Ruwando Podcast

Reality is a set of agreements.

This is a reading + commentary on a new post on substack on the nature of subjective reality: The process of brainwashing used by ideologies as seen in politics, communities, and of course, cults.

It includes from excerpts from my book, ORGSM, A Memoir.

I'll be posting more analyses + excerpts from my next book, ANIMA: The 5 Aspects of the Feminine Unconscious on substack:

Ruwando.substack.com

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ORGSM, A Memoir is my true story of being in a female-led cult where I learned deep truths about f***ing and mindf***ing.

It's already the #1 New Release in the Psych/Human Sxuality, Memoirs/Deceptions, and Cults categories; & already top 5 bestseller.

I connected with Sascha over a post he made of “why women in their 40’s are the unhappiest ever.” Whether that’s true or not, it’s food for important conversation about modern dating and relationships.

Sascha Haert is a coach for women. Tbh, I used to have a lot of judgement of men who coach women (and of women who only coach men). But he has a lot of great insight on: Why successful women hardly find love, what’s important in the bedroom, why women resent men so much these days, how woman makes space for a man in life, what kind of woman do men want in a relationships, and exploring: do women understand the power they hold?

We’re two men commenting on the plight of women, so take it with some salt. However, Sascha has a lot of knowledge from the many women he’s helped.

00:00 Women in their 40s are the unhappiest ever

02:13 Getting lost trying to become a masculine woman

06:51 How to be a good father to a daughter

07:59 Woman making space for a man in life

12:07 Why women resent men so much

15:03 Be yourself in order to be liked

19:02 How Sascha became a coach for women

29:00 Fathers shape daughters’ relation to relationship

31:00 Sexual liberation of women

33:35 Open relationships yes or no

46:26 Sascha’s work

48:50 There’s too much competition between sexes

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Working with horses is the most profound thing I've done in many years. Most recently I've been training with Sergio Faerman.

Sergio is a former semi-pro MMA fighter, horse therapy trainer, and “gaucho” (Latin American tradition of cowboy). He and I first met training MMA, and I’ve been training in horse riding with him.We discuss why men need to learn horseriding, how horses teach you to be a healthy leader (horses teach you how to be balanced in dominance and empathy), what therapy with horses looks like, how horses can show you your trauma, and more.Connect with Sergio on IG (English or Spanish) https://www.instagram.com/sergiofaerman/We MAY run a retreat together next year with horses. If you’re interested, shoot me a message.00:00 Intro05:15 Horses can talk09:27 The story about natives11:45 Horses teach you how to be a healthy leader24:40 The connection between horses and girls36:00 Horses show you your traumas42:08 Electromagnetic field carries information45:40 Finding your life purpose is everything48:52 Truly connecting with creation52:00 Do horses have alpha males in herd?56:00 Testosterone can be dangerous01:01:01 Sergio’s work with horses

Justin Nault is a nutrition therapist. We have a fascinating discussion on metabolic health, hormones, nutrition, and the mind.Justin on IG: @justinnaultofficialHis supplement company: iamclovis.com00:00 Guest Introduction: Who Is Justin?00:56 Justin's Music Career and Body Dysmorphia01:33 Journey Into Health and Wellness04:10 Plant Medicine and Life Changes04:46 Nutrition and the Paleo Diet05:42 Savannah's Story and the Birth of a New Mission08:55 The Problem with Seed Oils12:32 Understanding Human Metabolism19:28 Training Methodologies and Health24:48 Cultural and Psychological Aspects of Health27:45 The Harmful Goggins Mentality28:49 Small Wins and Building Momentum29:48 Critique of Plant Medicine and Avoidance Pattern31:22 Personal Journey and Recovery Insights32:43 Nutrition and Recovery Tips35:04 Balancing Self-Love and Ambition37:38 The Importance of Individualized Advice41:48 Good vs. Evil and Integrating the Shadow49:08 The Complexity of Critical Thinking50:24 Connecting and Offering Guidance

Justin Nault is a nutrition therapist. We have a fascinating discussion on metabolic health, hormones, nutrition, and the mind.

