In this episode, Chilli and I explore the situation of someone who is considering to break off her engagement after meeting a guy that makes her heart skipped a beat. It might sound crazy without deeper context, but going through the different layers we realized there are more questions to be asked before one commits.

And in this episode, we try to find out!

In this episode, I would like to share a weird thought on how we should do what we hate.

Isn't what we hate almost always out of our comfort zone? isn't it always the thing we hate most; and the reason we procrastinate?

Sometimes it takes embracing what we hate or applying abit of what we love to make whatever we dislike alittle less "hateful" and we would eventually embrace this new "comfort" zone and keep pushing forward.

So would it be somewhat true to say that "constantly doing what we hate would eventually lead us to what we love?"

In this episode we decided to pick another angle of a relationship; this time not romantic but of a friendship.

What would you do if your long-time best friend decided to suddenly ghost you? leaving you out there waiting, not even dropping a courtesy text to you that he/she is going to cancel on you. Meanwhile, you're just waiting at the mall/cafe for him, and it took you afew hours of waiting to realize that they aren't coming anymore. Would you give up on this seemingly one-sided friendship?

What would you do?

This is an odd episode as I feel like I need to talk it out to myself.

It hasn't been easy managing a discord community; moreover a close-knitted one with regular meet-ups and such.

As everyone has a name, a face and a story, this makes it trickier when disputes and conflicts arises.

In a large enough discord community with daily activities; human drama is bound to happen.

And here is me, trying to get it all together.

In this episode, we explore one of the situation on reddit where by the guy was being rejected after tryng to ask his friend to be his fwb; only to know that she ends up warning other people about it. On the other hand things get complicated when he felt he as no fault and she would only "affect" his chances of getting on with other girls.

It's a tricky situation but Chilli and I are here to dissect, react and discuss!

in this episode, I'd like to share some of my thoughts when I was thinking back about my past relationships and feeling that they where all the right one, just that they weren't there forever.

Calling it the right one but wrong time seems wrong, but how is it the wrong time when it was actually the right time; perhaps the right amount of time. Hence; not forever :' )

A rye off the bat poetry performance on the beauty of what it could have been; the perfect imperfect Schrödinger's (cat) Pandora box of what might or might not happen. It could have been, a phase that relates and connects all of us together, but at the same time disconnects our present to the future that... "could have been".

What would you do if you kept receiving explicit photos from your friend, or if you knew your friend is viewing you in a sexual way? When is No and definitely No and how should we keep our distance and set our boundaries? How about finding out your boyfriend is keeping sensitive photos of his friends and secretly taking photos of you?

In this episode, we discuss and explore how such compromising media has become a part of relationships. Would it let you break yourself? how would you navigate such tough situations?

Do you keep items from your past relationship after your breakups? From functional items like clothing, or wallet to emotional items like letters, there are a huge variety of items that still stays in our life even though our lover doesn't. So how much of those do you keep?

In this episode, we share about how we felt interacting with such "trinkets" after the relationship, and sometimes it could be a reminder of how far we have gone, or perhaps a bittersweet one to remind us that... "it's been a good ride"