Ever since the election, Sandy Ernest Allen has been clocking a strange silence from cis people about trans rights. So Sandy reached into the void to hear what the silence had to say.

From the episode: 

— Sandy Ernest Allen — writes the newsletter What's Helping Today:  www.sandyernestallen.com

— "To Cis People Who Feel Despair" — Sandy's guide to supporting trans people

— The post on Bluesky: @sandyernestallen

— Support Sandy's writing: https://buymeacoffee.com/sandyallen

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