Your 3 year old is lying on the floor screaming his head off for no/every reason. Do you gently encourage him, "Sweetie, use your words!" or do you hold his chin just a teeny bit too hard and hiss, "Knock it off before I really give you something to cry about?!"" Well, that all depends who is watching, of course!! This episode is all about parenting in public vs parenting in private.