrograde.  So today we are talking to Veronica Perretti from The Essential Astrocast about how this affects our love lives, relationships, and business partnerships.  I also couldn’t resist asking Veronica about how Pluto’s role in the COVID-19 pandemic is playing out.

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or send me an email with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

4:15 - Why Venus  going into retrograde ties in so well with this show

5:20 - Questions we should ask ourselves about what we want life to look like once the pandemic is over

13:30 - Veronica Perretti explains who Venus is, what she rules, and what parts of our lives she influences

19:30 - What it means for Venus to be in Gemini

23:22 - What happens once Venus goes retrograde

30:11 - How we can do inner child work while Venus is in retrograde

34:47 - How Venus in retrograde will affect people who have Venus, Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius in their chart

38:33 - Veronica Perretti talks about the astrology of the pandemic

• If you’re interested in finding out more about astrology, head over to Veronica Perritti’s website, listen to her podcast and read her blog here, or connect with her on Instagram, and find out how to do yoga with her here
• If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website
• Are you ready for a love-life intensive? You could be a good fit for my Love Incubator program.  
• Check out my brand new free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life
• Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here.
• Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here.
• Are we connected on Instagram? Come tell me WHO you are here!
• If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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