The PDA Parenting Podcast

Scaffolding Through Life Transitions: Supporting PDA Teens with Safety & Collaboration


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Parenting a PDA teen means our role is always evolving - and nowhere is that more clear than during big life transitions like starting college, a first job, or moving away from home. In this episode of The PDA Parenting Podcast, Amy Kotha shares how scaffolding, cues of safety, and collaborative strategies can help PDA teens and young adults navigate overwhelming changes without collapsing under the weight of demands.

Drawing on neuroscience, polyvagal theory, and her own experience supporting her PDA autistic daughter as she transitioned into college life, Amy explores:

  • What scaffolding really means for PDA kids, teens, and young adults
  • Why cues of safety* (sensory, emotional, relational) are not extras but nervous system essentials
  • How to lower demands and support autonomy through collaboration
  • What these transitions mean for parents, whose nervous systems are also adapting and shifting

Whether your child is starting a new school year, leaving home, or facing any big change, this episode will help you reframe scaffolding as a strength - a bridge toward growth, safety, and connection.

Because while this path is hard, your presence, your love, your being - is enough.


* Gobbel, R. (Host). (2020–present). The Parenting After Trauma Podcast [Audio podcast]. Robyn Gobbel, LLC. https://robyngobbel.com/podcast

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