Justin on IG: @justinnaultofficial

His supplement company: iamclovis.com

00:00 Guest Introduction: Who Is Justin?

00:56 Justin's Music Career and Body Dysmorphia

01:33 Journey Into Health and Wellness

04:10 Plant Medicine and Life Changes

04:46 Nutrition and the Paleo Diet

05:42 Savannah's Story and the Birth of a New Mission

08:55 The Problem with Seed Oils

12:32 Understanding Human Metabolism

19:28 Training Methodologies and Health

24:48 Cultural and Psychological Aspects of Health

27:45 The Harmful Goggins Mentality

28:49 Small Wins and Building Momentum

29:48 Critique of Plant Medicine and Avoidance Pattern

31:22 Personal Journey and Recovery Insights

32:43 Nutrition and Recovery Tips

35:04 Balancing Self-Love and Ambition

37:38 The Importance of Individualized Advice

41:48 Good vs. Evil and Integrating the Shadow

49:08 The Complexity of Critical Thinking

50:24 Connecting and Offering Guidance

Netflix’s Adolescence has sparked much debate around masculinity. Is it feminist propaganda? Or an important awakening around the “manosphere”?

I analyze the series from the perspective of the male collective unconscious: What the show got right, what it got wrong, and how it fits in with modern culture, including Andrew Tate, redpill, the manosphere, Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, and more.

Video version: https://youtu.be/N3PQ_K84kk4?si=OLqIzdmq0YOwOCE_

00:00 Introduction to Adolescence on Netflix

00:45 Personal Reactions and Empathy

01:29 Two Major Psychological Themes

04:01 Incel Psychology

08:35 Personal Reflections on Adolescence

19:46 The Red Pill and Manosphere

23:14 Propaganda and Cultural Implications

28:22 Self Esteem vs. Respect

28:54 The Secondary Father (Joseph Camp)

29:12 The Hero's Journey and Male Psychology

30:51 The Role of the Secondary Father in Development

32:23 Personal Experience with Secondary Fathers

34:52 The Impact of Parental Approval

39:33 The Struggle with Male Anger and Pain

42:00 The Influence of Modern Masculine Role Models

52:58 The Need for Striving for Excellence

56:28 Final Thoughts and Conclusion

Beside talking about his transformation and becoming a masculine man again, Miiska talks about losing his father and how the grief has shaped him into a stronger man. Miiska Van Renterghem is Finland’s #1 men’s coach and personal development podcaster. He’s also a good buddy and former client of mine.

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Why do women like possessive men? Miiska returns to the podcast to discuss dating and relationships. Plus, his major life changes: his new found fame and recent death of his father. Miiska Van Renterghem is Finland’s #1 men’s coach and personal development podcaster. He’s also a good buddy and former client of mine.

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00:00 Miiska’s story of becoming masculine

03:45 Shifting from liberal to more conservative

07:10 The importance of relaxation

09:20 Why are women sexually more vulnerable than men

14:24 Guys are more insecure when having little sexual experience

18:20 Women with relationship trauma

21:26 Being responsible with one night stands

26:58 Open relationships

30:42 How to deal with losing a father

51:55 Are all your affairs in order?

Why do women like possessive men? What are the virtues you want in your girlfriend, really? And does a perfect girlfriend exist?

Miiska returns to the podcast to discuss dating and relationships. Plus, his major life changes: his new found fame and recent death of his father.

Miiska Van Renterghem is Finland’s #1 men’s coach and personal development podcaster. He’s also a good buddy and former client of mine.

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00:00 Miiska’s story of becoming masculine

03:45 Shifting from liberal to more conservative

06:56 The importance of relaxation

09:04 Why are women sexually more vulnerable than men

14:09 Guys are more insecure when having little sexual experience

18:05 Women with relationship trauma

21:12 Being responsible with one night stands

26:43 Open relationships

30:27 How to deal with losing a father

51:45 Are all your affairs in order?