This week we’re joined by a member of generation (se)X to all about growing up as a “fast” black girl in the 1980s, discovering sexual autonomy and kink at 50+, middle age f*ckboys, sexless marriages, infidelity, words of wisdom to millennials and get Z and much more. 

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s1XrNZZZfbc

Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all things sex, love, and dating as a Black woman a part of generation X

Points of discussion include: Adoption, Ancestry (dot) com, secret families, fibroids, reproductive health, forced & coerced sterilizations of black women, medical mistreatment of young black girls, bodily autonomy, true romance magazines, contraceptive, birth control sponge, dating as a teen parent in the 80s, 90s dating for black women, takes a village, AIDs epidemic, marital sex issues, an affair, infidelity, couples therapy, single motherhood, tying your tubes, paternalistic gynecologist,  sexual exploration and and your agency  post 50,    kinky communities,  couples therapy, the BBB lit events, 50 year old fuckboys, having the talk with you kids, words of wisdom from gen X to millennials. 

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CONTENT WARNING(S)

To skip a a conversation surrounding suicide avoid this section of the episode: 48:48 - 49:29

SUICIDE PREVENTION RESOURCES

If you are in  suicidal crisis or emotional distress, use the contact info below to get help:

United States: Contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (the Lifeline) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Crisis workers are available 24 hours a day. Calls are free and confidential.

Other countries & regions: To find a crisis center in your area, go to the International Association for Suicide Prevention website: https://findahelpline.com/i/iasp 

How to help someone you know: 

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/help-someone-else/

https://www.befrienders.org/helping-a-friend

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@being_melli

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MUSIC

Love and light to the artists who have lent their music to the pod!  Our opening is a remix of “Queen S%!T” by SheReal (https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by) We also play  “Everyday”  and “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst (https://twitter.com/wavghxst)

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